I got this sad report through the Kings College grapevine this afternoon:
A Canadian soldier in Afghanistan is in critical but stable condition after being attacked by a man wielding an axe during a meeting with tribal elders today. The reservist soldier, Lieutenant Trevor Greene, of Vancouver was initially taken to the Canadian-led multinational hospital at Kandahar Airfield where he underwent treatment for head wounds. He will now be airlifted to the U.S. medical facility in Landstuhl, Germany, said CTV’s Steve Chao, in Kandahar. Early reports suggested Greene was injured in a firefight with insurgents. It was later learned that he was attacked during a sit-down meeting with tribal elders when a man struck him in the back of the neck with an axe.
Trevor was a couple of years behind me in undergrad but Kings being so small we certainly knew each other, played intramurals, argued over the merits of pre- or post-Wham George Michaels and shared beers. It is quite the thing, 20 odd years after the age folk sign up, that Trevor was still ready and able to volunteer as a reservist. Thoughts today are with him.
In addition to be an officer in the Canadian reserves, Trevor is an author and journalist who wrote on the killings of prostitutes in Vancouver which are now the subject matter of the Pickton trial. More here and here and here and here.
Update, March 8: more stories on Trevor and his condition here, here, here, here and here.
Update, March 9: There is an interview in the Toronto Star with Trevor’s Dad. More here.
Update, March 10: A good story in the Vancouver Sun today about Trevor’s time in the navy.
Update, March 11: here is a CBC radio interview with Trevor’s Dad, Richard Greene. The link should open a real audio player and the interview is about 6 minutes long. [Later] Here is a story from CTV about improvement in Trevor’s health over the last few days.
Update, March 13: Here is a story from the Ottawa Citizen today with updated information on the state of Trevor’s health.
Update, March 15: Trevor’s back in Vancouver.
Update, March 22: Stephen Kimber (who knows Trevor as a Journalism professor at Kings then and now – and who posted in the comments below) wrote this article on the attack on Trevor.
Update, March 29: Barb in Vancouver has posted an update.
Update, April 26: Debbie has posted an update on the great improvements on Trevor over here.
Update, April 27-28: news updates of Debbie’s comment posting here and here and here and here.
Update, 29 April 2006: our pal Stephen Maher has a very good essay in the Chronical Herald today.
Update, 14 September 2006: there was an update on Trevor’s condition in the Vancouver Sun this week.
Update, 21 October 2006: there was an update in the Globe and Mail this morning with lots of quotes from lots of you. Funny – I have never seen the words “Mr.” and “Gibson” placed together in that way. Sounds like Trevor is moving forward.
Update, 16 December 2006: The Toronto Star has an article on Trevor’s recovery in this morning’s paper.
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More detail here. Apparently the meeting was to be about the reconstruction projects in the area including schools.
Such a horrible, cowardly attack – especially in light of the nature of his mission. Lt. Greene and his family will be in my thoughts. I hope Soldiers’ Angels can help get info to his family – please let us know if you hear more on his condition!
I got to know Trevor during his research for his book ‘Bad Date,’ about Vancouver’s missing eastside women. We met for the first time in Starbucks on Davie Street and I immediately felt comfortable with him talking about the disappearance of my friend and over the few years that we corresponded, knew him as a compassionate and dedicated human being. My thoughts and prayers are with Trevor, his family and friends.
They didn’t heed my warnings Al. Those jihadis are going to find out(personal, up close and) that they just signed their own death warrants.
It was a shock to log on to the BBC website and see Trevor Greene’s name among those injured in Afghanistan. I worked with Trevor for a time when he was in Tokyo, before he joined the Canadian forces. Removing his helmet as a mark of respect, drinking tea with the villagers and trying to work out what he could do to help is just the kind of thing he would have been doing. I sincerely hope he makes a full recovery.
I went to King’s with Trevor. We slogged through the journalism program together and I was fortunate enough to have shared hosting duties with him for our radio class.
He was a well-loved fella who enjoyed the King’s experience. In an odd way when we leave our chums and move forward to build our lives we remember them frozen in time. We get occasional updates about marriages, babies and the regular life stuff.
I was shocked to hear about what had happened to him. Hits a little too close to home.
Thoughts sent out to him and his family and prayers for a speedy recovery.
I’ve got a connection with SA in Germany, who has introduced me to the Cdn Captain that takes care of our injured & their families. Wishes for Trevor & others put in my comment section will go directly to that Captain for distribution to the soldiers & their families.
http://wakinguponplanetx.blogspot.com/2006/03/injured-soldiers-in-germany.html
Thanks Candace. What a remarkable volunteer calling.
We were shocked to hear the news of this cowardly attack during the peace keeping mission. Our family knew Trevor when he was a young man in high school dating our younger sister. The references to this Canadian Soldier’s character both as a private citizen and as a Soldier, match that of the younger man that came knocking on our door many years ago. Our thoughts and prayers are with Trevor, his friends and family on the West Coast, and his family in the Ottawa Area. Hopefully, he will make a full and speedy recovery.
I was at King’s with Trevor — I wasn’t a great friend of his, but I was saddened to hear this news. Another way of getting messages to Trevor’s family is through his friend and colleague Shane Gibson: shane@closingbigger.com
Trevor and I were in the Seaforth Highlanders together, until I moved away. We also lived in the same neighborhood, and often saw each other at breakfast at Melriches. He being an officer, and I not, I did not know him super well. I did, however, know that he cared deeply about his job, and about Canada, but was without pretension. I saw him last in July 2005; he was very excited about deploying to Afghanistan. The attack on him was the mark of a coward, unsettling, given the humanitarian nature of Trevor’s mission.
I just found out about this this morning. I worked with Trevor for a few months at a dot-com in 2000, before a big round of layoffs. I didn’t know him really well, but our jobs overlapped from time to time, and he was one of most genuinely decent people I’ve met.
My prayers go out to Trevor and to his family.
Alan, I’m putting together a file with comments for the soldiers & particularly Captain Greene’s family. Can I cut & paste your post & comments for them? (I’m not sure how much internet access they may have, or how IT savvy they may be, otherwise I’d provide a link). Let me know via email, please.
Thanks.
Sure, Candace, that would be fine.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Trevor. I still remember working on your model airplane kit so many years ago.
I grew up on the same street as Trevor. Him and his family are exceptional people. I wish him a speedy recovery.
I also went to King’s with Trev, we graduated the 4-year journalism program together. We shared a lot in those four years and I remember Trevor very fondly. I am in shock, like the rest of you, perhaps naively, that this could happen to someone we know and love. I just keep thinking, man, he is going to be so pissed if he dies, because he’s gonna want to write about this!!
Love and hugs to his family. We are thinking of Trev and sending our positive vibes for his recovery.
Hi Sara, thanks for that and reminding me that Trvor was a four year journalism guy. I recall him in basketball as well.
Hey guys,
I seem to be just another person who has been touched by Trevor throughout his amazing and selfless life. Trevor and I did our officer training together in C.F.B. Gagetown in 2002. The nature of military training often allows you to get to know someone very well during a short period of time. Through the two months we spent together I found Trevor to be a very mature, responsible, and dedicated soldier. He was older than most of us, but definately proved his physical and mental toughness during the days without sleep and constant stress of leadership training. But we had a great time in Gagetown. Trevor has a wonderful sense of humour and one of the images I’m sure I share with those who know him is his intense and honest smile.
All infantry officers share a common thread and none of us go through the difficulties of training and command without knowing why we are there. For Trevor it is obvious: he cares about people. He volunteered for Afghanistan, not for the money, danger, or adventure, but because he wanted to use his abilities and position to make a difference. Unfortunately, he has now been given the opportunity to make a difference in the hearts and minds of Canadians who have somehow been affected by his recent experience.
Our political and military leadership have been telling us for months that Afghanistan is about to become a much more dangerous place for Canadians. Men like Trevor, who want to make a difference, and are making a difference, need our support now more than ever. Please give them your support and demonstrate your appreciation in any way you can.
Thanks for the opportunity to share my thoughts.
I am a voice from Trevor’s distant past! Trevor and my late son, David, played minor football together for the “Blackburn Bengals” here in Ottawa some 25-30 years ago and it was with shock and dismay that I realized who had been atttacked. He was one of the nicest kids you would ever want to meet. I was officially (or otherwise) the “President” of the Bengals (3 teams for kids from 8 to 16) and Trev’s Dad, Dick, was the Manager of the team that Trevor (receiver) and David (QB) played on, so Dick and I spent many an evening wandering the sidelines or sitting in a car “shooting the breeze” while waiting for practice to end! I was so pleased (and not surprised) to learn that he has been such a success in the world of journalism and authorship. We are all praying, I am sure, for his full recovery.
John D. Rowe,
North Gower, ON (a “rural” area of the new City of Ottawa)
I’ve posted an update. Regarding Trevor, he’s still in a medically-induced coma. His family (the bulk of it) is there now & holding up well, according to the Captain.
The injury sounds terrible, but a lot of people have made amazing recoveries from exactly this sort of injury in recent years. Hope this is one of those cases.
Kings College in Halifax has put out this press release this afternoon.
This is a great site – thanks for setting this up. I too have known Trevor for many years – since we were in High School together at Cairine Wilson in Orleans. We have stayed in touch over the years and Trevor attended Kings while I attended Dal. I, like many others, was shocked when I heard the news on Saturday – disbelief – could there be another Trevor Greene? I am looking for the sense in what happened, but I guess Trevor, who is very dedicated to all causes he takes on, surely knows the answer to that. If his parents/family are reading these messages, I am thinking about you daily and looking forward to a full recovery.
I hope that other Cairine Wilson students find their way to this site.
I was also a King’s student with Trevor. We went to Japan together in September 1988 and had some great times. I was convinced he was never going to be able to learn Japanese! He proved me wrong, big time. I think he is the type of person that touches everyone he comes across. All my prayers and best wishes.
Hello everyone,
Trevor has been one of my closest friends for close to 20 years. We rowed in University together and stayed in close contact as we often lived in the same city as eachother. We are co-presidents together of the University of King’s College BC Alumni Chapter. It is your prayers and support and positive wishes that are getting his family through right now. His fiance Deb wanted me to pass that message along.
I would like to invite any of you in the Vancouver region to join the close friends of his fiance Deb, myself and another dear friend of Trevor’s from King’s, Clare McIntyre at a Positive Thoughts Gathering – the invite is below. If you can’t join us, we encourage you to send your good thoughts Trevor’s way during his time of healing.
A Positive Thoughts Gathering For Captain Trevor Greene – Wednesday March 8, 2006 at 7pm
In an effort to send strength to Captain Trevor Greene and his family, please join us in a positive thoughts gathering at Jericho Beach in Vancouver (directions below) on Wednesday March 8 at 7pm.
Your thoughts are very much appreciated at this sensitive time in his recovery. Thank you for your continued support during this difficult time.
This important gathering is rain or shine so please dress warmly, bring an umbrella, a covered candle, a flashlight and your positive thoughts. Feel free to forward this invitation to others who would be interested in attending this private gathering.
Directions to Jericho Beach:
– travel west on 4th Avenue in Vancouver
– turn right on NW Marine Drive
– turn right on Discovery Street (just before the the white Jehrico Arts Center Building)
– veer right towards the Jericho Beach Sailing Club and parking lot
– proceed to the beach access point to the left of the Jericho Beach Sailing Club (as you are facing
the water)
Thank you,
Barb Stegemann
I just sent this link to Trevor’s family. They may pick it up in Germany. As you can imagine, they probably won’t spend much time logged in but I know we are all finding comfort in the kind words and thoughts.
Cousin Mickey
For those of you leaving messages, I am continuing to monitor them & forward them to Germany where a hard copy is printed & given to the family so they can focus on whatever it is they need to do. Alan, I hope to be in touch with the Chaplain tomorrow (the Captain I’m dealing with is understandably busy) – I will email you the contact info (with, I’m sure, his permission) to forward to KC.
Thanks Candace. And others, glad this short post of mine is turning out to be something so positive for you all. Barb, say Hi to Clare. I know her and here brother Macky from Kings days.
Just a brief note to thank you for setting up this site and ask you to pass on to Trevor’s family that we’re all thinking of him here at King’s and hoping for his complete recovery.
Trevor was a student of mine during his time in the journalism school and we kept in touch sporadically over the years. What I remember most clearly is his eternal optimism and belief that any problem could be overcome if you put your mind to it. Which is probably what led him to Afghanistan.
Still, I was stunned, almost disbelieving when I first learned the news of the attack on Sunday. Trevor and I last emailed a bit when he was doing his bad date book, but I hadn’t realized he’d joined the military and certainly didn’t know he’d been deployed to Afghanistan. At first, I couldn’t connect all the dots, but the more I read about what he’d been doing over there and his optimistic dream of helping out the Afghan people, even after he leaves the military, I couldn’t help thinking, “That’s Trevor.”
I know how difficult this must be for Trevor’s many, many friends. Please know only that we are all thinking of him and all of you at this time, and just trying to be as optimistic and positive as Trevor would be.
Take care,
Stephen
Just to let people know how much concern there is for Trevor’s well being, the list below from my web site administration statistics shows how many people are looking for information on the web and have come to this post on my blog just over a few minutes. From IP addresses moving by I can see many old school mates being among the concerned. I hope being able to share a bit is helping:
Hello all,
I graduated with Trevor and others who’ve posted to this site. Some of us gathered at King’s this summer past, including Trevor, Briggsy, Ellis, Mills, Dunc, Steele, Chis, Maher, Tuck et al et al, the boys at 40, filling the Wardroom with hee-haw and passing beers in the quad on a beautiful, soft night. We all went back to my hotel room and I’m proud to say we were asked twice to turn the music down. I’m in a wheelchair now and upon returning home I was telling my friends how far I had to tilt back my head to talk with Trevor, he’s so tall. I also spoke with pride about this tall buddy who was going to A-Stan and putting more weight on his strong shoulders. Everybody here is praying hard too, sending messages of love, hope and recovery all the way around the planet.
Soon,
Mo-Res
To Trev,
CONSTANT thoughts and prayers from “It’s All Relative” travel club. Dad, “Gunna” (Kendra) and I (“LeesyBoo”) are sending you lots of love. The 4 of us and others have created many memories taking trips skiing, river rafting and generally having mischievous fun. Please know we’re right there with you on this journey too. Kendra’s usually the one that takes a nap on our trips… I guess it’s your turn on this one. Can’t wait for you to wake up! Hugs and kisses to your cluster of love over there (Saint Debbie, Aunt Bessie, Uncle Dick, Suzzy-Q, and of course precious Gracie),
Lots of Love
Cousin Lisa
Alan,
Thanks for continuing this section of your Blog. I can see that it is an important medium for many of Trev’s friends & loved ones to keep in touch. Please keep up the outstanding & needed work.
I see I’m not the only Kings J-School grad to log on here. It’s nice to see so many representatives of the small but mighty class of ’88 are out there, wishing hard for Trevor’s recovery. I’ll add my name to that list.
Glad to be able to help, Mike, especially for so many who likely also crossed my own path twenty years ago or so like Trevor. There is really no heavy lifting from my end as all these best wishes effectively create the space themselves.
You know if anyone were to want to post digital photos here or anything else, feel free. I can be emailed at genx40@gmail.com and would be happy to help.
I went to highschool with Trevor and remained a close friend through our university years. My parents considered Trevor their third son – I have many fond memories of the times we spent together. We lost touch in the 90s but reconnected last summer – surprised to find we lived in the same city! Everyone who knows Trev knows that he has the inner strength and determination to get through any challenge. If it can be done, he will do it! To Mr. and Mrs. Greene, Debbi, and the rest of the family – our prayers are with you.
Michael Colwell
Surrey, BC
And for Trev – it’s Miguel here. I’m going to hold you to the promise to come by for a swim and a beer in September. Maybe sooner! Get well soon.
Yours aye,
Miguel
Re: Charles Trevor Greene Order of British Columbia Nomination.
Friends of Trevor’s have applied to nominate him for the Order of BC. I have copied the emailed information below. They had enough info to submit the package, but a faxed letter before Friday by all of us who know him can help strengthen the application for nomination. I encourage you to read on, and fax your letter of support in to the office by Friday, March 10th. Letters of support to: Secretary of Awards via fax (250-356-2814).
Thank you in advance,
Barb Stegemann
(Here’s the email that was sent to me by Jamie, a friend of Debbi’s)
Hello,
My name is Radek; I am a colleague of Trevor’s from the military. My spouse, Kaethe, has nominated Trevor for both the order of British Columbia and the Order of Canada. With regards to the Order of British Columbia, the nomination committee requires letters of support, which unfortunately are due by Friday 10March2006. The minimum required number of letters has already been met; however, I believe the more the better, regardless of the deadline. If you or any of Trevor’s other friends would like to support this nomination, please send a letter to the following address:
Honours and Awards Secretariat
PO Box 9422
STN PROV GOVT
Victoria, British Columbia
V8W 9V1
RE: Charles Trevor Greene Order of British Columbia Nomination.
He has been nominated for his years of writing, work, and genuine passion towards helping those who have been forgotten, both in Canada and abroad.
Both Kaethe and I will attend the gathering tomorrow.
Thank you,
Radek
Radek sent a follow-up email to this indicating that faxes could also be sent (as long as the originals are also mailed) to the Secretary of Awards via fax (250-356-2814). The Friday deadline applies to faxes sent.
Hey Everyone…
Thanks Al, for setting up this site – it is comforting to read the entries from friends and family from so many parts of Bubba’s life.
As Barb mentioned in her entry, we’ll be attending a gathering of friends and family at Jericho Beach in Vancouver tonight. I wish we could all be there together.
Barb and I visited with Debbie on Sunday afternoon. What a beautiful person, inside and out. She strongly believes that the prayers and the thoughts of encouragement are not only a comfort to the family…but that they are also reaching Trevor and will make a difference to his recovery.
So let’s keep it up! And let’s take Stephen Kimber’s advice…and be as positive and optimistic as we all know Trevor would be.
I’ll be faxing my letter of support for the Order of BC. I’d encourage you all to do the same!
Clare.
Hello everyone,
I am a close friend of Debbie and Trevor’s (I went through the Chartered Accountant program with Debbie at Pricewaterhouse in Vancouver). I have organized the positive thoughts gathering for Trevor for tonight, Wednesday March 8, 2006 at Jericho beach in Vancouver, BC at 7pm with the fantastic help of several other friends of Debbie and Trevor’s (see posting on March 8 for further details).
I have been in touch with family members over the last few days and I wanted to pass along that they are SO touched by the outpour of support. So please continue to send your positive thoughts and prayers. We hope to see anyone who is local tonight at tonights gathering.
I am still in shock that this could happen to such an amazing person. Trev, you’ve made a difference, get well soon. Bee and Rabbit miss you 🙂
Trevor and I met while in training in the Navy. Although we were not in the same class, we developed a great friendship in Esquimalt. He was so dedicated, kind, funny and gentle.
Everyone loved him!!!
His stories were always so exiting: ?from his surfing adventures in Japan, to his thrilling journey on HMCS Oriole ? he always kept us entertained!
When possible, we also shared lots of lunches at the local Vietnamese, Thai and Japanese restaurants. Yummmmm. 🙂
Moments with Trevor were never dull!
Unfortunately, my stay in the Navy was cut short and I lost contact with many friends, including Trevor. I miss him so very much?
After getting over the shock of the attack, I haven’t stopped thinking about him and his family. He always spoke so highly of his parents. (I can only hope that my children will do the same one day).
Trevor – you will always be close to my heart and in my prayers. We’re all behind you?keep on fighting!
To Trevor’s family – I wish you infinite strength & courage to overcome this tremendous period.
With tender love and kindest regards,
Andreia (Toronto)
Alan – Thanks for setting up this blog!
I met Trevor while he was working on “Bad Date”. Spent a short amount of time with him but was so impressed (and still am) by his zeal for everything, his passion and compassion for everything he put his hand to. Even then, he was talking about going to Afghanistan someday.
There has been a consistent prayer on my tongue and in my heart since I heard the news. I’m convinced God is hearing the prayers of everyone calling out during these days. Blessings and peace to the family.
Lisa Enns, Vancouver, BC
Trevor, Bess, Dick, Suzanne, Debbie & Grace Elizabeth:
Can’t describe how sick I feel about the rottenness that has happened to my little cousin. New Waterford and Cape Breton are praying for that speedy recovery. We know that Trevor will be playing soccer again in our garage with Meaghan and we will “toast” his return to New Waterford. The causeway will say “Ciad Mile Failte” to you my special guy.
Hey Alan:
Thanks for this. It somehow has given me the bit of reconnection that I needed. – CB –
I have finally stopped searching the web for everything I can find out about Trevor. My mind keeps going over all the “Trevor at King’s” memories that I have of him (mostly of his grimacing at me from the 8 seat as I yell at him to slow up on the slide)and despite the tears, I can smile. I know Trevor is strong to the core and that his mischevious grin will shine again.
Keep that fighting spirit, Trevor . . . love Gumby
Colette Budge
Hey, Colette. Hope you’re well. [What’s the 8 seat?]
Trevor!
We are all thinking of you here in N-Dub aka New Waterford.
get better soon!!!
anyways, lots of love
Meggy
Aunt Bess and uncle Dick, our hearts and prayers
are with Trevor and you and family. With all of Cape Breton praying for him you know all is going to be well. Tell Trevor there is a bottle
of Keith’s in the fridge waiting for him, we WILL
celebrate his healthy return, after all he does have Cape Breton blood in him.
Glen Beaton & Family
Hi Alan:
Yes, all is well. I would love to chat more with you to catch up.
During my rowing at king’s the 8 seat was the person closest to the coxwain (me). Poor sod, as i had to shout load enough for the guy in seat 1 to hear me. Trevor took it well, kind person that he is.
-C-
Oh God,
I just got this sent to me……I went to high school with Trevor…I now live in Australia, so we don’t get a lot of this kind of news here…….so I was shocked and sickened to see this…….I am sending you all the positive Karma in the world and to his family……Always remember his cheeky smile in the lobby at school……
Donna Saker
You, Bess, and Dick are in my thoughts. I’ve been tied to the news since hearing.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/4776238.stm <---- You made the BBC Look forward to seeing you again. Graeme
Colette, now you have added a memory. Me on campus police overnight watch you guys (Trevor and Robin, too, wasn’t it in that gang) head out to the cold NW Arm as I planned for hitting the hay thinking you were nuts.
Yup, we were a bit nutty, we even thought so, but it was worth it. Macky, Hooper, Trevor, Doogie, Robin, Steve Mc, Neil, and shoot, I cannot remember the fellow’s name in 1 seat. Smaller fellow with a quiet way and a shy grin (Dark hair, I would send photos if my %#@@ scanner was working.) I think he graduated that year (84-85). I think Trevor was in the 8 seat the couple of years after Macky had graduated.
-C-
We were devastated to hear the news of the attack on the weekend. Trevor and our older son, Michael, were best of friends in high school and he was like our third son. Many hours were spent cheering them on in basketball and volleyball and our son, Kevin, bore the brunt of much teasing on their part. Although we’ve seen him infrequently in the last few years, he has always held a special place in our hearts. Dick and Bess, please know that you and your family are foremost in our thoughts and prayers.
Marilyn and Carl Colwell
Orleans, Ontario
Aunt Bess, Uncle Dick and Suzanne
Words simply aren’t enough to describe the shock,dismay and sick feeling from this senseless act. Its been quite a long time since our childhood when you guys would visit cape breton.. I’ve been away for many years and I can still remember those times. I also recall when I read a reference to Trevor’s book “Bad Date” and how frantic I was in my search to get a copy and read whatever references I could find to interviews and the like .. had a proud sort of feeling in my searching… and by the messages I read here on this forum I can see how and why he is held in such high regard.
Our hearts and many prayers here in Newfoundland are with you.. and a wish of godspeed in Trevor’s recovery.
Gary, Denise & Maggie Beaton
i heard of this attack on trevor just a few days ago. i am just so sad. i had the chance to re-connect with trevor a few years ago in vancouver. he i sthe same smiling, happy guy that is so dedicated to what ever task he takes on. i am praying for him and thinking of him everyday. everyone think postive thoughts for him, his strong will and spirit will bring him home soon!
my thoughts are with you Trev
Patti Dunn
It certainly says a lot about a man that prayers and best wishes are coming quick from coast to coast for Trevor.
It’s an honour to say I went to King’s with Trevor and that I met someone who did more than say he wanted to make a difference, but actually went out and did it. A lot of us have dreams; not as many act on those dreams.
Trevor, you are a credit to your school, your country and most importantly your family.
Get well soon,
Stephen
Hey all,
Thanks for setting this up Al. I know a lot of us have been digging around the last few days for anything we can find on Trevor. So it was kind of a relief to get a note from Brian Cormier tonight with a link to your site. Count me in as another Class of ’88 BJ (always loved that tag). Hi Barry – nice to see your scribbling again; Susan – it was a pleasant surprise to be driving through Quebec in 2002 on the way back east and hear your dulcet tones on the CBC; and Sara C, it’s been way too long. Stephen K – saw you yesterday on Newsnet along with Greg Guy – and I always thought the beard was just a phase you were going through:)
Back at Kings I occasionaly referred to Trevor as the Golden Boy because he was such a tall, blond, pretty boy with the sunniest disposition that I’d ever come across. He was always so positive – even when he got angry it just seemed to be for show. You just couldn’t take him seriously as being really and truly pissed off.
Sunday night I went digging through my old Kings pics. There is one of Trevor that I’ve always loved. It was our last year and I think we had either put our final newspaper to bed or were done of classes at the end of the second semester. The crew of us wound up at the old Gingers brewpub. For some reason we were in the guys bathroom and Trevor had a cigarette (obviously not his and unlit of course – must have bummed it off Barry or Dave for fun). He said, “I’m James Dean – take a picture of me.”
Why I had a camera in the guys bathroom at Gingers sharing a moment with Trevor, I don’t know. But I do have that great picture of him with his hands in his pockets, leaning against the urinal (yuck), with the cigarette sticking up out of his mouth in his best faux cool pose.
Clare, please pass on my thoughts and best wishes to Trevor’s family. We’ll all be thinking of him and thinking
those positive thoughts over the next while. Please let us know if there’s anything we can do for the family and in the meantime we’ll just have to look forward to seeing Trevor back up on his feet again.
Greg Macdonald
Thanks Mickey for the link!
Like everybody I was shocked to hear about this incident and hope and pray that Trevor returns to his old self.
Aunt Bess, Uncle Dick, Suzanne,and Debbie please send our love from the Landry’s to Trevor. Suz, I hope / know that you will call mom when you get back on Friday with any new news. Sending all our love from N.S.
Gary
Hi everyone,
Not sure who out there remembers me, but I too was a King’s Grad and began residence life there in 1984 with Trevor and many others that have written messages from here. (I even substituted for Colette once with the mens 8, but did such a crummy job that they were thrilled to have her back! 🙂 Trevor was a great friend to me in our first year at Kings and he and his roomie, Peter Classen and I often spent many hours together hanging out. We were referred to as the 3 musketeers for awhile that first fall. That first year was one of the best in my life and I wish i had stayed on campus longer instead of moving into an apt. I lost touch with many after that… Truly a regret of mine as life on campus was very special for all of us. We were all blessed to have had the experience of the community life at Kings.
Trevor is one of those guys that just made you feel like you were his best friend even though he had many. His smile is beautiful and his personality is endearing. I am so interested to learn all that he has accomplished and is doing since he graduated.
I was shocked by the news last weekend and saddened that Trevor has been terribly hurt so senselessly. I can so see him doing what he did in such a gesture of good faith. I have had his email address on my desk for some time now, since I found it in the Kings TIDINGS mag last fall, thinking I would love to re- connect with him sometime in Vancouver. I am a teacher in Kelowna, BC, and am married with 2 daughters.
Trevor is one in a million and Im convinced that he will pull through this with all of our prayers and love. Funny how it takes something like this to bring people together again. Trevor would be thrilled Im sure to know that.
Take care everyone…
Lynn (Langille) Schwartz
We thought this would be a good place to post messages from the family here in Germany.
I have received and read all emails up to this point and unfortunately am unable to respond to them all individually. We are passing along to Trev all positive thoughts and prayers as we receive them.
We personally want to thank everyone who organized and attended the vigil at Jericho beach, Vancouver on Wednesday night, and those who send their prayers but were unable to attend. It absoultely makes a difference in his progress and ours and the entire family is so grateful.
People from all denominations have been praying for Trevor, from the East Coast to the West Coast. A huge thank you!
The doctors and nursing staff at the Landstuhl US medical hospital are among the best in the world, literally, and have been working tirelessly to help Trevor come back to Vancouver, which we hope will be next week. Everyday there are improvements with Trevor. Most people that know Trevor, know he’s a fighter and he’s fighting really hard.
Grace is doing really well and has some new friends of other patients in the hospital. The family is all together here…..and getting to know each other really well!
Our sincere and hearfelt thanks to you all,
Love Debbie, Grace, Toni, Dick, Bess, Suzanne, and Trevor
Hello all,
Best wish to the Greenes in Germany. That is great news. And, Greg, thanks for sharing the urinal story. I am a little unclear on this too, however:
As you see below, I received some photos taken by Michael “Miguel” Colwell from the celebration for Trevor in Vancouver last evening. These photos are all thumbprints which means you can click on them for a very large version. If anyone else wants to share other photos – even ones other than in the bathroom at Gingers – please feel free to email them to me at genx40@gmail.com.
I remember Trevor fondly from my time at King’s. We have not kept in touch but the news of this devastating tragedy has shocked everyone. I remember Trevor as a person with a generous spirit and a ready smile. It is not at all surprising that he put his life on the line to help others. It is no less surprising that the picture in the newspaper is of Trevor smiling and shaking hands with Afghan people. Trevor has an ability to connect with all people. My thoughts and prayers are with Trevor and his family.
LouAnn Chiasson
Deb, Trev & Grace,
There isn’t a day I don’t think about you guys. We are all sending you good thoughts.
Lots of love – see you when you come home.
xoxo Lisa
Deb, Trev & Grace,
There isn’t a day I don’t think about you guys. We are all sending you good thoughts.
Lots of love – see you when you come home.
xoxo Lisa
Trevor has been on my mind constantly the last few days. Though I had not seen him in years he was one of those people that pops up occasionally. An email here and there, a phone call when I was in Calgary and he was visiting. Funny how some people cross your path again and again. And it is not hard to see from reading the many emails the great number of friends that Trevor has and the number of people that he has touched. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and his fiance in this terrible time. I lost my Dad this past year in a dreadful accident and the beautiful thing that comes out of tragedy is the incredible way that it brings people together. I imagine Trevor in the hospital recovering as the love and strength of the thousands of people he touched around the world cradles him and supports him through his recovery.
Bess, Dick, and family,
Was deeply saddened and upset by this terrible news. I am in touch with Adeline on a regular basis with any news she has. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Happy to hear there are improvements every day.
Dick, Bessie, Suzanne, and Trevor’s family,
We were shocked to hear of this tragic news. We send love and prayers to you from Truro, N.S.
Trevor,Debbie,Grace,Bess,Suzanne and Dick
I am just sick over what has happened and my heart is very heavy these days. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. It is constantly on my mind. But I know that with all the prayers that are being said in the homes and churches in New Waterford and Cape Breton all will be ok. The good lord above will take care of things.
Hey, guys. I’m sure Trevor bummed that smoke off Barry in Ginger’s, not me. I wouldn’t contribute to the erosion of guy like Trev.
Greg Macdonald called me on Saturday to tell me about the news. I spent the rest of the morning watching Newsnet. I just could not believe it.
Trevor called me about three years ago. He wanted to get back into the journalism racket and was inquiring about work with the CBC in Whitehorse. We didn’t have anything at the time, and we fell out of touch again. Obviously, I wish like hell we could have found something for him. I’ve been thinking about that a lot this week.
I’m also thinking about this; this website is why I love King’s. I recognize so many names from the past, J-school classmates and others. It’s nice to see people come out of the woods, even though it took something so terrible.
It shows Trevor really is loved. And valued.
I don’t pray, but I’m thinking about him – and everyone – a lot.
Last night’s thought gathering for Trevor and Debbie, Grace, Dick and Bessie, and Suzie at Jericho Beach was amazing. Over 45 people came out in the rain and wind. It was a mosaic of Trevor’s experiences. Friends throughout the ages from highschool, university, work, the Forces, volunteer work, Deb’s friends, were all out in droves.
It was amazing to see all these people arriving like clockwork at 7:00 p.m. to send powerful thoughts to Trevor and the family. The one message that I would like to restate is that Trevor promised me that I would be his “best man” at his wedding, and I have this amazing Jean Paul Gaultier jacket with open back and sash all ready to go.
I also did mention at the thought gathering what really matters. Trevor’s gift is to speak on behalf of those who can’t. Whether it was communicating on behalf of the people living in the streets of Japan, the missing women on the east side, Canada’s poorest postal code, or the people of Afhanistan. The one thing I am sure of is that Trevor would want us all to ensure that his work and the work of his colleagues in Afghanistan will not be in vain.
We now must pick up the collective torch on his behalf until he’s stronger (and then we’ll gladly hand it back to you Bubba). We must ensure that we continue to support the work Trevor set out to do and support Canadian Peacekeepers and our role in helping the people of Afghanistan who have asked us as a country to help them.
Babs
Hi Bubba and family,
Since hearing the news on Saturday, you’ve been in our thoughts and prayers.
I know you will pull through this and you will be back doing what you do so well — helping others.
Babs and I have been talking daily and have been saying pretty nice things to the media about you, dear friend. You’re a great example to us all.
The King’s fraternity has rallied together and know you’ll be on your feet soon. Thanks for helping to create this on-line reunion. So good to read postings from others and thanks Al for setting this up. Trevor will be having a good laugh.
Bubba, hi to your mom and dad, Debbie and dear little Grace.
We’re praying for you all.
From your fellow Cape Breton-born lad,
Big hugs and loads of prayers,
Greg Guy
P.S. Can’t wait to raise a glass together, soon, at the Lower Deck or the Shoe.
I echo the sentiment that this is a wonderful forum that Al has provided. Like all of you I was saddened deeply by what has happened to Trevor and his family. I live on the west coast as well and have been lucky enough to have spent a good deal of time with Trevor both back and kings and now here. It is through that time together that I have observed strength and resolve which gives me the confidence to beleive and know he will recover. One small example of this was while I was still living in Vancouver (I am now in Penticton). Trevor was always calling me up looking for some kind of outdoor adventure. You must remember that most of these activities he had never done before. One sunday morning I was getting ready to go for a nice long road cyle on my own. Trevor called and asked if he could join me, I said sure. An hour later is was at my door with his 1985 mountain bike and wearing flip flops. Now you must envison me completely clad in lycra and desperately trying to do my best impression of lance armstrong but looking more like an overstuffed sausage sitting on a alum fram bike worth more that most cars I have owned. I proceeded to try and talk Trevor out of what we were about to do, but he would have none of it. The ride was to go from kitsilano in Van out around UBC and then out behind the airport. Off we went, I took no pity on him until the small hill up to UBC where I stopped to give him the opportunity to turn around. at this point Trevor stood on the pedals and whizzed by with challenging cat calls, which I could barely hear over the flapping of his sandals on the pedals. So off we went, Trevor was never more than a few yards behind me and when I would look back at him I would get nothing but that boyish grin of his. We had a great ride. Just one of many magical times with the lad. I know his Lion heart will not fail him now.
My thoughts are with him. I look forward to having him recover by my pool this summer as we watch out two little girls get to know each other and our wives pour us beer and message our feet (OK the last part is unlikely)
I would love to post some photos of The lad with his baby girl but for the life of me don’t know how. Help me out Al
Robyn
Brian Cormier gave me a heads up about this good news on the Kings website today:
These sorts of contacts along with continued sharing here are sure to let him and his family know the extraordinary support that friends from all parts of Trevor’s life are wanting to give.
Hey Robin. Hope you are well. If you email me the digital photo, I will remove your thumb from the image and then post it. Send it to genx40@gmail.com.
PS – “our girls” and “our wives”? I have been out of touch with you Roy-boon.
By the way, Al, there may not be a place in heaven for people who work up websites like this, but there is a table at Bombay Peggy’s in Dawson City for you. And I’d like to share it with you some time.
That would be a good day. Likewise you guys and Kingston.
[…’cause you know I am so against beers and pubs as a matter of personal principle.]
Hello all, and thanks Al, for setting this up and giving us all a place to feel connected and to pass along our thoughts.
I am yet another King’s grad from ‘way back when’ and, like some others, I’ve been having “King’s flashbacks” all week. It’s been a few years since I last saw Trevor in Halifax, but he was obviously enjoying life to the fullest and smiling from ear to ear, just as I remembered him from King’s!
I was – and still am – shocked by the news of this attack and I wanted to add my ‘good thoughts’ and prayers to all of those across the country and beyond. Get well, Trevor, and hope you’re back home with your family soon.
Take care everybody –
Sarah
I first heard of Trevor when I was in Australia. My Mom called from home on Christmas Day gushing about what a wonderful new boyfriend my cousin Debbie (Trevor’s now fiancée) had met. My Mom told me how funny and talented this guy was, and how he recently wrote a book about the missing women in Vancouver and gave everyone in the family a signed copy for Christmas. She was excited for me to meet him, and for me it added one more reason to look forward to coming home. It was apparent though that this guy stuck out in a crowd!
About a year later, most likely at one of our lovely over-eating family dinners, I met Trevor. Yup, he’s a great guy, and sure adds entertainment factor to our family functions with his fantastic stories of Japan, military, and his many travels and other adventures. I instantly looked up to him. (Note: and it wasn’t just because he is 6 foot 7 or something?.) We couldn’t ask for a better addition to our family. Plus, he loves our Grandmother, and she’s queen in my world.
This past Saturday morning, I was deeply saddened while eating breakfast and watching the news of Trevor on television. It was surreal, and of course, wasn’t supposed to happen to someone I know. But it did, and it sure brought Afghanistan into my living room. I could just picture Trevor sitting there talking to village elder, trying to make peace, and then?
After the attack occurred, I thought of Debbie and Trevor’s family. I thought of Grace, Trevor’s beautiful little girl, with the biggest blue eyes that will surely give her Daddy so much to live for. It was also soon in perspective how many lives Trevor would have touched throughout his life. All I can say is what an amazing guy. I truly feel honoured to have him part of my family.
We are all positive about Trevor’s condition and his recovery, and I can’t wait to see him at our next lovely over-eating family dinner.
Bonnie
Like most others who have posted, Llew & I have spent much time over the last few days searching the net to find details on how Trevor was doing. Luckily, one of the staff in my office has a spouse in Afganistan so she has kept us well briefed.
When I visited the bigger site & learned about Trevor’s activities over the past 10 years I was impressed to see that he had managed to maintain the essence of who he had always been.
My first memory of Trevor was of his first day at Kings. He had arrived prior to the normal arrival date for the frosh. Several of us were on our way out of Alex Hall for dinner downtown so we invited him to join us. Partway through the evening, Veronica Newport commented on the sunny outlook he carried & whether he would still have it by the end of his first year! How truly amazing that he managed to maintain it not only through the challenging first year, but obviously his humanity is still primary.
Our thoughts & prayers will be with Trevor and with his family as they endeavour to keep him present as he recovers. All the best
My thoughts and prayers are with you, hope you will all be back home soon. Love Adeline
Trevor is a great friend from back in the Cairine Wilson, high school days. By reading these messages from everyone it is amazing how he has touched so many lives. He definitely stands out to me as being one of my best friends, even though it has been a very long time since we have been in contact. My heart sank deeply after receiving the phone call from Donna Gillespie that this happened to Trevor and it has forced me to do a lot of soul searching. Trevor is a real fighter and I know that he feels the outpouring of love and emotion from everyone. My thoughts and love are definitely going out to him and his entire family.
Thanks, Alan for putting this together. I really felt I needed to say something but had no where to go. The following may seem a little lame to all of the journalists reading this but, I just felt a need to put my words to paper.
Losing touch
Time goes slipping by?.
Life in our own little comfort zone.
Where is the person that I once was? I wonder what everyone is doing these days. I really should find out. These people have always meant so much to me. Memories come to mind and a smile comes to my face. Too busy or pre-occupied to find out what is going on in their lives. I am sure they are fine since no news is good news right? Life continues to happen. 10 years pass by, 15, 20. Did you hear so and so is doing this and that? “Wow that is awesome”, as I admire from afar. Smiles once again with a great warmth to fill my heart. Now, there is a person making a real difference in the world. I should do something like that too. I really should try and contact them. Married and 3 kids later. Life is more complicated, it is easier just to stay in your comfort zone and not reach out. All of this nonsense changes with a swing of an axe. Reality sets in and the heart cries out. I would give anything to have kept in touch.
Tracy Taylor – Ottawa
Good words, Tracy, but it is really you guys and your sharing that is putting this together. I am glad all these thoughts will provide such a strong message of support to him and his family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Trevor. Uncle Dick, Aunt Bessie, Debbie, Little Gracie,Susanne and Andy, I am thinking about you constantly. Remember he has the best spirit – no one or thing is going to keep Trev down. I love you guys. Gunna
Hello everyone,
For those of you who couldn’t make it out last night because of distance etc, I wanted to share with you some sentiments from last nights positive thoughts gathering for Trevor and family at Jericho beach in Vancouver (see below)…..
WEDNESDAY MARCH 8, 2006 – 7PM – JERICHO BEACH, VAN
What can I say other than the fact that last night was truly amazing. Despite the rain, hail and strong winds, ~60 friends and colleagues gathered at Jericho beach in Vancouver last night to collectively send positive thoughts to Trevor, Deb and all of you. The mood was overwhelmingly positive. The atmosphere was magical with tiki torches lit and lanterns/candles burning brightly in the night.
Our goal for the evening was twofold; firstly, to simultaneously send positive thoughts to Trevor (which everyone believed would be very powerful) and secondly, to have everyone leave feeling positive, hopeful and informed. The goals for the evening were met and exceeded.
I kicked off the speaking at the gathering then opened up the floor to others. I was delighted that several of Trev’s friends and business associates came forward to share their sentiments, good wishes and humorous stories from the past.
Thank you to everyone who came out and battled the elements last night. You truly are amazing people and I am so confident that our message last night was heard and felt by Trevor and his family.
Continued positive thoughts……
Jaime
Alan, just wanted to thank you for setting this up.I think i can say for all of Trevors cousins and other relatives here on the East coast that we thankyou. Trevor is an amazing person.
Thanks
When an incident such as this happens it often has one questioning one’s own faith..to see a wonderfull individual who has devoted his life to help those less fortunate, injured in such a savage and needless attack..leaves one speechles. The world has become so materialistic and money driven that compassion for fellow man is becoming an increasingly rare quality..and one which Trevor possesed and believed in…Cuz my heart goes out to you..
Our hearts and prayers are with you all…Aunt Besse,Uncle Dick, Cuz’s Suzanne,Trevor..Keep positive and god bless…..
Thinking of everyone with Trevor in this trying time. Good to hear that everyone is remaining strong. It is wonderful to see the outpouring of support by way of this website. Hope to see you again soon Trevor!
Hi Al,
Julianne and I wanted to add our thoughts and prayers for Trevor and his family.
I am one of the many King’s alumni who knew Trevor well. We spent three years together playing volleyball, two years on the rowing team, and have kept in touch periodically in the past 20 years. I have a neat picture of Trevor with his hand on Julianne’s (my wife, also a King’s alumnus) pregnant belly in St. Andrews New Brunswick about ten years ago. I will send it along. [Alan: I added it below. Click for larger.]
Ironically our other travel mate George died a few years ago, an anniversary that still haunts many of us from King’s. Trevor travelled to Halifax for the King’s reunion honouring George.
Trevor had visited our home a couple of years ago, and had my young daughter in stitches of laughter. By the end of the night, he was convinced that he was going to write a romance novel after talking to Julianne (who is a romance writer). Imagine a 6 1/2 foot blond hair-blue-eyed guy writing romance! He also spoke of Debbie. He spoke of her so fondly, and his happiness of having found “the one”, his one and true mate.
I was looking for a rowing quote written by Peter Classen that was appropriate. It went something like this:
If anyone has the full quote, please send it to me. Trevor, you’re strong of spirit, of mind and body. We are all pulling for you.
Yours aye,
Stephen, Julianne and Laura MacLean
I have sent my sentiments to Trevor & family via the hospital liaison. However, I would like to say thanks to everyone who has posted. I have had the opportunity to learn a lot about my cousin, whom I haven’t really seen since childhood vacations.
I am extremely proud of Trevor and consider him to be a hero in the real sense of the word.I am proud to tell my kids and students about his service to Canada.
Thanks,
Sheldon
I am awed by the number of people that Trevor has touched. Not surprised though. I mean, his spirit is awsome, his ideas (and ideals) grand, larger than life! His energy is consuming, joyous, and motivational. Who wouldn’t want to try and catch that wave for a while! I was lucky enough to be able “ride that wave” through our years together at Cairine Wilson, and then off and on thru the years. Right about now, High School seems like a year ago with all the memories and names that are turning up. I have so many thoughts and feelings, and feel totally inept at putting them in writing. Trevor is the wordsmith, I’ll let him say them for me:
I had kept a book that Trevor had inscribed to me, Richard Bach, Illusions, and thought to share what he’d written to me about 23 years ago. It is very “Trevor” to me.
//”The river delights to lift us free, if only we dare to let go.” That’s the hard part, Sandy Gale, to dare to let go. We sacrifice
the comfort of boredom and a sedentary life and gain the sadness and happiness of experience. Trev.//
I hope that my other messages have gotten thru to the Hospital but here they are in case:
Mr & Mrs Greene & Suzie – Please know all my thoughts, prayers and wishes are there for you. My parents, sister, and many old friends have
been inquiring and wanted me to sent along their thoughts also.
Deb – Trevor just sent me photos last week, and they are marvellous. Grace is beautiful (and has the bluest eyes!). I wish you strength.
Hugs and Kisses to Trevor and a speedy recovery. If there is anything that I can do from my little corner here in Abbotsford, I’d be more than happy to do so, in fact would welcome it.
God Bless.
xoxoxo
Thinking Back to old High school days There are many memories a person will recall . Some memories fade with time ,other memories still are vivid in ones mind . I went to Cairine Wilson with Trevor. We played “hoops” together on the high school team . We hung out together after school,on weekends and during the summers. I even remember attending more than a couple of house parties he had. One party I recall was the final day of his above ground pool which succumbed to the overloading of pool participants. The most vivid memory I have of Trevor is how one summer he and I played basketball everyday, either on his drivway or on mine. He said “Troy if you want to be a starter next season you have to keep practicing ” Trevor was a good B-ball player and his frienship drove me to be the best player I could be . Thanks to Trevor pushing me that summer, I did become one of the starting five. Trevor was also a great student and worked hard to bring home good grades . I am not surprized as to how accomplished he is in his life. I am positive that He will pull through in this difficult time in his life.
To His family I wish all the best
For Trevor I wish a full and complete recovery
Troy Giles
(C.W. 1983)
Hello,
I would like to make a quick note about the website we are working on. The website is taking its sweet time to upload onto the web, so in the mean time a preview can be viewed at http://www.trevorgreene.ca.previewmysite.com. Once the actual site is up and running it can be viewed at http://www.trevorgreene.ca, which we anticipate happening within the next 24hrs. Any photos or quotes that people would like to have added to the site can be indicated it on this genx40 site. Thanks for everyone’s support so far.
Kaethe Sabr.
I haven’t seen or talked to Trevor for many years when he and his family used to make yearly trips to Cape Breton. I too have learned alot about my cousin through these postings. It makes me proud to think of what a brave, courageous, smart man he is. Our thoughts are with you all!
Hey Trev, Mrs. and Mr. “G”, Suzanne, family and friends. Our hearts and prayers are with you. Although I am deeply saddened by what has happened, I’m also proud and happy to learn what our boy Trev was doing. Damn you gotta love that guy!
Trev, we’re waiting on your recovery amigo. We expect nothing less.
Love, the Slot family
(Ed, Lily, Laura, J.J., Michael)
ps Trev, I was showing my kids the picture of you holding Laura when she was one years old, and my boys wanted to know why there wasn’t a picture of you with them….so…. now your on the hook amigo. See you when you get here!
Hey Trev, Mrs. and Mr. “G”, Suzanne, family and friends. Our hearts and prayers are with you. Although I am deeply saddened by what has happened, I’m also proud and happy to learn what our boy Trev was doing. Damn you gotta love that guy!
Trev, we’re waiting on your recovery amigo. We expect nothing less.
Love, the Slot family
(Ed, Lily, Laura, J.J., Michael)
ps Trev, I was showing my kids the picture of you holding Laura when she was one years old, and my boys wanted to know why there wasn’t a picture of you with them….so…. now your on the hook amigo. See you when you get here!
I first met Trevor a few years ago when he became my niece’s boyfriend. You can’t help but like him and I’ve seen my opionion of him expressed on this site over and over again by people who have known him a lot longer than I. He’s intelligent and funny and interesting and likeable and kind and the list could go on and on. He’s a caring and considerate and loving father and now fiance to my niece; he splits wood for my mother and messes up her kitchen as she teaches him, at his request, to make bread or jam. He introduced me to mussels an hour out of the ocean cooked in tomato, butter and garlic. He explored the lives of the most marginalized women in Vancouver and wrote a book that explained it to the rest of us. And this is what I’ve learned about Trevor in only 5 or so years!
Since this unfair and horrific attack on him, I’ve learned more about why he was in Afghanistan and what he hoped to accomplish: my respect and admiration for him has grown even more. He really is one of the good ones in this world and like so many others, my heart bleeds for him and for Debbie and his parents and all the others who love him.
God willing, Trevor will be back with us soon, alive and kicking. Like my daughter who wrote here before me, I too feel lucky to have him as part of our family and honored to know him.
My love and heartfelt thoughts go out to his parents and sister, whom I don’t know but would like to, and of course to Debbie and Grace. We’re all pulling for you!
Karen
It is so great to read everyone’s thoughts and stories. Trevor has touch so many people and all i can add is that each and all of our postive thoughts will bring him home very soon. This will be his next story that he will write about!
Patti Dunn
Dear Bess,Dick and Suzanne, It`s been so long since I`ve seen you all and Trevor and its heartbreaking to connect under these circumstances. I`m beaming with pride to read of Trevor`s many accomplishments and his happiness with Debbie and Grace.Please know that my husband,children and I send our prayers and wishes for a speedy recovery. Love, cousin Rhonda x-o
Here are some more thumbnail photos which you cna click for a larger version. They were sent from Trevor’s pal Michael “Miguel” Colwell.
One more note. Since this was posted five days ago, we have had 1278 visits to this page. [The next day: now it is 1636 visits meaning there were 358 separate visits to this page on Friday, March 10th.]
Aunt Bess, Uncle Dick, Suzanne, Trevor and families,
Not a day goes by that you are all not on my mind. You have all my love and support during this difficult time. I look forward to seeing you all when we celebrate Trevor’s return and improved health.
Much love,
Cousin Craig in Montreal
(or Freggie as Trevor likes to say…)
Aunt Bess, Uncle Dick, Suzanne, Trevor and families, please know that Deanna and I are praying for you all, and we send our love and positive thoughts during this difficult time.
Love, Blair, Deanna, and family
Does anybody here on the East coast remember the television commercial that Trevor was in (probably around ’87 or ’88). It wasn’t a speaking part, but I seem to remember he was leaning against a counter, maybe in a kitchen. Was it for Pizza???
Donna
A letter from Marguerite Gordon of Trinidad and Tobago ( MAGS !!)to Gregory Kirkpatrick when she heard of the news of Trevor
My Dearest Gregory,
I was so upset and shocked about your news about Trevor. I know how much you respect and love him. I know he stood up beside you in his uniform when you were sworn in as a Canadian citizen. I know how much you valued his advise and his thoughts on INTRINZIP ( hope I got that right). I know he was and still is your friend.
Claire I know the friendship between yourself and Debbie and Grace was warm and fruitful and growing.
What can I say but repeat what you told me Greg, .. this is what he would have wanted. But it IS NOT OVER YET, I HAVE PERSONALLY PRAYED AT CHURCH JUST AFTER YOU CALLED ME GREG AND, WE MUST JUST PUT EVERYTHING INTO GOD’S HANDS.I have prayed for him to be healed (with his picture on his book in my hands) and no your Mum /Mags is not going off her head. It can and will happen
Please embrace Debbie for me and tell her to be strong as I am asking you all to be strong. Strength , is what has got me through all these years.
He is a wonderful young man and all of you are wonderful young people with a sense of clarity and purpose that will take you through the thick and the thin..
Love you all
Mum/Mags/Ava
Re: TV Commercial
Don’t remember the pizza but Trevor and George Earles did a commercial for Sobey’s – probably in 1986. I can remember them dressed up in their Sobey’s uniforms, grinning and looking helpful.
Julianne – Didn’t your dad shoot that?
GM
Donna-
The commercial you are speaking about, to the best of my memory, was shot in the spring of 1988. Trevor and I were living together on Quinpool Road below Connaught with Barb Stegemann and John McDonnell (sp? – sorry, John). I believe the ad was for Pizza Delight. Do you recall him shooting one-on-one in the rain against another player? I remember, because not only did he borrow my blue Converse low-cuts for the spot, but because he also still has a Hopping Penguins t-shirt of mine…
Being almost as tall as Trevor meant getting your rugby shorts borrowed, too. Playing “lock” or second row for King’s had us murking around the mud in a few quagmires, and as a person who has also worked in the sands of the Middle East, I feel smaller for the dangers I once thought so imminent.
When he didn’t have a stitch on, a towel sufficed, belting out “Love Removal Machine” from the top floor of Radical with an empty beer bottle for a microphone. John should remember that.
Thanks, Trevor, for getting too busy with the thousands of things you have accomplished, allowing me to become the “interim” Student Council External Vice President. Other doors opened: I somehow found myself in Southeast Asia, like you; I discovered a certain joy in writing; and one day wandered like a gypsy to the desert with a desire to contemplate Openness and its arm-in-arm revelry with cousin Peace.
See you soon, can’t wait to get my t-shirt back. -s
Hey, Scott. Hopping Penguins T! That is gold. Hope you’re well.
Trevor, Aunt Bessie, Uncle Dick, Suzanne, Debbie and Grace,
I wanted to send along much love and my prayers to you all, thoughts of concern, worry and hope are almost constantly with me. It’s been almost a week, and I still can’t get over the shock. I’m so pleased to share the pride, strength and outpourings of love that surround you. I wish you all so much comfort, come back safely, Trevor.
Big hugs to you all, Cynthia (Cyntis)
Hello uncle Dick, aunt Bess and Suzanne,
Just wanted to let you know that we are all praying for Trevor and all of you here in Cape Breton.
Love,
Margaret, Nadina, Jess, Russell, Nicholas
Another picture, this one more recent and much loved. Debbie wrote me an email this afternoon:
Good looking fella.
Trevor was one of the first people I met when I arrived at King’s in the Fall of 1985. Like so many others I recall a person with a warm smile and a great sense of the big picture. I was horrified to see that “Trevor from King’s” was the same Trevor Greene that appeared on the Globe website last Sunday – Not a day has gone by that I don’t think about how his family must feel and how hard he must be fighting.
I saw Trevor last March while I was sitting eating a bowl of soup in the middle of Granville Market!(I want you to think of what my actually chances of catching up with him once I put my spoon down and started in hot pursuit – he moves pretty darn fast)I had no idea he was even living in Vancouver so it really was quite a surpriseJ – anyway he outran me – next time I’ll holler.
I add my very best Karma to the mounting tidal wave of good feelings being focused on Germany these days and in the days to follow, hopefully closer to home.
Heidi
I’ve just faxed a letter to the Honours and Awards Secretariat and wanted to share it’s contents. My thoughts and prayers are with Trevor and his family and friends.
RE: Charles Trevor Greene Oder of British Columbia Nomination
Dear Sir/Madame:
I have only met Trevor Greene in person once, at the book launch of Closing Bigger.
At the time he had just finished training exercises for deployment to Afghanistan. Frankly, I wondered why such an accomplished and intelligent person would want to put himself in harm’s way. Surely there were other options available to him. His language and writing skills alone could provide a comfortable living in one of the most desirable places to reside on earth. Why would he leave Vancouver and his wife and daughter to travel to Afghanistan? Was he some brainwashed military flunky?
The answer became obvious after a brief and open conversation. He cared for the people of Afghanistan. He wanted to do what he could to help. It was the reason he joined the army reserves. It was the reason he wrote about the missing women of the Downtown Eastside in Vancouver. His passion and commitment to helping the forgotten both in Canada and abroad is the reason that I strongly believe his nomination for the Order of British Columbia should stand. We need more like him.
Sincerely,
Michael Barker-Fyfe
National Manager, Private Client Division
Custom House Global Foreign Exchange
The original letter does refer to the Order of British Columbia, not our smell.
Cheers,
Michael
Not much here from the Tokyo years, but we’re out here too. Hoping. Shared so so much with Trev in our bid to find a destiny outside of white middle-class lethargy. The stakes are high. The game’s not over yet. Hang on in. Please.
Neil Blacknell
I remember Trevor from King’s, and so I was absolutely horrified to connect the name in the news with his picture in the paper. Thinking of you, Trevor, and praying for you, your family, and your many friends during your recovery.
Patricia
Hi.
It’s Lisa I photographed Trev, Deb and Grace the day he left Vancouver. I would like to post to the site Kaethe Sabr is putting together. Kaethe if you have a change please send me your emal. There was some lovely photos of the family. Lisa
Trevor visited us a number of times over the last few years when he was in Edmonton for training. One of the last times we saw him here we had a marvellous evening at the Mess, and one of those great late night discussions that only tipsy King’s people can have – life, philosophy, politics, idealism, lack of suitable lager…
Trevor visited us a number of times over the last few years when he was in Edmonton for training. One of the last times we saw him here we had a marvellous evening at the Mess, and one of those great late night discussions that only tipsy King’s people can have – life, philosophy, politics, idealism, lack of suitable lager…
Thank you for all for the pictures and other contributions to the website. If you would like to add something (photos for example), we have set up an e-mail address for the site. trevorgreenewebsite@hotmail.com.
thanks everyone
Kaethe Sabr
Dear Dick, Bessie, Suz-er and family, Debbie and Grace,
Jeff and I are thinking about all you constantly and send our love and best wishes. There’s no doubt that the courage Trevor displayed by putting himself in harm’s way will carry him through to a full recovery.
Trev–you’re an inspiration. Who knew the best-looking cousin would also be the most selfless and heroic of us all? We look forward to seeing you soon!
Love Cousin Jen (Jenner) in NYC
Trevor, Bess, Dick, Suz, Debbie & Grace ~
Been thinking about all of you all week. I know Trev is working very hard at recovering & I look forward to hearing good news of his progress very soon.
Take care of yourselves. Sending lots of love & support, Lou
Dear Elizabeth and Richard,
My heart froze when I realized just exactly who they were talking about on the news. I remember Trevor fondly, as an articulate, passionate and interesting young man. I had the pleasure of meeting him as his dentist 13 years ago and believe me it was hard trying to do his dental work, when we realized that we shared a passion for good fiction and would much rather have been discussing our favourite authors. He gave me the honour of sending me his book, “Bad Date” after it was published and I was blown away by it, and was able through the majic of email to let him know how much it had meant to me that he had sent me the book and how impressed I was at the compassion and elequence he displayed for the missing women and the families they left behind. I am absolutely certain that his strength and passion for his family and life will pull him through. His committment to life is unfinished and I have a sense that Trevor would never leave anything unfinished!
All my best, will be thinking of you all,
Elizabeth MacSween
Hello Alan – Thanks for organizing this great website on Trev and allowing us far-flung members of the Trevor Greene “friends, fans, & family” community to gather by means of postings on your blog (thanks also to Candace and Mary Ann for showing me the site). I am one of the Tokyo contingent and have been fortunate enough to know Trev off and on (such is the nature of his peregrinations) for the past 15 years.
I have too many zany anecdotes of those times with Trev to list more than one in this posting, but suffice it to say, rarely have I met anyone with as much capacity for surprise, bedazzlement and sheer audacity – not because Trev was always conscious of the situation he was creating, but because of his great skill as a story-teller, his great honesty as a reporter, and above all, his great heart and capacity to know the feelings of others. I suppose I could mention the first time we really got to know each other when he was a writer for the international edition of the great Yomiuri Newspaper (then and now the largest daily circulation paper in the world).
I was editor of a local magazine and Trevor suggested a story on the opening of the first Four Seasons Hotel in Tokyo. I agreed on the story idea and decided to attend the opening reception with Trevor. Well, well, well. After the long-winded speeches, we were escorted to the grand ballroom for the opening day gala. Mind-boggling assortments of food and drink. Anyway – the ballroom was full of exquisite kimono-clad Japanese women, and Trevor was soon engaging quite a number in avid conversation, and I saw a few discreetly hand him their meishi visiting cards.
Then, with great fanfare, the guests of honor were introduced, the Prince and Princess Takamado entered the hall, and as if by secret signal, the crowd of kimonos parted in half, one group stepped forward, the other stepped back and curtsied. It then occurred to me and Trev that the former were members of the aristocracy, the latter simply hired companions; but what struck us was that both groups – princesses and paupers – had been equally keen to get to know the tall, handsome Canadian journalist with the easy-going manner and engaging conversation. Needless to say, we became fast friends, and remain so today.
Another friend Daniel Skuca was kind enough to connect me with Captain Colin Muise at Ramstein AFB, so I have been able to send a couple of faxes addressed to Trevor at Landstuhl. I am very confident he will pull through this challenge as he has done so often all his life, and I send my very warmest wishes to his many family and friends around the world.
Some of you may have heard about the Kilimanjaro Expedition that Trev and I talked about a few years back – well, I hope to get the trip back on track and invite any and all who can make to join us when we go up.
Best Peter in Tokyo
I’ve just read on the http://www.ctv.ca website that Trevor has opened his eyes.
The link is below. It doesn’t say much, but as his father is quoted – it’s a first step.
We’re all pulling for you buddy. GANBARE!
http://www.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVNews/20060311/trevor_greene_060311/20060311?hub=Canada
Updated Sat. Mar. 11 2006 11:55 PM ET
CTV.ca News Staff
The Canadian soldier who was attacked with an axe in Afghanistan on March 4 is showing some improvement.
Capt. Trevor Greene opened his eyes Friday in what his father Richard Green describes as “a slight improvement.” It was “a small step, but a great one,” said the elder Green.
The Toronto Star has a special section today about the Canadian Forces work in Afghanistan. Note the links to the right of the introductory story with links to the other parts of the section.
It’s so moving to read everyone’s memories of and tributes to Trevor here.
I have vivid memories of Trevor at Kings, particularly his first week there. Jen Inglis’ memory (hi Jen) of how his ‘sunny outlook’ struck us that first time we met him was re-confirmed for me three years ago when I saw him again in Halifax. We’d both flown in – he from BC, me from the UK – to meet with friends and remember our dear friend George Earles. We were both part of a small group that stayed on into the evening in the bar at the Economy Shoe Shop, and it was wonderful to be able to catch up properly. He spoke then of his wish to go to Afghanistan, and also of the very real perils he knew to be present there.
I was worried about what news there would be when I logged on today, but have just read that his condition has improved.
Thanks Al for so opportunely providing this space. It’s provided us all with a much needed touchstone over the last week and hopefully one day soon Trevor will be able to read these postings himself. I’m sure they’ll make him smile, scoff, laugh, cry – possibly all at the same time.
Come on Trevor, more good news soon please. Love, Veronica.
Hey, Veronica. I was hoping you would pop up here. Here are a couple of posts about George, by the way, which I thought some might be interested in given all the references. Hope all is well there with you. The news from Germany is certainly encouraging.
When I was looking through the Star’s feature on Canada in Afghanistan I saw there was an excellent photo gallery and in the gallery this picture:
I was following some web links and came upon a series of articles about the work of our troops in Afghanistan. The reporter is following Trevor’s platoon and Trevor is mentioned. It briefly describes the work he was doing and is very enlightening:
“Schamuhn’s assistant, Lieut. Trevor Greene, 41, has already taken down the details. As Canada’s civil-military co-operation officer on the ground with 1st Platoon, Greene is a dove among the hawks of Canadian combat.”
http://www.thestar.com/NASApp/cs/ContentServer?pagename=thestar/Layout/Article_Type1&c=Article&cid=1142118641253&call_pageid=970599119419
I first heard news of Trevor being attacked when I received the e-mail from King’s. The e-mail address that is included in their news report is a direct way to get a message to the family, and I’ve already received a reply from the Captain advising that my message was printed and delivered to the family. The e-mail address is Colin.Muise@amedd.army.mil
If you send a message via this e-mail address, make sure you make reference to Trevor Greene in the subject line of your e-mail.
As someone who hasn’t kept in touch with anyone from my year at King’s it’s been a real blast from the past to read everyone’s names and their thoughts as they grapple with what’s happened to Trevor, via this grapevine. Trevor’s ability to do so much with his life in the years since King’s amazes me…and along with everyone else, I am keeping him and his family in my thoughts and prayers,
Heather Jeffery
Dick, Bess…All of your family back home on the Island are praying for your family. The power of prayer will show it’s strength once more. Terri & Del
Dick, Bess…All of your family back home on the Island are praying for your family. The power of prayer will show it’s strength once more. Terri & Del
Trevor,Bess,Dick,Suzanne
All our prayers thoughts are with you.
Dave, Pam, Dominic & Jenna Rae Howell
a big cowardly act done by enemies of afghanistan. the person who carried this attack is not even afghan. he was paid by the tribal cheifs on the pakistan border to carry out such an attack to tensify the relationship between canadian soldiers and the people of kandahar. capt trevor greene is TRUE HERO
Tuesday night here in Tokyo. Trust all is well. I was just thinking if there are any of Trev’s old Japan-hander mates – rugby, rowing, Zushi, surfing, Yomiuri, Business Tokyo crew, Jardine Fleming etc. – still around these stormswept isles, please drop me a line. Would be happy to host a gathering for Trevor at the Izakaya under the JR tracks at Yurakucho where one night Trev and I ran into what appeared to be about half of the World Wrestling Federation traveling circus. Its about Nama-Biiru season anyway, so drop me a line (090-6566-6700 or pefuchs@t.vodafone.ne.jp) and we’ll hoist a flagon or two to the past and to the future – here’s Mud in your eye. PF
My google alert just popped this story through – looks like Trevor’s coming home today.
LANDSTUHL, Germany — Capt. Trevor Greene, badly wounded in an axe attack in Afghanistan 10 days ago, blinked his eyes upon command for the first time Monday as doctors and nurses prepared him for his return to Canada Tuesday by air ambulance.
“It is important for Trevor to get back home to continue his medical care. They’re ready for him at Vancouver General Hospital. We’ve spoken to his neurologist there,” his father, Richard, said Monday in an interview in this town in the western Rhineland where a U.S. military hospital specializes in treating the most severely injured soldiers from the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq.
“It is going to take a long time and it really is too early to tell, but we’re very confident he’ll come back and be his old self.”
The strapping, rugby-playing, 41-year-old reservist from the Seaforth Highlanders, who as a civilian had authored books on Japan’s homeless and prostitutes in his home town, Vancouver, remains in serious but stable condition after neurosurgery here last week. There have been a series of encouraging medical signs in recent days.
“Capt. Greene was deeply comatose when he came here, but the coma has now lifted to the point where he opens his eyes spontaneously in response to voices,” said Lieut. (N) Catherine Gray, the Canadian doctor overseeing his care in Germany.
“That does not mean he can look around at this point, or tracks a pen by following it with his eyes. But we asked him to blink his eyes today and there was definitely a purposeful blink. However, he is not obeying commands to move his arms or legs.”
Greene was cut down by an axe-wielding Afghan teenager, screaming, “Allah Al Akhbar,” as several Canadian soldiers sat and discussed with village elders ways they might help the community. He was taken by a U.S. medevac helicopter to Canada’s main base at the Kandahar Airfield from where he was flown to Germany.
Greene is to resume his journey today, flying to Vancouver on a chartered civilian medevac flight.
The officer’s recovery since being wounded has followed the normal path for someone being treated for such a traumatic injury, U.S. army neurologists have told Gray.
“This was a severe head injury that resulted from the use of a very unusual mechanism a hatchet,” said Gray, who is usually based at Esquimalt, B.C. “It looks like it has been survivable, but the million-dollar question at this point is whether he comes out of this and is able to be the Trevor Greene that he was.
“I have no answer to that question, but there are encouraging signs. The CT scan taken after neurosurgery shows his memory centres and his centres for consciousness and memory did not suffer injuries that could be seen.”
Greene was part of a military-civil affairs unit dedicated to helping Afghans rebuild their lives after 25 years of war. The team, which operates from a small base in Kandahar, spends its days out meeting and working with Afghans.
“We knew beforehand that there was a very good possibility that he might be involved in a firefight, because we had discussed that with him,” said Greene’s father, a retired RCMP staff sergeant living in Mahone Bay, N.S. “But the accident that happened was totally unexpected.”
Richard Greene said his son was lucky to be alive and that he owed his life to a series of “angels of mercy.”
“Trevor is a very lucky boy,” he said, his voice catching with emotion. “From my time in the Mounties, I had seen a lot of car crashes and fatalities and I know how important it is to get immediate first aid.
“I intend to thank the U.S. Black Hawk helicopter crew who picked him up. I also know that Canadian doctors in Kandahar performed a procedure that saved his life. He has had outstanding medical care at the U.S. hospital and the support for us, from Gen. (Rick) Hillier down to our driver here has been phenomenal. There are just so many people to thank. It is hard to find words.”
A number of individual measures saved Greene’s life, Gray said. U.S. doctors in Landstuhl “had recognized that the Canadian doctors down range in Afghanistan had done a great job preventing him bleeding to death and cleaning and stabilizing his wounds,” she said.
© CanWest News Service 2006
Fantastic. I was really hoping for such a follow-up to all the hopeful hints we had been getting. The article really covers the medical issues well, and once again, should remind us all that prompt professional medical attention is absolutely critical – and not just in a war zone. My own Dad happened to have a serious stroke in an elevator in NYC where he had lived and worked for 30 years. The man standing next to him happened to be a colleague and doctor, so they were able to whisk him off to the emergency room without delay. Here in Japan, however, the same sense of urgency is still widely lacking so many of us have an underlying sense of dread about emergencies. Anyway, as someone else wrote, GANBATTE Trevor. (and best wishes to all the Greenes). PF
Thanks Veronica. I’ve been posting links to stories up at the top but don’t know how useful that is for people following the comments. Please feel free anyone cutting and pasting into the comments as I know that each bit added here is being received with thanks by friends and especially the family.
Dear Trevor,Bess,Dick and Suzanne,
Roland and I have had you in our thoughts since we heard the terrible news. We are praying that you, Trevor, will recouperate fully and quickly.
I still see Trevor and Suzanne as the little children who lived across the street from us on Hoylake Crescent in Orleans.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Trevor, and all of your family.
Janet and Roland Parent
Hi Everyone,
I just found Al’s blog today as I was looking for the update on Trevor – Bubba! I am glad to see he is now back in Vancouver with us.
Trevor was a kind of big brother to me at King’s 1987-91 as he was good friend with my brother Richard Reagh and friend, Kevin Lakes. I had the chance to get to know him through the rowing team and even doing ball room dancing together while at King’s! We all loved Trevor – how could you not?!
Now, living in Vancouver myself, I used to run into my other “big brother”, Trevor, on the streets of Kitsilano, at Jericho Sailing Club, and at King’s reunions. I am deeply shocked about what has happened to him and send him lots of Light for a speedy recovery.
Trevor was always the same every time we met – incredibly positive, bright, and filled with an enthusiasm for life. I have always admired him for these qualities and send his fiance, family and friends lots of prayers of support, love, and Light.
Thank you Al for putting this together, and I look forward to re-connecting with any of Trevor’s friends in more gatherings of support for Trevor in Vancouver.
Lots of Love and Light to Trevor, his family, and friends,
Maggie (Margaret) Reagh
Since hearing of this happening, Trevor has been on my mind and all those people that he has touched throughout his life. He truly is one of those people that once you’ve met him, Unforgettable and you really feel blessed to have met him! Everything that the papers have been writing about his character does not do him justice. I too have been praying for him and wishing the family and friends strength during this time.
My Thoughts and Energies are with Trevor!
Teresa Nye
I was a Hayama buddy in Japan. Last image I have of Trev was riding a big inflatible rubber ducky at his farewell party…thanks so much for posting the updates. I am in China now and it makes it alot easier to keep abreast of his condition. As we can see, Trev was a popular fella and liked by all. My thoughts and prayers are with him during his recovery.
Trevor, Deb and Gracie
You have been in our thoughts and prayers everyday. If there is anything we can do for you please don’t hesitate to call. Welcome home!
Love Nicole,Anthony and Fredi
Good news with Trevor’s return to Canada:
Welcome home Trev!
Every day is one more step to your next beer, my friend. GANBATTE
Welcome back Trevor. You have been in my thoughts everyday. I am wishing you a speedy recovery and am sending you and your family positive vibes. You have always been a wonderful friend and I am sure that you being surrounded by all of your loved ones will speed things along. By reading this, it is amazing how many people you have touched and that is not to mention all of those that don’t know about this site. I am sending you a virtual hug and know you will be recovering surrounded by lots of positive energy. Miguel has been keeping us posted on your progress. Take care and please know you are always in everyone’s thoughts.
Tracy
Hi Alan,
Your links to media stories at the top of the comments section is great. As a non-journalist type, I check it every couple of days to get an update on how Trevor is doing. Please keep it coming!!
Heather
Sounds good, Heather.
Welcome home guys…Just one step closer to enjoying that gourmet meal and fine Okanagan wine with Robyn and Leanne and all of our kids this summer. You are all in our thoughts and our hearts constantly.
Much love,
Remi, Nads & the Walnut.
Family,Love and Prayer can be very powerfull.
Welcome home cuz
welcome home trevor…i am sending postive thoughts everyday to you and your family!
Patti
Welcome home Trevor, Deb, Gracie and Family. We’ve been watching, waiting and praying for your safe return home, and so glad you’ve made it. We’re here for you in every way.
Love Trish, Tavish and Hans
This is just the best news to know that Trevor and his family are back in Vancouver… They have all been in my thoughts and prayers for days and I can only imagine the relief they must feel to be back in Canada and to have Trevor responding so positively to all this incredible medical care and love he is receiving… I have been reading this website faithfully everyday and thanks so much to you Alan for keeping it up and running… I have so enjoyed reading all about those of you I remember from Kings days in Halifax. Makes me wish we had kept in better touch. I look forward to the next Kings alumni gathering with Trevor at the head of the table! I am actually in Vancouver tonite and for a few days on spring break. Wish there was something more I could do to help, but for now I shall just send love and good thoughts a few blocks north to Vancouver General… If there is anything happening here in the city for Trevor in the next couple days, I’ll be there….
Welcome Home Trevor!
Lynn 🙂
All,
I thank all of those who helped to set up this web site. As a lowly US Naval Officer I met Trevor in Japan when he wondered in my house with my roomate who he had met on the subway in Tokyo that day. By the end of the night (and a case of beer) we were friends for life and have remained so over the last 15 years. “Bridge of Tears” was written in my house on the beach in Hayama when he was the proverbial unemployed, starving author for about 6 months.
We have managed to get together around the world throughout the years (Hong Kong, Buenos Aires, Hawaii, Miami to name a few) and he is one of the few people in my life that remains with me wherever I may end up. There is no truer friend or better person anyone could hope to know.
I am currently deloyed onboard a ship and only today learned of the attack on him. His last email from Afganistan was as he was recovering from the attack on his vehicle 10 days prior. “All good’ was how he summed it up.
There is a special place in God’s heart for people like Trevor and I am sure that will hold true now.
For Debbie, Grace and family. If there is anything at all I can do for you or Trevor, you need only ask.
Commander Ed “Mud” Murdock
Alan,
Could you please drop me a line? I have a question to ask … and would like to add my admiration for this site.
Cheers,
Jenna
Hi Trevor, Debbie, Mr and Mrs Green et al,
Great to hear that you are back in Vancouver and that progress is being made. Once again those early morning calls, this time from Chris, was to bear bad news. However, the first reports were that you had been shot in the head and not likely to pull through. I was left wondering what you were doing in a shoot out and secondly there was no way you were not coming back. I coached the Thrid XV and I know you ALWAYS come back, sometimes with the ball!
As you must know by now the whole country is pulling and praying for you. This is a heck of a way to get publicity for your next book!! I strongly suggest you read the war memoires of Spike Milligan before you write yours. The finest cure for any illness is laughter and reading these memoires will have you in stitches. Sorry for the pun.
The extended Remington family are praying for your early recovery and hope to see you down at Brockton asap
Very best wishes,
Mike and ELizabeth
Hi, Trevor, Debbie, Gracie, Bess and Dick
Lots of Love is going to you from Nova Scotia. We are glad you are back in Vancouver and our hearts and prayers are with you every day. Mom loves to hear about Trevors progress and keeps us posted daily. Take care of yourselves, we love you all.
Cousin Rosie, Leon and gang
I just arrived home from March Break to this completely unbelieveable news. Although it’s been 20 years since we were all together at Kings, my heart aches for Trevor and his family. We were all each other’s family way back then. I was on the rowing team with Trevor. For the 6 a.m. practises, there were alot of grumpy gusses – but not Trevor, he was always laughing and smiling. Even though the rest of you (Al!) thought we were nuts, we oarheads endured!
I am amazed by Trevor’s accomplishments in the years since we left Halifax. We all thought we could change the world back then, and he actually acted on those ideals.
I’ve been surfing the net tonight looking for an update on his condition, if anyone has info, please add it to this site.
From the east coast to the west, Trevor, I am sending my prayers for your full and speedy recovery – we are planning a King’s reunion for 2007 and we expect you to be there!
Sheila
Moncton, NB
Hi Al;
I just want to say my thoughts are with Trevor and his family.
I seem to be one of many King’s alumni who knew Trevor well. It is hard to believe that the Trevor in the news and the Trevor that Liz, Ann and I went on “Spring Break” with are one and the same!
Glenn Roy
Aunt Bess, Uncle Dick, Trevor and Suzanne
I watched the arrival on the national news.. welcome home everyone.
This “blog” has been quite enlightening for those of us who have not seen Trevor since our younger days, I am in “awe” at his accomplishments and interest in those issues that the majority would sooner ignore and take up a more superficial issue or cause. I also read with great interest the article in the Toronto Star about Trevor’s unit and the reporter’s recurring mentions of Trevor’s difficult role and how well he adapted to the various situations and individuals.. a dove among the hawks…….all these things speak to your character and strength, and as mentioned in an earlier post, a true hero to all your family and many others.
godspeed in your recovery cuz
Gary, Denise & Maggie
(Newfoundland)
Dear Bess, Dick and Family
As a parent, I cannot begin to imagine how you are feeling, my heart truly aches for you and your family.
I hope that the kind words and many prayers of your friends, extendend family and the nation provide you with some comfort and strength at this time.
Take care and please know that Trevor is in my prayers
Mary Anne Beaton
re: Donna G. March 10
Wasn’t he spinning a basketball in that shot as well. I was laughing when I read your e-mail (have been away for a bit) as I had been thinking of that commercial just the other day. I am so happy to hear that he is back in Canada and making progress. (I had no doubts).
Colette
Clare MacIntyre and I joined Deb, Baby Grace, Trevor’s Mom Bess and his Dad Richard at Trevor and Deb’s place on Sunday night. We shared stories and got caught up after their day at the Vancouver General hospital with Trevor.
One of the main things I can take away from our evening and share with everyone is that Trevor without a doubt has the strongest spirit for a mortal as we all know. He’s definitely working to come back and our prayers and positive thoughts are working – he’s a miracle, truly a living miracle.
Please keep praying and sending your well wishes to strengthen his body. His family continues to read the messages from this site and finds so much comfort in everyone’s postings.
We’ll all be at the Dr. Colin Starnes event on March 23rd in Vancouver. Trevor is the co-president of our BC Chapter of the King’s Alumni Assoc. He would normally be introducing our visiting professor with me, and although he can’t be with us that night – he will be mentioned, and many of our King’s group will be there.
For more details if you wish to attend – please contact Paula Johnson at the University of King’s College.
Barb
Thanks for that Barb. I took Latin in fourth year from Prof. Starnes so I could pretend I had a clue what was going on in the graduation ceremony. I think he was also my reference to law school. Our thoughts continue with Trevor and all his family.
Oh – and I am a couple of days late with this but – Ben West has posted video of the gathering in Vancouver from which these photos were posted on the 9th. You can see the download links for the videos by going to this webpage. Thanks Ben.
Dear Bess, Dick, Suzanne, Debbie and Baby Grace,
You are in our thoughts and prayers daily.
God Speed Trevor’s recovery.
God Bless with lot of Love,
Theresa, Sonny, Chrissie, Jennifer, Anthony
and Jane
Dear Greene Family,
We wanted you know that you are in our thoughts daily and we pray for Trevor’s recovery. We were all so shocked and saddened to see Dick on the CBC news but inspired by your strength and optimism. I hope that the support of family, friends and concerned Canadians will carry you through.
With love,
Ann, Rhonda & Derek
Trevor, Deb, baby Grace, and family,
We think about you daily and pray for your full recovery. Stay strong.
Much love,
Megan and Matt
I’m coming in late with my posting, but I’ve been keeping up to date with everyone’s thoughts over the last couple of weeks. Thanks to Alan, and to Dave White for letting me know about the blog. This outpouring of love for Trev doesn’t surprise me at all — he touched a lot of people at King’s and elsewhere.
I thought some of you might like to read a bit of the message Trevor sent to me in December explaining why he was off to Afghanistan:
“I was called up to active duty last May and am about three days from shipping out to Kandahar for a seven-month tour of duty. I will have email access between patrols, so please feel free to keep in touch.
Kinda weird I know but this is a good mission for the country, my troops and myself. Keep the home fires burning and I dearly hope that I will get a chance to visit you soon.
Yours, aye,
Trev”
Short, sweet, and off the beat and track — we wouldn’t expect anything less of him.
I’m thinking about you every day, Trev. So are the rest of the ‘Peg MacLeans.
George
I’ve been serching like crazy trying to find updates about Trevor! I haven’t been able to get him off my mind since hearing about his attack. It has been truly heartwarming reading all the wonderful memories and comments regarding Trevor. I keep recalling all the partying with Trev, George, Greg, Rosalie, Meg , Kate, Glen………..so many great people and incredibly fun times at the WardRoom, Bleachers, Peddler’s Pub, etc. What a flashback seeing all the King’s alumni entries! Over the last few years I’ve lost touch with much of my King’s friends. Trevor was one person I seemed to literally bump into once a year. He always was off planning another adventure! On the last occasion that I saw Trev, I had the fortune to meet Debbie.
My prayers and well wishes are with Trevor, Debbie, Grace and his parents. Thank you, Al for setting this up. Please give my love to Ellen and the kids.
Heather
Hey Heather. Ellen is waving Hi.
I read your Trevor Green post and needed to ask you if you’d be interested in joining the Canadian Heroes Blogroll. I’d also like to link to your post on Trevor if you join. Any feedback is welcome, as our blogroll and site is only days old and will be worked on a lot in the future.
[Moved to this thread.]
I am now getting worried about Biggest of Als. He seems to spend an awful lot of time in front of his computer. I hope he has a comfortable chair, a boss who isn’t very curious, and a remarkably understanding family.
Do any of the Vancouverites have more info on Trev’s condition? The news seems to have dried up since he came home.
Never fear for BOA, Dave. I am just the janitor around this here blog but for 6:45 to 7:45 am.
Bess, Dick and Suzanne
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cam and Ada Beaton
I just heard about Trevor. I didn’t spend a lot of time with him in Vancouver, he was more of an acquaintance than a close friend there, but when we happened to meet again in Afghanistan he was great in helping me get settled in for the time I was there and treated me like an old friend. He has my prayers.
Last I have heard was Trev was moving eyes around, able to move shoulders not arms (yet) and really reacts to the smell of coffee. He seems to be making progress daily but it will be some time yet! Let’s keep all the positive spirit going his way, his family is with him and doing everything the can as well as the hospital staff!
Thanks to all for the updates on Trevor’s Condition. Hard to keep track from 8,000 miles away so please keep them coming.
Everyday a lttle better. Keep it up Trev.
Mud
Hello again. Just want to let Alan know that the blog is a great lifeline – thanks for keeping us up to date. I see that Trev is reacting to “the smell of the coffee,” well there’s just the perfect metaphor for making his way back home and back to normal. Needless to say, the care he is getting from everyone around him must be working its magic – and I hope he has music around him to listen to as well, it has been proven to accelerate recovery and improve immune response!! Anyway, as our mutual friend from Chiba Michael Stanley said to tell you when he heard about the attack: “Semper Fi.” We hope to see you soon Trev.
Peter
Good to hear the news on Trevor. If you’re playing music for him, I remember him cutting a mean rug to “Carribean Queen” at too many C100 video dances in Prince Hall at King’s.
Thanks for clearing up that mystery, Al, I was starting to think you had a pretty sweet thing going with the City of Kingston.
You’re in my daily thoughts and prayers, Trevor –
Sheila
This is for Commander Ed “Mud” Murdock: Hi Mud – I was a long-time buddy of Trev’s in Tokyo and have been trying to send you a mail but it keeps bouncing back unsent. I was down at Isshiki Kaigan a couple of times with my kids, and Trev took great care of us at the Key West…many different adventures, some during the dotbomb era when we worked for Stockhouse together. Anyway, drop me a line if you can at my emai just so I can get my mail to you. Best rgds, Peter in Tokyo
I know everyone wants to know more about Trevor, and yes indeed music therapy is being used and it’s working on Trevor. And Sheila, he was informed of your “Carribean Queen” request and it will get downloaded into his ipod – thanks for the tip.
And Dave White, Trevor was told that you in particular would like more information.
Trevor is still in ICU in Vancouver. I know that everyone wants to know more about how he’s doing and there will be more news very shortly in the coming days. The moment anything is released it will be posted here simultaneously to ensure you all get the info immediately.
There is some talk of creating a foundation to raise funds for Trevor and his family. Once I have more details I will post right away. If anyone has ideas for the foundation, or any experience in this, please do contact me.
Again, Deb and the family are so happy to have you all thinking of him and praying for him. Let’s keep it up, he hears us all lound and clear, that you can be assured. More to come…
Babs
thanks for the update…i check here everyday to see what progress trevor is making. he is in my thoughts everyday!
patti
Alan,
Can you give me a call ASAP. It’s about Lt. Greene, and it’s important.
(Sorry about being cryptic but I’m wondering whether you can help me get a private message to the family. I’ve already emailed Barb Stegemann but have no idea how often she checks her inbox. Thanks. 416.764.1331… feel free to call collect.)
Dan, can you send me the information to genx40@gmail.com.
Thanks for the update Barb. I’m glad you’re thinking about a way for those of us sitting in front of our computers can pitch in and help. Most of us wouldn’t realize that Trevor’s family is probably facing some huge challenges and expenses, as we have never experienced something like this. I don’t know anything about setting up a proper charitable foundation. But I wonder if you could do something as simple as establishing a bank account where we could deposit some cash? I’m sure you’ll have plenty of good ideas soon enough from this crew.
Greg
Thanks to all for keeping the site up to date . I like most, check on it everyday to see if any new information has becaome available.
One suggestion for setting up a foundation type charity is to speak to someone who works for a chartered bank. (Usually the bank Manager) This person should be able to set up an account in which people nationwide can donate into. If a chartered Bank is used people world wide would also be able to donate using the banks affiliates located around the globe. Hope this helps.
One thing I remember about Trevor’s music taste from our high school days is Bob Marley. got to luv that Old Reggae music!!!!
Troy
Count me in for any kind of fund or foundation people plan to set up.
Just scrolling through the memory banks for some Trev memories, and I’ve come up with the night he and I did the gift-giving at Alex Hall as the Clauses (I was Mr. by the way).
Leave it to Trevor to find a way to get all of the girls to sit on his lap.
That’s a good one, Dave. Cynthia Andrews and I were reminising about Trevor and Kings the other night. We vividly remember him carrying Collette Budge all over the place – so guess Collette yelling in his face didn’t damper that friendship, eh Collette??!! He was also one of four rowers who unceremoniously picked up Jonna Brewer out of her bed, PJs, blankets and all and carried her on their shoulders from her 2West room to the middle of the quad – singing “one doesn’t show, 3 don’t row” – when she slept through early morning practise. I suspect Robyn and Steve MacLean were in on that too, and likely Peter Classen.
Steve MacLean dropped in to visit us a few weeks back and Trevor was our topic of conversation too. We’ve been searching for the rowing poem that Pete Classen wrote, to no avail.
We’re all pulling for you Trevor – just like on the Northwest Arm at 6:00 a.m. – dig deep!!
Sheila
shelia your stories make me smile…how great those days were:)
Patti
Hello Everyone, and especially Deb, Grace and family,
I can’t believe what good memories some folks like Sheila Cameron have, for events that took place as early as 1984, and at 6 a.m. to boot!! I just remember getting there every a.m., or else! Thank you for reminding me of the rowing years at King’s…and of other zany events!!
Deb and family, please don’t feel any pressure to give us an update just because we check this web-site daily. I’m sure we all feel like we’re supporting you and Trevor just by reading and logging on to share our thoughts. We’ll all be here when you have something to tell us, whenever that may be.
I know from experience that when you have a loved one who is serously ill it’s a real process of taking in the medical information, understanding it, sharing it with those closest to you, and coming to terms with what you and your family are going through. The hospital is a whole other world.
After all of that, you find the strength to start to talk about what’s going on inside the walls of the hospital with those who care.
I now live in Waterloo Ontario, but am visiting Vancouver this week, so am thinking of you all most particularly this week as I am not so far away.
Deb and family, when you aren’t reading the thoughts of those who are thinking of you and are going about your daily routine supporting each other and Trevor, please remember that, although we are scattered across Canada and the world, you are never far from any of our thoughts. I hope that you gain strength from those of us both near and far, because we are all with you in spirit.
Heather Jeffery
P.S. Thank you Al for offering this medium of communication!
Trevor is continuing his progress, we are looking for good things soon!
To Trevor & Family,
I met Trevor’s parents at Jackie & John MacDonald’s place in Navan. Jackie keeps me informed of Trevor’s progress. We are praying for Trevor & his family.Always in our thoughts.
Regina & Lou Germann, Orillia,Ont.
To Trevor & Family,
I met Trevor’s parents at Jackie & John MacDonald’s place in Navan. Jackie keeps me informed of Trevor’s progress. We are praying for Trevor & his family.Always in our thoughts.
Regina & Lou Germann, Orillia,Ont.
To Trevor Greene and Family,
We wanted you all to know that your friends and former team mates at the Vancouver Rowers Rugby Club are thinking about you and wishing that you have a speedy recovery.
It was with great shock when we heard the news and everyone at the club was concerned about your health but we were all heartened by the news that you were battling your way back to recovery from what was a horrific incident. Although I have not had the pleasure of meeting your acquaintance many at the club speak very highly of you and the positive impact you had at the club both on and off the field.
At the recent Captains diner we paid tribute to your fighting spirit and once again the words ‘good bloke’ and ‘rugby player’ were said in the same sentence. We had many toasts for you that evening
We at the club wish you a full recovery and look forward to seeing you again in the near future.
Peter Amat
President Rugby Section
Respectfully on behalf of all at the Club
Att: Sheila Cameron
This is the problem with these blogs no one is there to check the facts and edit them. Trevor as a good journalist would be mortified. For the record I had nothing to do with hauling a bedroom clad Jonna Brewer into the quad. I am a clean living family man, please do not besmirch my reputation. Frankly this has always been the problem with being Trevor’s friend, guilt by association. The real problem is that the 6ft 4 inch blond guy just get’s away with more. It is always the average ht. bald guy who gets left holding the bag. If it wasn’t for the difficulty of finding maritimers addicted to Guiness on the west coast I am sure I wouldn’t be missing the lad so much 🙂
I forgot to ask Deb if they have checked his senses with Guiness.
On a serious note I would like to thank Greg, Trevor and Debs friend in Vancouver who have kept Chris, Nadine and myself informed out here in Penticton BC.
This from the man 27% of whose conversation with me after midnight was variations on “go ahead, Al…throw it / jump off it / drink it / ask her to dance / eat it…nothing’s gonna happen…go’wan, ya big ‘fraidy cat sissy!”
I am having serious doubts that you are the same Robyn Woodworth Gibson from Kings – the average height bald guy is right, but ‘clean living family man’??!! Can anyone out there verify his identity?? I’m gathering my witnesses, Robyn – better come clean!
It’s great to share these memories with all of you. Seeing your names in print does take me back 20 years like it was yesterday. Trevor was a big part of the Kings family and I hope he gets some smiles from these memories too.
Sheila
I know that a maritimer never let’s the truth get in the way of a good story, but please, let’s take some responsibility for our own actions here Al, like anyone ever had to tell you to “Drink it” after midnight. So no further forays into this revisionist history. Let’s try and remember that I was in pursuit of the Anglican ministry at the time, heck the sacristan of the chapel no less. If you can’t keep to the facts you will not be allowed to meet my children for fear you would taint their image of the thier father( not Father).
It was not the fact that I was having a drink you were encouraging my certain style. And, yes, I can confirm that whole chapel thing as I had to brush the Keith cans off you in Middle Bay sending you to your early morning religious shift as I ended my all-night Campus Police one…come to think of it I do remember watching you, Trevor and all hauling a bedroom clad Jonna Brewer into the quad as I ended my hard work towards the civic good of the University, sober and better off for studying Latin and Greek through the long night shift.
Hi Trevor, Debbie, Grace & extended family.
Even though we are in La Peñita, Mexico, we think of you all often. You’re ears must be constantly ringing because all of our guests have heard your story and we are always being asked what news we’ve heard and how you are doing. Everyone that we have talked to are praying and hoping for your speedy recovery. Take your time healing and we sure hope you are up to visitors when we come to visit Rob and Val in the summer. I’m afraid you’ll have to teach me again how to do the “ouuu ahhh” or whatever. I’ve lost the knack. Adios amigos….Bob and Linda Gibbs
OOHHH now your an eye witness to the whole dirty business. You are so busted when Trevor hears this. In the mean time someone find Jonna Brewer and get this cleared up before I have to get myself a lawyer.
I feel like I’m in the middle of a Law and Order episode: the ‘victim’ on the other side of a two-way mirror, Al and Sheila beside me, demanding I pick out the suspects. Two are a no-brainer: the 6 foot 4 blonde guy and the average-height balding guy playing “Mr. Innocent”. I must confess I’m a little fuzzy on the identity of the other two suspects (I was, after all, three-quarters asleep after another long, tough night of hitting the books) but I believe Sheila may be right about Steve and Peter. I think there is a photo in my collection…if I find it, I will kindly ask Al to post it as evidence, exhibit A if you will. On a more serious note, my thoughts continue to be with Trevor and his family. We are all anxiously waiting for that “good news”. I echo the thanks, Al, for providing this site as a way of getting updates on Trevor’s condition, sending wishes to him and his family and of re-connecting with people I fondly remember.
-JB
Hi Jonna! I am glad that this place is serving this role. And you send that evidence along so we can clear up this whole issue.
Dear Dick and Bessie; We have been trying to get in touch with you and have just found this site! Our thoughts and prayers have been with you since day 1 and will continue to be offered in our church and other prayer circles. If you have a phone number where you can be reached, please e-mail it to us as we would love to talk to you. from what we hear, Trevor must be improving and we hope this is true.This has to be one of the most difficult times of your life. thank God it wasn’t any worse than it was… Trevors buddies must have been on the ball when it happened. Anyhow Dick and Bessie, we think of you all daily; and will hear from you, or see you when you return.Russ & Marian.
Hello it’s Captain Mazzon writing, I met Trevor two years ago in Italy we attend together to CIMIC Course and we became friends, we spent a couple days to my home in Milano and we still remain in touch (I’m a Reserve Officer too). Just few weeks ago we wrote to each other concerning the future activities that both should manage in Afghanistan, I’ll be deployed there next week, and we took agreement to have a meeting there but instead I received this bad news during my pre-deploying training from other Canadian colleagues. It was so sad full knowing what append to him and I really pray that Trevor will turn back to his life in the same way that he was, the same wonderful man that I had the privilege to met once.
Renato Paolo Mazzon di Luvigliano
Cpt. Italian Army Reserve
I just felt this was important to let Trevor’s family know how much of an impact he makes on the people he meets. We met Trevor many years ago, as a teenager, when he became a wonderful addition to the family when he dated my sister . . . the memories of this young gentleman remain. I have held Trevor and his family in my thoughts as the days go by, hoping for Trevor’s recovery so he can continue to impact others.
I was on basic training in St Jean, Quebec with Trevor and like everyone, I have been following the updates on the news and the web. I cherish the late night “fire picket” conversations I had with Trevor in our “hootch” during the course. He told me that after being abroad he was deeply touched by the reputation and admiration that there was for Canada. As a result, he had joined the military to give something back to the country that gave so much. I find the news spots with Trevor’s Dad very refreshing and uplifting. It must take tremendous strength and courage for Richard to talk about Trevor’s condition to the national media (I know that Trevor will be very proud of how his old man handled the scrums). Seeing Richard gives me great insight into Trevor’s amazing roots. If basic training had any affect on Trevor, I would suggest yelling at him (in a thick French accent) “push-up position!” or “what are you doing Mr Green!?” so that this might awaken his intrinsic sense of duty. I optimistically and anxiously await Trevor’s full recovery.
Tim Woods
Cold Lake, Alberta
Hi Everyone…
Just wanted to say hello again…and thanks, George MacLean, for the MP3 song you sent to Barb. We will ensure it gets downloaded into Trevor’s IPOD…along with Carribean Queen, Sheila.
Trevor listens to his IPOD every day…so if anyone else has any other suggestions of songs that will evoke fond or funny memories for Trevor, please send them along to either me or Barb and we’ll make sure they get downloaded for him right away!
Clare in Vancouver
Hi everyone,
I would like to suggest the “Logical Song” by Supertramp for Trevor. I remember they played this for our last FYP lecture and he thought it was great. The words made alot of sense to us all at that time. Ive so enjoyed seeing all the names here each day when I check to see how Trevor is doing. Some of you were from 2 WEST in Alex Hall, as I was and its been fun reminicing about our Kings days. I remember so many of you and am going to try to dig out some pics I have of Trevor and others as well to send to Alan. A Kings reunion in 2007 sounds wonderful. Please keep us posted.
My thoughts and prayers are with Trevor and his family each day. He has love and support from all around the world. What an incredible network of friends and family….
Lynn in Kelowna
I remember Trev bellowing – his favorite singing style – Love Removal Machine by The Something Or Other, wait for it….jeez…..nope……wait…..The Cult. I actually had to put that call out on the radio this morning. I forgot the name of the band.
Anyways, as Danny Williams would say, Trevor had his own, um, unique lyrics for that tune. I think he might like it on the Ipod.
Cheers, kids.
Yes, that was by the flash in pan called The Cult – who played Halifax summer of 1986 during the tour for that album. Guns and Roses opened for them before they had a record and were properly booed.
By the way I think it was Jon Archibald who created an alternate version entitled “Snow Removal Machine” about the people plowing the streets. It was part of a theme on winter utility work Jon had along with his version of Sade’s “Smooth Operator” which went by “Snow Plow Operator”. But Jon always referred to the movie “Terms of Endearment” as “Terms of Red Deer Meat” so you never know.
I would think anything like “Would I Lie To You” by the Eurythmics would be good but again I think it would be difficult to find that contemporaneous Kings version in a Newfoundland accent which was called “Would I Lies To Yus, Buddy” – Macky would know where to find it if anyone could.
Two songs that Trevor and Shane and I would regularly sing (OK, scream at the top of our lungs) when out in Vancouver having a few Guiness were: Farewell to Nova Scotia (predictable I know), Don’t remember the name but it goes ” You’ll have to excuse me I’m not at my best…” and finally ” I would walk 5000 miles…”.
The second one is by Spirit of the West and is called “Home for a Rest”:
The third song is “500 Miles” by The Proclaimers.
I too have a request for the Ipod. It’s weird how something like this will make you think of an incident you’ve forgotten for 20 years. Trevor and I were doing an all nighter (being in journalism I’m sure it was the only one of my university career). I had two exams to write the next morning plus a paper to pass in before leaving for Feb break. We were working in the basement of Alex Hall and whoever was at the desk was getting ready to do a wake-up call for Anne Kenney. For some reason Trevor wanted the two of us to wake her up by singing the first verse of Jim Croce’s syrupy classic, “I’ll Have to Say I Love You in a Song”. I thought at the time it was kind of sappy but Trevor was insistent. So we took off a few precious minutes of studying to practice and then sang it into the intercom. Anne thought it was sweet – at least she said so – and we finished studying. Later that morning Trevor and I wrote our Poli Sci exam – I was so tired that I was falling asleep in the middle of it. Before I wrote the second exam Trevor scrounged up some caffeine pills – probably from some Chapel Bay science major as they were always pulling all nighters. I took the pills, wrote the second exam and drove back to PEI that afternoon. Either it was the placebo affect or just overtired, but I was totally wired all night and couldn’t get to sleep until 3 a.m.
Clare, I will e-mail you an MP3 asap. But for the proper affect, you should probably play it through a staticky intercom for him. Take care everyone.
Greg
Dear All:
Hopefully I’m not too late to help jog some peoples memories:
Robyn’s comment: “clean living”. Robyn, tell us all what happened in a McDonland’s bathroom just across the Canada-US border en route to Virginia Beach one spring break? You were a key contributor if I recall.
Jonna: You’re recollection may fail, but there are photos I will find when I next return home. I recall Steve, Trevor and I were in attendance.
Quiz: What Trevor did in college
True / False: Trevor sang at a Ward room Friday night open mike.
True / False: Trevor never missed a rowing practice.
True / False: Trevor never harmed a seagull.
True / False: Little Mary Sunshine and Trevor go way back.
True / False: Trevor had three gold K’s at graduation time.
Bonus question:
Trevor let his mark in many places – there is a trophy at King’s which Trevor made (yes, with his hands). What is it?
To his friends and family: I’m sure all of Trevor’s friends believe as I do, we will see Trevor’s name in the headlines years from now, describing his latest and even greater accomplishments. Trevor will always seek adventure – he will pursue unique perspectives and, even more valueable to us, he will not let go of something until he has shared his unique experiences with us. He has been a friend to many. Trust that his desire to share, his desire to experience new things and live a unique life will pull him through this tough time.
Prayers and kind wishes,
Peter Classen
I too was going to suggest “I’ll have to say I love you in a Song” for Trevor’s i-pod. He was fond of singing that in high school too!! Must have been a fav if he was still singing it in College! Here are a few more true/false for Trevor fans:
True/False: Trevor was the tallest member of his highschool basketball team.
True/False: Trevor’s dad’s van was carpeted.
True/False: Trevor called his dogs his “noonies”
True/False: Trevor’s attire of choice for formal functions was a red suit jacket with black lapels
True/False: Trevor owned a motorcycle while at Kings.
True/False: Trevor always looks up old friends whenever he happens to be in their neighbourhood.
Bonne Chance,
Donna
I emailed Trevor and family while he was being cared for in Landstuhl, Germany. After reading this site for the past month, however, I am finally breaking down in order to simply say thanks to Al for hosting, hello to everyone of whom I have heard so little for so long and, finally, to add my voice to the chorus of prayers for Trevor’s full recovery.
Honestly, you have all articulated Trevor’s attributes so much that I felt I could not really contribute anything more. But maybe that is the point – the sheer number of people that are pulling for him and the strength to which we are all waiting and praying.
As for music selections Clare, I’ll send along “Rise Again” by Stan Rogers, at risk of everyone thinking I’m being sick. Because, as Trevor will undoubtedly appreciate, I absolutely mean it and am looking forward to him doing just exactly that.
Lots of love from London,
Ian
Hi Ian. I knew you were out there somewhere.
Wow – reading this site puts me back in Alex Hall with my spiral perm and glasses.
At work we covered the story of Trevor quite extensively, but since his return home, I have heard little except for what I read on this site. I haven’t weighed in before but my God I count on this site. A big thanks to all of you who have posted updates and memories – it is valuable for someone on the East Coast who feels very removed from the action . Also a huge and slightly teary hello to the voices of the past – Greg, Dave, Babs, LuAnne, Robyn – etc… We had strange and wonderful years together.
I haven’t written before but I am so delighted to see how we are all still connected. Keep the updates and memories coming cause I’m readin’ them!!
Deo Legi Gregi
zard (actually Trevor called me this and I can’t get rid of it!!!)
Little mary sunshine and her proud pappy send our warmest thoughts and good catholic prayers and want it noted the last time we hung with the lovely mr green he was the finest boy amongst all of the finery at Woodys. We are thinking of you and laughing at all of the fun Kings stuff we got into.
rose thinks that a song needed for his Ipod is level 42’s ” something about you” and just know George is looking on and smiling and wishing you well
Kadota!!
x
jode
Exactly, brother Jodediah.
Like Ian, I contacted Trevor’s parents directly while they were in Germany. I’ve been mostly a “lurker” on this site, but I do check it every day and want to express my gratitude to Al for hosting and moderating. I’m sure that occasionally tapping into it is providing Trevor’s family with lots of emotional support. The only song I can suggest is “Broken Wings” by Mr. Mister. Not only are the lyrics thematically appropriate for his situation, being an athlete, Trevor always swore up and down that it was “tape these broken wings and learn to fly again….”
Cheers to all and prayers and warm thoughts to the Greenes, Deb and Grace,
Luanne
Hi;
Like many of the later messages, I had not planned to post anything but upon recognizing the King’s names, I thought I’d add a memory I hope Trevor can share in soon. I think of Trevor and think “big tall hulky smiley guy with hugs and lots of personality”. Haven’t seen Trevor in a while – I think the last time was with Georgio a few years back. Lots of great Little Mary memories – who could forget those Forest Rangers??? Hang in there Trev – you embody the meaning of Canadian peacekeeping and I’m sure those on both sides of this conflict want to see you be able continue to fulfil your role. To borrow from Jody – Chief Brown Bear -“Kadota!” I hope someone gets a chuckle out of the following quote:
“Stout-hearted is the Forest Ranger, he’s a scout; He’s thoughtful , friendly, courteous and kind; He’s reverent and grave – he’s healthy and he’s brave; He’s clean in soul and body and mind! YES SIR! He’s cheerful, honest , thrifty and obedient; To love the good and hate the bad is his plan; So if there’s any danger you can be sure the Forest Ranger will march on man to man!”
Kay
Peter, I’ll give your quiz my best shot –
True : Trevor sang at a Ward room Friday night open mike.
True : Trevor never missed a rowing practice.
True : Trevor never harmed a seagull.
True : Little Mary Sunshine and Trevor go way back.
True : Trevor had three gold K’s at graduation time.
Bonus question:
Trevor let his mark in many places – there is a trophy at King’s which Trevor made (yes, with his hands). What is it? I remember the blades of two wooden oars being sanded a million times by you and Trevor and then mounted as the “Best Female Rower” and “Best Male Rower” awards.
All the new entries on the blog are flooding me with memories and song requests. Ian Coll – I remember many trips in your old station wagon from Truro to Halifax with Bryan Adams “Summer of ’69” blasting as loud as we could stand. Jody, I have to mention your Kings debut doing Madonna’s ‘Vogue’ which obviously was only a glimmer of your amazing career to come – awesome website!
To Trevor’s parents and Deb and Grace – I hope the multitude of these entries from around the globe give you a sense of how many lives Trevor has touched and how special he is to all of us. I hope and pray that he continues to improve and that when you are ready, you will share with us his progress.
Sheila
Hi,
Thanks Liz for forwarding on this site. It was only a few weeks ago that Liz, Mary, Jen, Mel, Pam and I were together sharing our favourite memories of Trevor. The ladies from 2 West/1985 had to smile when thinking of you Trevor. We did have a laugh over those first hours at King’s when Robyn W, Ian C. and yourself were all helping the freshman girls up to their rooms with our trunks. Not sure what the motivation was.. but all our Dads were suspicious!
Then, you were one of those handsome, healthy, lovely boys who made first year so fun. Now you are one of those handsome and lovely men that have tried to make this world a better place. We are thinking of you and sending our thoughts and prays your way.
LJ
Hi Everyone,
Wow, this is an absolutely amazing site. What a wonderful tribute to Trevor and the person he is! It is great to see so many familar names–what a blast from the past! As LJ said in her post, we were just together a few weeks ago talking, laughing and catching up. Trevor brought us together that night. Jen had emailed us about what had happened and that initiated us making a date to have dinner!
To Trevor’s family–please know that we are sending good thoughts your way and look forward to hearing how Trevor is doing!
Pam Dilworth-Christie
Let’s keep up the chat about the charity foundation, he’s got a long road ahead…
I am in for the charity foundation and wonder if its first collective act might not be ensuring (if it is not there already) the George Earles Fund is fully funded to allow Kings to give out scholarships.
It has now officially gone too far.
Someone has taught Ian Coll how to use a computer.
This is just why the internet was invented. So a goof in the Yukon can call a goof in London England a goof.
Hey my pal Al …have been a regular to GENX40, but these are finally my people writing in!! To add to the ipod tunes: “Life is a Highway” brings back Wardroom memories and the lyrics seem especially fitting:
There’s no load I can’t hold
Road so rough this I know
I’ll be there when the light comes in
Tell ’em we’re survivors
I have a picture of Trevor, Joyce B and Charlotte with the rowing trophy…will see if my computer techie (aka Luanne!!) can upload to the site.
And Trevor, I will be looking forward to your speaking tour when all this is said and done!! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jane
ottawa
Just email the picture, Jane, to genx40@gmail.com and I’ll post it for you. Remember, that goes for anyone else as well.
Thanks for the great song requests everyone! I’ll let you know how they go over with the big guy.
Barb and I spent a lovely evening last night with Deb, Grace, Bessie, Dick and Suzanne. They are so touched by the outpouring of support from all over the world and sincerely appreciate all of the prayers and wishes and positive thoughts.
The family feels it’s a bit premature at this stage to establish a trust or foundation. However, we discussed several different options and they will take some time to reflect on them. We will keep everyone updated.
All the best,
Clare in Vancouver
That makes sense, Clare.
Hi, Trevor, Debbie, Gracie, Bessie, Dick, and Suszanne
Just spoke with mom. My email address is above.
Rosie
More pictures, these sent from Luanne Walton:
I am certain that there was a much better Santa in 1983 or so but only because I had to hold up Fisher in his over exuberant performance of Mrs. Claus.
More photos, this time from Sheila Cameron, my favorite source of good swish as I recall. These are from the 1985 yearbook mainly and the photos under the click this time are very large so you can read the text if you like:
Al, I remember the Santa and Mrs Clause of ’83 – enough to make a poor girl nervous of men wearing red and big smiles for many years to come. Trevor’s version of Mrs Clause reminds me of my Great Aunt Florrie – also pretty scary but in batty, happy kinda way. I’ve emailed you a pic sent to me by JB – happy memories of Trevor, the Wardroom and the best music ever. Hope you can post it. Can I suggest Frankie Goes to Hollywood and ‘The Power of Love’ for Trevor’s iPod? I hope his recovery is a case in point.
Great to see postings from so many familiar names – the power of the internet indeed – though the English for ‘goof’ would probably be ‘plonker’, just so you know Al. Luv ya, Veronica.
I must add my compliments and thanks to Alan and all those contributing to this site. I am a friend of Trevor’s Aunt Marion, Aunt Jeannette and Uncle Ronald (via Richard)and I have been printing off these pages for them. Although they were receiving regular updates from Richard, these comments have given them information of a different type and much encouragement. It has also made them even more proud of their nephew because of the friendship and support shown here.
Much love and many prayers from Trevor’s family in NB.
Please add George Winston’s Autumn and the Moonlight Sonata to the IPOD list…….
cheers, H
More pictures by email, this time from from old friend Troy Giles:
I am a US Navy nurse who cared for Trevor while in Germany. I am happy to find a website that gives updates on his progress. It is difficult to care for someone and then not get follow-up. Thanks for your dedication. Send my thoughts to his family. LT Miller, USN
Trevor,
Thinking of you every day.
Sending you positive waves for a strong recovery
Warm hugs for you and all your family,
Andreia
Peter from Tokyo again. Some weeks ago I was able to send 3 faxes to Landstuhl and am confident the family received them and read them to Trev at his bedside. In one of them I suggested the benefits of music therapy and am very happy to see such a wonderful outpouring of suggestions for his iPod. Let me add to those, however, the strange coincidence that on the Sunday night that Trev was flown from Kandahar to Germany, I was sitting here in Tokyo with another friend of Trevor’s (Sumie, another longtime Vancouver resident and former colleague at Stockhouse) listening to the gripping platinum album by James Blunt. We were wondering what terrible memories from Kosovo had given rise to his haunting song, “No Bravery”. A Tokyo-based friend who served with British forces after graduating from Oxford had suggested to me the day before that we listen to the album, and then only a day later we heard from Mitch Murata (a long-time Japanese-Canadian friend also of Stockhouse vintage) about the incident. How odd. Two weeks later, my old chum Chris Haddon turned up in Tokyo and told me in passing about his wonderful neighbors south of London who turned out to be James’ parents. In any case, James was just in Vancouver a week ago, and hopefully gave his many fans there a chance to hear his poignant message. Next week he and his family are all coming here to Tokyo. It is a strange connection, but typical of the ones triggered at the oddest times during my 15 year friendship with Trevor. I do hope to hear soon whether he is starting to hum along with the iPod and other sly signs that he is just waiting to surprise us all with his reawoken intensity. Best to all. Peter in Japan
I have been checking GenXat40 regularly (although U may want to note I am not yet 40!) and thinking about Trev every single day. I would REALLY appreciate any updates from family on his condition.
On the song front Clare, and at the risk of sounding insensitive(ya’ll know I am anyway), I would suggest you try to find “Legs” by ZZTop… I think Trevor and Rilla MacLeod danced to that when they were voted “best legs of frosh week” back in ’84.
Al when UR back on PEI come for a beer at Churchill’s Pub with me and Bags Brown.
Love and hope to Trevor and his family, Sara C.
Will do. Perhaps June-ish, Sara.
Hi Trevor, Dick, Bessie, Debbie and King’s Alumni:
Greg Guy told me about this blog. Reading through it stirred up so many memories, especially the college shenanigans. You have so many good friends who really care for you and are rooting for you, Trevor. You might recall I last saw you on June 25, 2005 at King’s College where we were part of a small get together with Barry Moores in the Wardroom. You came in from BC were getting ready to deploy from Halifax to Kandahar for a tour. You had your full military gear in your room at Alex Hall and were as excited as a kid to be going to the middle east. You talked a lot about your life in BC and about Debbie and the baby. I told you my son loves all things military and in typical Bubba fashion, you began rooting through your rucksack, tossing out things to give to him, including an army Tshirt to fit a 6’4″ man. I passed on the shirt, but I still have the other stuff you gave me, even the mystery novel about Venice you said I had to read. Get well soon – you always were a tough bugger and I expect you will get through this as well. To Dick and Bessie- I had the pleasure of being invited to your home in Orleans for dinner circa 1999 along with John MacDonnell. It was clear that Trevor came from a good home. You raised a fine boy and a great Canadian and I am sure you are proud of him. Incidently, Bessie, Father Tom MacNeil from New Waterford sends you his prayers and best wishes. I would suggest a couple of 80’s tunes for the Ipod – maybe “Jump” from Van Halen – the biggest hit song of 1984, Trevor’s King’s freshman year and an apt Canadian classic – “Never Surrender” by Corey Hart. Jamie from North Sydney, NS, (King’s class of 87)
Can someone send me an update on Trevor’s condition? Myself and a few of his army buddies are wondering how he’s doing. Hopefully you can give me some more positive news to spread around, especially for those deploying back to Afghanistan in the next few months.
If I ever get my pictures scanned from my summer with him in Gagetown(2002) I can upload them for everyone.
Tim
When I first saw Trev’s picture on the CBC website that morning, I naturally assumed he’d written the article in question. The range of thoughts and feelings that followed are clearly shared by all. Part of the difficulty in absorbing the gravity of Trevor’s current situation is, of course, that he’s in no way ‘grave’ in outlook, character, etc. Indeed, once the initial shock subsides, the overwhelming reaction is to laughingly recollect on he various funny, innocent, and hilariously stupid incidents that occasionally was King’s in the 80s. Trevor was typically in the middle of it all. Trevor, trusting that you will peruse these various comments sometime soon (well done Al although sorry ‘bout them Leafs [go Habs]), I will refrain from commenting on your musical ‘tastes’. I will confirm, however, that the above-mentioned choices accurately reflect what you subjected us to back in the day…
Trev,
I am glad to have found this site, and it only reaffirms what I have always known – That Deb and Gracie are lucky girls to have you in their life, and that we have all been blessed to have you as a friend. I wish you all the best mate, and get well soon. There’s a dit to be spun, and you spin them better than anyone.
If anyone knows how Trev is doing, please let me know.
Christian “Killer” Kowalski
Jamie Briggs sent along another note and a photo by email:
Trevor is continuing to progress each day! Out of respect for their family, that is really all I can say! As soon as the “greene” light is given, we will let you all know what exactly is going on. Again this is on the request of Trevor’s family.
That is fantastic news and it goes without saying that we are all very happy with the trend and respect the need to let the family focus on Trevor getting better.
Followed the head lines and – knew Trevor and his sister since grade 5 – good old Our Lady of Wisdom in Queenswood Heights. Lost track of this beautiful and wonderful family since 1984 – I moved away. Trevor has been in my thoughts and prayers since I read it. Had no idea how he was doing until today. Thanks Troy for using classmates.com for letting us know and somehow connected me to this site. God Bless You All !
Kim Lytle (“The Cumberland Kid”)
All,
I am a friend of Trevors from the Japan days. I am still trying to find a copy of a photo we have from 1998 when Trevor came to visit. It was the first time to meet my wife and we had a few bottles of Sake and spent the evening catching up.
I was in Taiwan when I heard about the incident and I am now in Japan. If there is any way I can get a message to his family please let me know. I have his personal email account but not sure if he is up reading the mails. Hopefully I will be in Vancouver later this year and can hook up with him.
Can someone send my a contact telephone number for Trevor’s parents.
I would like to speak with them personally so I can tell them I am praying for Trevor.
I am the father of The Late Cpl. Paul Davis.
I will forward your email address, Jim.
Hi all,
This message is long overdue to family, friends and well-wishers who are checking this blog on a daily basis and hoping to find information about Trevor’s recovery. My last post was from Germany quite a few weeks ago – my apologies it’s been a busy few weeks. Every week we see improvements in Trevor’s recovery – sometimes big, sometimes little but the trend is defintely upwards. Over the past few weeks, he has come out of his coma, began to talk (albeit soft and a bit patchy), and is eating a regular diet (including a daily latte, chocolate, sushi, fresh fruit and whatever else he asks for). He is now in the longest chapter of the healing process – rehabilitation. Some would say it is a miracle he has made it this far. As expected, his body is extremely stiff and his muscles need some major work but in true Trevor fashion, he is very motivated to get moving again. This week he started in the gym with the physiotherapists. I have absolutely no doubts Trevor will be back to himself at some point this year. This morning the nurse shared with me a true Trevor story from the other night: while drinking some water she commented “wow, you can sure suck back the water!”. Having said nothing to her all night, he said “you should see me drink beer!”. Hopefully that gives some comfort about Trevor’s state of mind.
We continue to get letters and cards – all of which all will be shared with Trevor over time. Thanks to everyone who shared stories and pictures of Trevor over the years – I must say he has definitely improved with age! Keep them coming – he’ll get a great chuckle out of them one day.
Many people have asked how I feel about the Canadians role in Afghanistan in light of the accident. I fully supported Trevor’s desire to help the people of Afghanistan and have known since I first met him that he would do a tour of duty one day. I don’t feel any anger or acrimony towards the Afghan people for the accident. I don’t believe Trevor would also. I have learned more about our involvement in Afghanistan and really feel that they need the help of our troops and the support of Canadians to enjoy the freedoms we often take for granted.
Grace is too young to understand the magnitude of what has happened to her daddy but she does visit him on a regular basis. Being only 15 months, she likely won’t remember any of this and will be regaled with Trevor’s storytelling, only he won’t have to embellish much!
Please continue to send the music requests to Clare and Babs – they are ensuring Trevor gets to walk down memory lane with this great music. Keep the positive thoughts flowing his way – they are definitely helping.
Debbie & Grace
Hi all,
This message is long overdue to family, friends and well-wishers who are checking this blog on a daily basis and hoping to find information about Trevor’s recovery. My last post was from Germany quite a few weeks ago – my apologies it’s been a busy few weeks. Every week we see improvements in Trevor’s recovery – sometimes big, sometimes little but the trend is defintely upwards. Over the past few weeks, he has come out of his coma, began to talk (albeit soft and a bit patchy), and is eating a regular diet (including a daily latte, chocolate, sushi, fresh fruit and whatever else he asks for). He is now in the longest chapter of the healing process – rehabilitation. Some would say it is a miracle he has made it this far. As expected, his body is extremely stiff and his muscles need some major work but in true Trevor fashion, he is very motivated to get moving again. This week he started in the gym with the physiotherapists. I have absolutely no doubts Trevor will be back to himself at some point this year. This morning the nurse shared with me a true Trevor story from the other night: while drinking some water she commented “wow, you can sure suck back the water!”. Having said nothing to her all night, he said “you should see me drink beer!”. Hopefully that gives some comfort about Trevor’s state of mind.
We continue to get letters and cards – all of which all will be shared with Trevor over time. Thanks to everyone who shared stories and pictures of Trevor over the years – I must say he has definitely improved with age! Keep them coming – he’ll get a great chuckle out of them one day.
Many people have asked how I feel about the Canadians role in Afghanistan in light of the accident. I fully supported Trevor’s desire to help the people of Afghanistan and have known since I first met him that he would do a tour of duty one day. I don’t feel any anger or acrimony towards the Afghan people for the accident. I don’t believe Trevor would also. I have learned more about our involvement in Afghanistan and really feel that they need the help of our troops and the support of Canadians to enjoy the freedoms we often take for granted.
Grace is too young to understand the magnitude of what has happened to her daddy but she does visit him on a regular basis. Being only 15 months, she likely won’t remember any of this and will be regaled with Trevor’s storytelling, only he won’t have to embellish much!
Please continue to send the music requests to Clare and Babs – they are ensuring Trevor gets to walk down memory lane with this great music. Keep the positive thoughts flowing his way – they are definitely helping.
Debbie & Grace
To Debbie and Grace – thanks so much for this update on Trevor’s recovery. Like many others I check this blog daily to see if there’s news, so to hear he’s ‘on the up’ has made my day. Love and prayers still coming your way from here in the UK.
Veronica
Fantastic news, Debbie.
To Debbie,
I went to King’s with Trevor — in the same classroom our first year, we would from time to time bump into each other around campus the next few years. I don’t know if he would even remember me, but I remember him as a dashing, intelligent, really SWEET guy — a rare combination in those days! I never knew him well but I always got such a great feeling from him — I remember him telling me he was going to Japan after King’s — and thinking –to myself Trevor is just one of those people who’s life will be filled with adventure, and travel and stories. I was horrified to read about the accident — and I am thinking of you and Grace..and checking this site for updates. I can only wonder how many lives Trevor’s has touched…and as a mother of young kids too…I can only imagine how much strength you are drawing from Grace and the thoughts of when the three of you will be back home — it’s all a journey — and you WILL get there. You’re all in my thoughts and prayers, especially Trevor.
Angela Yazbek
Debbie
thank you for taking the time to give us and update…i know that you have many other things to do these days. i read this blog every morning before i leave for work and today it gave me the reason to start my day with a smile. i think that everyone whom has sent thoughts knows that trevor will make it through this 100%….just let him know there is not one day that goes by that i do not send him my thoughts and some postive energy.
again thanks for the update
Patti Dunn
Debbie, I am so grateful for this update and the terrific news that Trevor is fighting his way back. Courage to all three of you to get all the way back to “normal” as soon as possible. Best wishes, Stu.
Woo-hoo!!! What an incredible relief and joy to hear of Trevor’s progress. Clearly his path is an awesome one. Thank you Debbie for sharing with the rest of us. What an inspiration he is! My constant thoughts and well wishes remain.
Kathie Hicks, St. John’s, NL
That’s wonderful news! I don’t get out much these days so Friday night when I meet a friends for beers I’ll be lifting a pint to Trevor’s speedy rehab. Thanks for the update Debbie and best wishes to you and Grace.
Greg Macdonald, Calgary
Thank you for the fantastic news, Deb!! I’m so happy and relieved to hear about Trevor’s progress. You can be assured that there will be many a glass held up to toast to his and your success! You may want to add a few REM or U2 tunes on that ipod to motivate Trevor in the gym. I can still see him bopping about the Wardroom during the dances. Tell him I’m cheering him on!! Best wishes to you all.
Heather Phillips, Halifax
Brilliant. Absolutely Brilliant!! What a great way to start a day. Thank you so much for the update Debbie.
It’s surely a long road to recovery that lies ahead but it is so fantatic to hear that he is firmly on it…and by the sounds of things… traveling in top gear! Loads of love and prayer,
Ian Coll, London UK
Hello Debbie, Grace, Mr. and Mrs. Greene, Suzie and TREVOR!!!
I’m so happy to hear this great news. Along with so many others, I am sending positive thoughts to you everyday – looks like it’s working! Thank you for this detailed update.
Donna
Hello to everyone, especially Trevor, Debbie and Grace 🙂
I just wanted to let you know I keep you all in my thoughts on a daily basis. My boyfriend is overseas at the moment in Afghanistan and has a few more months to go before he comes home. He’s had some close calls and, any time something bad happens to other soldiers, I keep those people and their families in my mind constantly. We’re too small of a military family for it to be any other way!
Sending positive healing vibes!!
angela
Just wanted to add my voice to the rabble and send along my wishes for a speedy recovery to Trevor, and my appreciation for all the hard and risky work our Canadian Forces are doing in Afghanistan.
Trevor you and your family are in my prayers. I always choke and shed a few tears when I hear of our soldiers being wounded or killed. Your recovery is important to all of us here, hang in there! God Bless!
Debbie and Grace,
Please tell Trevor that the few remaining people from the Zushi, Japan days send their regards. The summer is coming and we will be at Oasis next to Morito kaigen. Many fond memories of hanging out there listening to Regge, sipping Chu-hi’s or guzzling Kirin Beer with TREE.
My wife and I just returned to Japan from a 4 year assigment in Taiwan and are looking forward to being back in Hayama (about 10 minutes from Zushi). Trevor knows it well and should you 3 need a vacation, there is always room.
Best regards,
Rob and Hiroko Fuller
Hello,
On behalf of the 700 volunteers of the Maple Leaf Legacy Project around the world, Many of them in Canada’s military, I would like to send our best wishes for a full and speedy recovery to Trevor. We are all following the events in Afghanistan and fully support our team there and mourn the loss of our precious soldiers.
Kind regards,
Steve Douglas,
Director, Maple Leaf Legacy Project, Ypres, Belgium
It’s so wonderful to hear this news about Trevor.
Best,
Wayne
What happy news today to read in a Canadian Press story that Trevor is on the mend, which sent me to this blog.
I didn’t really know Trevor at Kings, but I met him a few times at Kings events in recent years, including the party for Barry Moores pictured above, and he made a strong impression on me. Trevor is not the sort of fellow that having met you would forget.
I was very impressed by Trevor. You did not need to know him well to get a sense of his physical and moral strength and courage. It made me feel good to know that someone like him was serving in the Canadian Forces.
I cover federal politics in Ottawa for The Chronicle Herald, and I have been trying to keep Trevor in mind whenever I have to write anything about Afghanistan.
I look forward to having a beer with him some day soon.
Hi Steve. Good words, buddy.
Just reading The Province newspaper today, where a Canadian Press article was posted updating Trevor’s situation. Although it mentioned Debbie had a blog, it neglected to state a website address. Does anyone know what it is ??? Or is it personal and purposely not printed ?
Thx, and best wishes to the Greene family, friends and supporters.
WW: this is the blog that the CP reporter was describing.
This is the best news I’ve seen in ages (27 Apr 06)!!! There are so many of us out here, rooting for you … I’d have to take my boots off and use my toes if I were trying to count the thousands … !!!
Signed, “A CIMIC guy from Op ATHENA, Roto 0”
I’ve read the good news about Lt. Green’s progress on recovering from his injury. I’ve also asked my grand daughters to ‘read’this web site because it’s important for them to know the ‘fabric’of our Canadian Servicemen. I can only pray that as they grow, they will display the same character, strength and courage as displayed by Lt. Greene. God’s speed for his continued and full recovery.
Roy Murden – a grateful Canadian – Hillsdale, Ontario
I am so thrilled to read the wonderful news about Trevor. I feel like I’ve been holding my breath since it happened, and I was just directed to this site a few moments ago and I’m just so happy right now. I was Trevor’s editor on his book, “Bad Date,” and he was an absolute joy to work with. He’s such a laid-back, happy guy, it shouldn’t surprise me that he’s bouncing back like this. 🙂 Much love to him and his family, and thank you Debbie for updating people like this when you have so much else going on right now.
Debbie and Grace! I just want to thank you so much for letting everyone know Trevor is doing. I am one of those who has been checking this site everyday just to receive any tid bit of information. This is truly a miracle. I have posted here a few times (old high school friend)and it amazes me every day how Trevor has affected so many lives. It does not surprise me whatsoever that he still has his amazing sense of humour and that he is putting so much of an effort into his recovery. I am sending as much positive energy as I can muster your way. You are all in my thoughts every day!!!
Hi Trevor,
I have been out of the country and soon to be off agagin but heard the news on the television this morning andit all seems to be good. Christopher and Nadine are expecting the arrival of their first this weekend so we are driving up so ELizabeth can be on hand to see our first grandchild. It all started with that memorable wedding, which I am sure you remember!!!
You have been in our thoughts even though we were away and hope to see you soon. Keep up the good work and I can just imagine a place in the 3rd XV this fall—OK maybe just on the sideline for now,
All the very best, Mike and Liz and family
Hi Debbie and Grace,
I’m a friend of Trevor’s from Japan and was delighted to read the great, great news on his progress. We’d been in touch by e-mail during his deployment, including an exchange after his whiplash in Feb. (How long ago that seems now!) I’m in contact with a bunch of the old Tokyo gang and we are all looking forward to continued positive updates and, eventually, some demonstrations of that beer-quaffing prowess he’s bragging about. Please send my very best to Trevor, you, and his parents.
Great news!!
I am absolutely thrilled to hear that Trev is thirsty for a beer and able to make jokes about it with the hospital staff. He is made of tough stuff that one – and now that there are a few more of us old Japan hands logging on, I am pretty sure we are going to have a few pints raised off and on this summer in Hayama and elsewhere with numerous toatst to his health and to your happiness, all of you out there in this amazing planet-spanning globe-circling “Get well soon, Trev” fan club.
And to Trev himself: “Oy, gambaru zo, Toreba-san!!! Mata Isshiki-kaigan de aimashou. Biiru wa hieteru yo!”
Trevor,Debbie, and Grace;
I am so glad to hear of Trevor’s continued recovery. We were partners on a military Navigation Ex prior to my deployment overseas in 2004. I will never forget driving around Saltspring with Trev. He certainly could put away the beer at the end of a training day.
My best wishes to all of you.
Brent
Trevor, Debbie, & Grace,
Great to hear that Trevor is recovering a giving the nurses a hard time. I worked with Trevor in the late 1980s in Tokyo and have kept in touch since. In addition to much heavy drinking, we have also done some scuba diving together. On one trip to the Philippines, Trevor forgot to pack shorts and opted instead to wear sarongs bought at the local shops (no shorts were big enough for the big man). The “commando” look left a lasting impression on all of us.
Anyway, Trevor, you still have unfinished business. Remember your plan to join an Australian life saving club? Then, of course, the ultimate challenge: the Coolangatta Gold! Get well soon, digger!
Finally, my music request for Trevor is Sex Machine by James Brown. That’s one of his favorites.
Cheers,
Tezza (alias Terry Graham)
Brisbane, Australia
Debbie,
While I have not had the pleasure of meeting you (and you must be an exquisite lady to put up with Trevor), I have spent some time with Trevor. I am another one of the Western Canadian CIMIC lot (I see a few of us posting here). Trevor is a great guy; his smiling face and his wry humour have always been welcome at any CIMIC event. I was crushed when I heard about this, but it is such great news that Trevor is on the road to recovery. Knowing Trevor, I should never have doubted it. Best wishes to you, Trevor, and Grace. If he’s up to it, I’m going to try and track “Buttercup” down when I’m in Vancouver next.
I have been watching the news and following all the reports about Trevor since hearing about the accident. Like many of the other Kings alumni, my first reaction was “It can’t be that Trevor Greene.”
Wonderful to hear he is improving and getting stronger every day. If there is anything to the true power of positive thinking, then judging by these posts Trevor is riding a tidal wave of love and support.
My thought are with him and his family.
Carolyn
(P.S. Alan McLeod, glad I found this blog; do you really live in Kingston, because I live in Harrowsmith!)
Harrowsmith, eh? Do you know Julie?
Keep fighting Trevor!! We are all thinking about you here in Orleans. I have known Trevor for about 25 years we were Blackburn Bengal Football team-mates and went to Cairine Wilson HS as well. You will never meet a more quality guy!
Steve,Sandra,Chelsea,Madison and Paige
PS.
Thanks for putting this site together.
As a fellow “Asian-Caucasian” (one of Trevor’s nicknames in Japan),I want to pass along a very recent article from the Japan Times newspaper by a real mentor of Trevor, Mr. C.W. Nicol, who managed to visit him in the hospital twice during his short stay here, in Vancouver.
Pardon my lack of computer-savy, but the link I will try to pass along is http://search.japantimes.co.jp/cgi-bin/fe20060503cw.html
If this fails, it may be found somewhere on their daily home page: http://www.japantimes.com
C.W.’s monthly articles are normally listed under the “Environmental” section of this particular paper, but he seems to have accellerated the new topic of Trevor far ahead of the Japan Times’ usual schedule…..Yeh Nic!!!
Best regards to all family and friends of Trevor and a side “hello” to Peter in Tokyo…..We shared many chu-namas together with Trevor in one sitting (I think!).
Greg
Great to hear about the progress! Thanks Debbie.
Hello all,
First, I want to state how pissed off I am that it took me 2 months to find this blog! I kept hearing about a ‘blog’ in the press but could never find it… and I am supposed to be pretty good at this internet stuff too. 😛
Oh well, I have finally found it!
I have been surprised to see just how many people Trevor’s life has touched. I just figured it was me and a few other people who thought the guy was one of the Earth’s best! It really shouldn’t come as any surprise though. Ever since I met him when he came to do a story on a company I was involved with, and I ended up practically hiring him on the spot for our company, I knew the guy was one of those rare special breed.
Ever since hearing of the event in Afghanistan in March I have been following any news and information I could get, and have had as my #1 hope for the foreseeable future, that I once again meet with Trevor, shake his hand, and we do what we always do, shoot the $hit, talk about what is happening, and how we can damn well help to change it for the better.
Since I am a bit late to this blog party, and it appears that, as expected, Trevor has begun to get through this ordeal and is on his way to recovery, I won’t spend too much time giving my ‘well wishes’ and all that, except for to say, obviously, all my best to Trevor and his family to continue to get through this as I am sure you have many difficult days of rehabilitation ahead of you, but hopefully each day gets easier and easier from now.
That aside, if everyone doesn’t mind, I’d like to tell a story or two about Trevor. I am sure everyone here has at least a few.
The first is how, in 2001, in Hyama Japan, he, I and a few other weirdo’s had rented a house there for a few weeks and were enjoying the summer. I remember almost every morning Trevor would put us on a ‘hike’ to the restaurant which had to be a good 3 miles away from our house. He’d go at almost jogging speed with his long walking strides, yelling at the rest of us to keep up. There were different people at different times, but 2 of us were there every day, me and a girl named Jamie. Trevor nicknamed her J-wop, I am still not sure why.
He later nicknamed me Jaga, saying that when I am on the prowl for women I am like a jaguar. He then told me his nickname is Tree, because he is so tall, although I was never quite clear on who gave him that nickname as it kinda sounded like he made it up for himself.
Nonetheless, years later when I heard that someone had hit Trevor in the back of the head with an axe, some of my first thoughts were, “It’ll take more than one swing from an axe to fell that Tree.” Thankfully it was so.
But probably the best story I have about Trevor, however, was the day I called him and said, “Hey, Trevor, uh, I bought a sailboat… I’ve never sailed before, and I want to take it from Los Angeles up to Vancouver, and no one will help me… interested?”. I think it was 2 days later that he flew down to LA, after telling me he has a lot of sailing experience from sailing on a Canadian Navy tall ship from Canada to Australia.
He arrived, and we decided we would shove off the next morning… so, of course, that meant we had to go out for drinks that night to celebrate our journey ahead. As many of you know, Trevor can devour glasses of beer and wine just like water (as the nurse took notice!) and that night he was in fine form as we sat at a unique little hideout in Santa Monica, CA.
As usual we got a little carried away and so we didn’t really wake up until almost noon (we intended to wake up around 7am so we could reach our first intended port under daylight). We then realized we hadn’t really gotten any supplies, food or anything, so we did that until about 2pm.
Finally around 2:30pm we shoved off… only a few minutes in Trevor told me he really had never been on a normal sailboat, only the Navy’s tallships, which is totally different. He said basically he just swabbed the decks and stuff, there wasn’t really any ‘sailboat’ type sailing involved. My response was, “oh… ok…”.
Only about 30 minutes into the trip, Trevor comes flying out of the boat and pukes all over the place. He continued to puke for the next hour or so and was in obvious discomfort. He then went below and that was the last I saw of him for nearly 24 hours.
It was about an hour later that we were hit by a fairly major storm (neither of us really knew how to check marine weather at the time either)… I was getting drenched by huge ice-cold waves… then my GPS somehow got knocked out so I didn’t even know where we were… and soon it became dark… it was about 4-6 hours of getting pummelled, not having any clue where I was, missing hitting a large metal fishing boat by about 30 feet, that I somehow, around 5am spotted a light on shore, found a marina, tied up and fell to sleep, completely exhausted from the ordeal.
At 8am Trevor came above, feeling much better now that the boat had stopped moving, looked at me without a hint of knowing what had happened the previous night and said, “so, where are we?”… I told him I had no idea where we are because I had no GPS. He just shrugged and said, “Cool. How was last night, good?”.
I still to this day don’t really think he knew what happened that night.
We later went on to smash into the rocks in Monterrey, and had many other near-death encounters as we made our way to San Francisco, when Trevor was called away to duty with the military.
I later ended up sinking that boat in a storm in El Salvador, to which Trevor, after hearing about it, told me he couldn’t wait to see me and hear the story. And now, likewise, I look forward to the day I can sit down with Trevor and hear his story of how he survived an axe attack in Afghanistan and hear what he plans to do next.
Trevor,
I not sure if you will remember me. I attended Cairine Wilson with you as well. I stopped by the Cairine Wilson 30th anniversary this weekend, and was shocked to read about this terrible ordeal you and your family is living through. Although through the media I had heard/read about a Canadian peace keeping officer injured while on duty in Afganistan – I did not put 2 and 2 together until just this weekend. I am amazed and inspired at how much you have accomplished since high school – but more importantly how much you have contributed positively back to society. Having read all of the notes on this site, and others from the many friends you have established through out the years, and the fond memories you have created – it brings to mind many thoughts, but one that rings true – life is too short- we have but one opportunity on this earth to live it to the fullest. From what I have read -you have done that do date – and from what I can see – have the passion and strength to live through this life challenge – and more than likely will write about it too. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and wishing a speedy recovery.
Hi Trevor and family:
Keep up the hard work on your road to recovery. I’m heading down the South shore this evening for a workshop (maybe dig for a little treasure on Oak Island), and am keeping you all in my thoughts.
Love ya NEBP
Donna
Here are a couple of more recent pictures I received from Debbie:
Hi I’m Trevor’s sister Suzanne and I would like to thank you all from the bottom of my heart for your positive thoughts and prayers! I read this blog everyday with tears and a heavy heart. All the wonderful storys about Trev and his amazing group of friends. He has certainly left his footprint on all of us. My parents have been remarkable through this difficult time as well as my wonderful sista Debbie and my beautiful neice Gracie. It’s going to be a long road ahead for Trev, Debbie and Gracie. Thank you all for caring so much!
love Suzanne
Just fyi, that picture above posted by Alan of Trev on the front of a catamaran near the Golden Gate bridge in San Fran was from the end of our trek up the California coast
Great to hear of Trevor’s progress – keep it up! You might add Jim Croce’s “You’ve Got a Friend” to the ipod list, as it seems to sum up this website. Way to go Trevor, love and prayers, Sheila
Uncle Dick, Aunt Bess, cuz Trev & Suzzane,
Wonderful news with Trev’s progress.. I’ve spent many hours after Maggie is in bed between this blog and various news articles and writings about Trevor, his company and the incident. I have a group of colleagues at work whom I keep up to date with whatever news of Trevor I can share, and its at their request. Trevor, your story has been the topic over many coffee’s, and when I say story I mean your accomplishments as an individual and the writings of those who’ve crossed paths with you in those times. Interestingly enough,and along these same lines, a lady rang the doorbell the other evening collecting for Child Find Canada seeking a donation. While I was scrambling to find something other than a debit card, we began a conversation about missing children which led to missing women, and as i mentioned Trevor’s book to her… she already had all the dots connected between Trevor the author and the soldier…. well, lets just say after a cup of tea on the veranda beneath a cool newfoundland breeze (and I mean cool) she left with a wish of a full recovery for Trev and no donation. Nothing to do with my miserness, but more to do with her pre-occupation with our discussion. But, of all the comments I have heard in relation to Trevor’s story, this one came from a co-worker who in most instances has few words…He said, I read a bit about your cousin over the last while in the news articles and seen the television coverage as well, sounds like quite the lad, kinda guy that proves that old adage wrong …. heroes are not born, they choose to be.
Trev and family, once again – godspeed with your recovery and thanks for all the updates……..
Gary, Denise and Maggie
My name is SGT Gary Adams. I was the Flight Medic that picked up and treated CPT Greene on the day he was injuried. I am writting this to let CPT Greene, his family, and his friends know that I have been tracking his progress as best as I can from Afghanistan and I am glad to hear that he is improving daily. My thoughts and prayers are with you CPT Greene and with your family. I look forward to hearing about a full recovery in the near future.
GARY A. ADAMS
SGT, USA
Flight Medic
Gad to hear we can finally take your picture off our fridge! Hope to hear from you when you again soon.
. . . . our email to you on March 6th, 2006 as follows . . .
Much to our surprise we have crossed paths again . . . via the horrible incident featuring you on the National news. Our thoughts and prayers our with you.
We remember vividly, our patio encounter in Edmonton a couple years ago . . .along with the infamous Treasure hunt.
We dug out our photo of you and your musketeers from that night. We’ll keep it on our fridge until we hear your home safe, and hopefully well.
Take care, my friend.
We await your return –
Rebecca & Garry
Victoria, BC
Hey Everyone!
It’s Clare in Vancouver with an update on the big guy and a proposition for anyone who may be interested!
First, the update: Trevor continues to make progress in his recovery. He is profoundly brave. But this is a very slow process and as I’m sure you can imagine, some days are better than others. Your messages to this wonderful blog – the stories, anecdotes, and words of encouragement – have been phenomenal. Deb and Babs and I read entries to Trevor and he is genuinely touched by them. But as you all know, by their very nature, our entries on the blog speak about him, not to him, and that brings me to our proposition. At this point, we sense that Trevor needs to hear from you directly: uplifting letters of encouragement, support and inspiration. We think Trevor needs to hear how he has touched your lives in what ways he and his work have made a difference and that you know how strong he is, physically and mentally. He needs to know that you believe in him and that he has a big, huge, full, meaningful life ahead of him. And I’m sure he’d LOVE to hear those funny stories and anecdotes coming directly from you to him. Maybe you even have a special poem or song lyric that you think might lift his spirits. Trevor is reading and we would love to put together a binder of letters to him that he can keep and read over and over again or that we can read to him on days when he is especially tired. Please note: NO pressure whatsoever on anyone who might be uncomfortable with this idea. However, If you DO feel like writing a letter to Trevor, you can email it directly to me or Babs. I’m at darrowandclare@shaw.ca, Babs is bstegemann@shaw.ca. Between us and Deb, we will make sure that he receives your letter within 24 hours.
Also, if you’d like to send photos of yourselves and/or your families/kids as attachments to your letters, we can compile a really nice keepsake for Trevor with the letters and pictures of the people who have written them.
Just a thought – but please do think about it.
All the best,
Clare in Vancouver.
Yikes,
It’s Clare again.
I just read over my blog entry and see that there are question marks scattered throughout it at the strangest places! I have no idea how that happened. Sorry about that!
Clare
Clare: Thanks for the update and the suggestion to send letters and pictures directly to Trevor. I will do so later today. I just wanted to throw in one more Trevor anecdote, because I don’t think anyone who is reading this blog on a regular basis has heard even a small fraction of the stories that could and should be told about him. This is just a short one but illustrates his unique character. As he was preparing to leave Japan to start his basic training, we got together for dinner somewhere in Yurakucho, a busy train station near the Imperial Palace in central Tokyo. He gave me a couple of things he wanted me to have as keepsakes. One was a very thick book on spirituality that I still treasure today, but was quite dumbstruck at the time to get from the big rugby-playing surfer from Zushi. The second was the homemade handle from his beat-up leather briefcase, which had somehow lost its original on one of his travels. “Keep it with you for any time you need to get a grip on things,” he told me. OK, but here’s the “this could be only be Trevor” part of the story. The handle that he gave me from his briefcase was an old brass door handle he must have “borrowed” from some shed or veranda on his way to catch the train at the Zushi JR station. He had tied it on to the briefcase with twine!! It has served me well whenever things get too heavy over here. “Mechakucha ii pursento deshita, arigatou. ”
Cheers to you all.
I’ll edit that for you Clare. And those are great ideas.
Thanks Al.
As always, you rock.
Dear Dick and Bessie and all the family. How wonderful to read of Trevor’s continued improvement! You are in our thoughts and prayers all the time. Hope to talk to you soon. Take care, Russ and Marian
A couple of good pictures came from Debbie a few days ago but it has been a whirlwind here until this evening:
Hello Trevor and family,
I am one of those voices from the past that you probably don’t remember from high school (C.W.). I want to pass along the best wishes from all of my family: Peggy James – who maybe taught you math (?) and Bernie James who probably refereed many of those C.W. Wildcat basketball games (!) and me, Terri, who was generally sitting on the bench cheering y’all on! I am so pleased to hear of your good progress. When I first heard what happened, I was shocked. But then I was somewhat reassured knowing that you were in good hands as one of my friends is one of the good medical people in Kand. hospital. We all wish you the very best in your recovery !! Terri James
Bonjour Trevor, bonjour all the people around him,
You surely don’t remember me but I do remember you very well. You asked me (a French instructor at UBC) to come to the barracks – or whatever you call that – on Burrard street to evaluate your level of French. You thought you would go to Haiti and you wanted to be able to speak with the people there. It seems that it is your life story : communicating with people. You made a strong impression on me. I know that your will is immense and that your progresses will be amazing!
Meilleurs sentiments Trevor, and anytime you want to practive French, I am here!!
Chantal Le Corvec
This will get your mind working trying to remember me!!! It is Andy ROY! One of your dorm mates and training mates from the Navy days (HMCS Venture).
I was speaking with Sandy at the Langley RCMP detachment and told me of this blog. It is no surprise to me the incredible support you are getting and how many lives you have touched. I went through a bunch of my ORIOLE photos and found this great one of you setting back posing. [Click for bigger.] I was going to make fun of you for posing but then went through a few more photos and found the exact same one of me…soooooo needless to say great pose. It was an incredible trip (the parts when I wasn’t hooked up to an IV) and you were a big part of that.
I wish you the fastest of recoveries and asure you my thoughts are with you and your beautiful family. Take care buddy, I look forward to touching base with you when you are up to it.
Andy
I feel like I am in an information vacuum. Is there any news that can be shared on Trevor’s recovery?
Hi Donna (and any other folks still checking this blog),
Sorry for the information vacuum. I’ve been hesitant to post information about Trevor’s condition until we had great developments to report. I realize his friends want to hear any news to stay connected with Trevor not necessarily just improvements. I’ll try to post on a more regular basis to keep everyone up to date.
When we first arrived in Vancouver, we were told Trevor’s injury was very serious and he would likely not come out of his coma. My immediate thoughts were that these doctors don’t know Trevor’s strength and will and that he will prove them wrong. Shortly thereafter, he did prove them wrong. As I wrote in my last posting, he regained consciousness, and he began to speak and eat. From our conversations, Trevor’s head may have been damaged but his mind was very much intact. We were told that this type of injury would likely involve Trevor taking two steps forward and one step back. This has in fact been the case which is why I haven’t written more often. He is on a good path to recovery now and I am hopeful this trend will continue until he comes home. He has been speaking more lately and has begun to regain some mobility in parts of his body. Along with the medical treatment Trevor is receiving at the hospital, I have brought onboard an alternative therapist to assist in Trevor’s recovery. After hearing the miraculous success stories of this fellow and his agreement to work with Trevor (for free), I am hopeful he may be able to speed up Trevor’s recovery and bring him back home faster and at 100%.
I hope people can understand and respect Trevor’s need for privacy while he is on this lengthy path to recovery. I will definitely let people know when he is up for more visitors. At some point in the future, he will need more entertainment and company.
Thanks to everyone who sent letters and pictures. He is enjoying reading about your lives and families. Feel free to send any letters directly to Trevor at VGH, or to Barb, Clare or any of the family.
Keep your prayers and positive thoughts coming. Every little bit will help his healing!
Debbie
I would like to share with you a piece written by Trevor before he left for Afghanistan on January 15th. Although you aren’t able to see it on this blog, at the top is a Canadian flag that Trevor spent much time trying to find just the right one. Enjoy…….
I am your flag
I am our country’s flag
I was born in freedom. I can be found flying proudly across the length and breadth of our great nation
I am especially proud to be worn by our soldiers – Canadian men and women of our armed forces doing their best to bring peace and stability to many troubled areas of our world
I stand for tolerance and truth, honesty and humility, duty and valour
My strength comes from our people, and I will remain strong as long as grandmothers and grandfathers, mothers and fathers and brothers and sisters are proud of me
I am proud to belong to you
thanks for the updates Debbie, our prayers are with you all.
Trevor! Hi from your project management instructor in Edmonton!
I just found this blog today while searching for news on how you are. I am grateful to hear that you are on the mend, and that you are surrounded by loved ones.
I am sure you have heard this many times already, but please know that we fellow Canadians are so proud of what you and your fellow soldiers are doing in Afghanistan. The sacrifices that you have personally made, along with those of Bill Turner and other Canadians, make us all truly proud to be Canadians.
Enjoy the company of your family and friends! And take comfort in the knowledge that Canadians everywhere are inspired by your fortitude and your courage!
-Paul
Hi Debbie
Thank you for the update. I certainly understand the need for privacy while Trevor heals and that you are busy with much more important things than keeping the public informed. My father always said that “no news is good news.” Still, as you say, his friends and far away family want to be connected and really appreciate this blog and the info it can provide. Thanks.
Hi Debbie.
Ever since I heard the news back in March my husband and I have kept Trevor in our prayers and thoughts. I met Trevor while he was working on Bad Date but when I heard the news and heard your name, it sounded familiar.. last week I saw the Prime Time special and seeing you, I knew you from somewhere. It’s been bugging me till tonight when I remembered where. I met you on several occasions with Fred (Rob, Rick, Norm, Monica). I’m a good friend of Linda’s. She too, sends on her prayers to you, Trevor and Grace. We’ll keep on for you all.
Hi Debbie,
This is Linda (as referred to in Lisa Enns msg). It has been so long since I’ve known what you are up to. Since Lisa had mentioned what has happened to Trevor my little family has been keeping you all in our prayers. Having 2 little girls myself I couldn’t imagine… anyway, then Lisa told me who the “Debbie” is and I just wanted to let you know our thoughts are with you and am looking forward to hearing continued good news about Trevor’s recovery!
A whirlwind of international attention on Lebanon has brought me back lighting on the branch of the tree many call King’s, the roots of which were fed by stalwarts like Trevor. I certainly am enjoying my vacation in Europe without thinking of returning to my post as an educator in Saudi Arabia and the maelstrom of the Middle East. As much as I could go on ad nauseum about the rich UKC campus life (thank you next-door neighbour Sheila Cameron for the pictures from the yearbook), the frenzied Canadian presence in Beirut naturally makes me think of Trevor.
I don’t know what I am saying. As a writer I creep into the crevices of other-decades with spotlights on people like Trevor: for me, character is what it is all about; the reactions, the decisions made in the light of conflict.
It goes all the way back to playing kick the can with Sheila among others under her carport on Burnyeat Street in Truro, Nova Scotia. There is a semi-circle groove scarring the middle carport roof post, just above the cement support. Somebody smacked that can, like one of those soccer-playing Douglas’ from the other side of town, and the carport roof almost came down.
I don’t know what exactly happened after that but I do know that scars are the trappings of character, whether from an errant puck, a schoolyard tumble with the local bully, or opening oneself unselfishly to the world.
At this point I split Vonnegut’s “spooky Internet” ocean with this message and deliver it to you, hand-to-hand, you big tree-waterin’ man.
Good words, Scott.
Having neglected this wonderful window into Trevor’s recovery for the past few weeks, I have three responses!
Debbie, thanks so much for the update. Sure, we hunger for more frequent news. But we all know that we cannot begin to imagine your situation. So we are here for you; not the other way around. Besides, as great as the internet is, I HATE the pace it forces us to in our lives!!! Don’t be a slave to the machine, man!!! …..sorry, sorry….that’s for another blog….. Anyway, thanks. We’ll keep checking and during periods when we hear nothing, we’ll take Donna’s words on board; “No news is good news”.
Clare (and Babs), great idea! The letter I wrote way back in March was to Trevor directly, actually. Personally, I’ve always believed in speaking to people even when they can’t answer back….but then, most of you who have had to have a conversation with me already know this. The Greene family would have been floaded with letters back in March, so I’ll email a copy to you, so you can relay it to Trev. It’ll be a rerun, but hey, so is Starsky and Hutch, and that’s a cracker! (NOT, the remake film, btw).
Scott, what the HELL are you talking about?!?! Just kidding. I got it. Really, I did. I’m deep. I’m also in London & would love to see you. +44 (0) 20 7498 8736.
Finally, Trevor. Most of us don’t have all the details of your injury bud, but we know you are fighting incredibly hard to get well. I can only imagine it to be an understatment to say it has been extrodiarily difficult going. And I know it will continue to be for quite a while yet.
But, alas, we expect nothing less than a full recovery. It doesn’t matter how long it will take, as long as you get there. And if your mobility or anything else recovers to less than 100%, then, well, we will still love you, although you will have a bit of explaining to do.
If this sounds a bit harsh, you only have yourself to blame. You can’t set yourself up as a blonde Clarke Kent and have a fan club expecting anything less than Superman.
Seriously, this blog has told me stuff about you I certaiinly never knew and has made me admire you all the more. Before this I just thought you were a fairly smart, very nice, boy-next-door type. Nobody told me you were off saving the world this past ten years or more.
But alas, these great expectations may get a guy down when he’s facing the biggest challenge of his life. So, maybe I should be a little more gentle with my words to you?……
Nope. Screw that. Get off your ass, get to work and get ready for visitors.
We love you and are, very, very proud of you.
Ian Coll, London, UK
Hi everyone and thank you so much Al. I’ve been in the dark other than media all this time and its so great to read Debbie’s postings about how Trevor is really doing, and such a blast to remember old stories and learn new ones. I feel like 20 years just melted away and we’re all just as goofy as ever. (OK maybe not all of us but definitely Robyn).
Hi especially to you Bubba. I think of you often while I sit in the night with a newborn stuck to my boob. (No connection there by the way readers – its just when I have time to think!) You even made me enter a church for the first time since King’s Easter mass. It felt a little exploitative but I figured it was worth a shot. I can’t wait to see you up and about again and have no doubt that day will come. I can wait actually,… as long as it takes. You can do it buddy. If anyone can its you.
Best Wishes Everyone!
Jill Thompson – Kings ’86-’89
Vancouver Island
Hi Everyone,
Just found this site last week and have not had a chance to write. We appreciate getting any news on Trevor’s progress.
Our tour is winding down. The first group is heading home shortly. We hope that we have continued Trevor’s work and that all our efforts will in time make Afghanistan a better place.
Tony Petrilli
CIMIC Projects Officer
Kandahar PRT
Kandahar, Afghanistan
(Alan, I have a few photos of Trevor before we left and while we trained in the early days in KAF. Let me know how to get them to you. I am a bit of a techno-idiot at times.)
Hey, thanks for writing, Tony. You let everyone there know how proud we are of what you have accomplished in circumstances we can only imagine. Please forward any pictures you have to genx40@gmail.com and I will post them. I know his family and friends across check here from time to time so I will set them up as thumbnails they can click on and save the bigger version.
Here are three photos sent from Captain Tony Petrilli in Kandahar, Afghanistan who also sent along this explanation:
Click on each picture for a much bigger version:
My name is Lt Jean Breton. I am a reservist in Toronto who has recently joined the CIMIC team in 32 CBG. I too would like to deploy with the team and hope to do so in the coming rotations.
I am writing to say that Capt Greene is becoming a true inspiration – not only for his military contributions, that is a small part, but for everything else. He has certainly touched the lives of many and is no doubt a tremendous individual. I have read many of the posts here and with each new one I read, I become more impressed both of Capt Greene as a person, and of all of you, especially his family.
Lastly, while I know this is not necessarily the forum to do so, I would like to send my condolences to the families and friends of all the Canadian casualties from Afghanistan and around the world.
Carry On
Lt Jean Breton
This is most certainly a good forum for such thoughtful remarks. Thank you, Jean. My thoughts have been particularly with the Ried family of Truro, Nova Scotia (where I went to high school) and the loss of their son, Corporal Christopher Reid.
I am visiting Ian in England. World events continue to smoulder, and I thank those lucky stars which led me to take a train yesterday to London to meet Ian instead of waiting for a plane! We were re-united recently by this blog, and have been stirring-up old stories from King’s and a few pre-dating Halifax college life to our junior high/high school days together in Truro, Nova Scotia.
Being spared the inconveniences of the airport scene here in London is small potatoes. Through our rememberances of collegiate life we are both sending good thoughts your way, Trevor, and remain curious for news of your recovery – patiently waiting for the positive happenings occurring now in Vancouver as we write this note will translate into news down the road that things are better! – Scott
Scott won’t stop telling stories about you Trevor. You had better get back online to correct some un-truths! For instance, I cannot believe you would dance around in a towell singing The Cult’s “Love Removal Machine” into a shampoo bottle. Surely you had too much class for such un-couth behaviour! I think it is a terrible thing to make fun of a guy when he’s not online to defend himself. So. See you online soon. – Ian
I am visiting Ian in England. World events continue to smoulder, and I thank those lucky stars which led me to take a train yesterday to London to meet Ian instead of waiting for a plane! We were re-united recently by this blog, and have been stirring-up old stories from King’s and a few pre-dating Halifax college life to our junior high/high school days together in Truro, Nova Scotia.
Being spared the inconveniences of the airport scene here in London is small potatoes. Through our rememberances of collegiate life we are both sending good thoughts your way, Trevor, and remain curious for news of your recovery – patiently waiting for the positive happenings occurring now in Vancouver as we write this note will translate into news down the road that things are better! – Scott
Scott won’t stop telling stories about you Trevor. You had better get back online to correct some un-truths! For instance, I cannot believe you would dance around in a towell singing The Cult’s “Love Removal Machine” into a shampoo bottle. Surely you had too much class for such un-couth behaviour! I think it is a terrible thing to make fun of a guy when he’s not online to defend himself. So. See you online soon. – Ian
That whole “Love Removal Machine” era was made less unfortunate through Jonny Arch’s version “Snow Removal Machine”.
Trevor,
All of us at IR Japan have been following your recovery.
Best wishes.
We are pulling for you !
IR Japan
Hi Trevor,
I check this site every two days for updates, have not heard anything but I hope things are still progressing. I understand you guys are busy, just sending our love and prayers from your Nova Scotian families!
Hey Al:
Have not checked in a bit but great to see the care still flowing. Adding my hopes and inspirations to the pot. Nice hearing from all the UKC pals of the ’80s.
Colette.
HI Trevor and family
Your mom and dad keep me updated on your progress, glad to hear you are improving. Keep up the good work. I will keep saying prayers for your full recovery, Sending my love to you, Debbie and Grace.
Hi everyone,
Here’s a link to an article from today’s Chronicle Herald – http://thechronicleherald.ca/NovaScotia/527601.html – which my Google alert has just popped through to me. Sounds like it’s been a bit of a bumpy road for Trevor recently. It’s good to get news of set backs as well as progress, so we can keep the love and support flowing Trevor’s way when he needs it most.
Come on Trevor – keep up the good work old friend. Good to hear things are on the up again, which is only what we’d expect from someone with your courage and determination. Anything we can do to help, just ask.
Much love, Veronica (Devon, UK)
Greetings Everyone,
Barb Stegemann here. I wanted to tell all of Trevor’s friends out there to keep the great stories and words of encouragement coming. Trevor loves reading your notes on my blackberry on our weekly visits. In fact, we responded to one the other day together – it was a tag team effort. I know that Trevor enjoyed communicating online again.
So for any of you who have emailed me a note, be assured he has seen it. Also, Clare MacIntyre prints the notes off and he reads them.
That is a great update. By the way, in all this I don’t think I have ever actually told you to pass on my hello. So hello!
Hey Trevor,
I’m so happy to hear that you are persevering all of the curve balls that life has been throwing you. If you recall, I’m a nurse on a cardiovascular unit here in Halifax. I can only imagine some of the obstacles you are being faced with. I have seen many of my patients go through great challenges while having a trach or recuperating from a stroke. The hardest part for you and your family is to keep a positive attitude and to draw on the minute bit of energy you have to force yourself to do what you can for that day. Celebrate each and every victory regardless to how small it may seem. All of us love you and cheer you on! I think you you often and pray for your health and recovery.
Love, Heather
Hi folks…
Thank you for your continued support and well wishes for Trevor. As some of you already know, he is scheduled for cranioplasty surgery this Thursday afternoon, September 21, 2006. My expectations are very high that this surgery will go much better than the previous surgery, following which Trevor suffered complications and setbacks. Once he has recovered from this surgery, Trevor will be ready to leave Vancouver General Hospital and start the next phase of his recovery at a rehabilitation centre. From there, I am hopeful he will be able to return home to me and Grace.
I am hoping that friends, family and well-wishers will start praying and/or sending positive thoughts for Trevor starting on Thursday afternoon and continue to do so throughout the following week as he recovers from the surgery. I will post an update during his recovery period to let everyone know how he is faring.
Heartfelt thanks from the entire Greene family.
Debbie.
Trevor and Debbie:
From way out here on the Atlantic ocean, please know that the two of you, and Grace, are thought of often. You have been in my prayers all along, but you can bet I’ll ‘step it up a notch’ as Thursday draws nearer.
Wearing a towel and signing into a shampoo bottle??? Ian, I thought that was you!!! Or maybe Robyn!!
Love and prayers,
Sheila
Debbie forwarded three more pictures of Trevor, two from Afganistand and one from a place that for some reason immediately reminded me of The Whip in Vancouver even though I do not think it is from there. Click on each for a larger image.
Hey Trev,
Received an update on from mom and dad, you’ll be in our thoughts over the next few days. As always, godspeed with your recovery ..
Gary
Trev, Debbbie and family. Sending my best energy your way today. You can do it Bubba. We’re all pulling for you. Much love, Jill.
Hi Trev!
It’s Heschuk. Writing to let you know that we are here and thinking about you daily. There are now 5 of us turbo-praying that God will increase your strength and determination for a speedy recovery!
All our best!
Chris, Tomoko, Joey, Rae-Anne and Ken
Hi Debbie,
Great to see this site for Tree. I’m not the praying type but will say a few hundred prayers anyway and hoist some mighty coldies in Tree’s honor in Yokohama tonight. Hoping the operation worked out well. Also, I lost your email address in a data crash a few months back. Zip me back an email when you get a chance and I’ll send some more chapter scans.
Lots of love,
Mark
Hi Everyone…
I have some truly wonderful news to report! Deb would like you to all know that Trevor’s surgery was successful and he is doing VERY well in his recovery. As you can imagine, she is spending most of her time with him at the hospital right now, so she has asked me to post this on the blog. Thank you all so much for the prayers and positive thoughts and please keep them coming!
All the best to everyone,
Clare
Hi Gang
I have just gotten home from a visit to the coast and seeing Trevor. I want to thank Debbie for allowing me to come in. It was great to see our old friend again and I must say I was very impressed with how good he looked (don’t get excited I am not saying his looks have improved, still the same old Trev I’m afraid). I will leave medical updates to the family but I thought you all would want to know that he is doing well after the surgery and while there is a long road ahead of him I am fully confident that it won’t be that long before Bubba is walking and talking again. For any who have spent time in a hospital, boredom is an issue so if you have time please send him letters and pictures. Many are posted all around his room now. Also for those who don’t know there is an article in UHM this month on Trevor. It is a canadian mens magazine (really bad even by my standards, including the pictures of scantily clad women. But they have an article on our friend)
So keep up the prayers and good vibrations cause they appear to be working.
Cheers
Robyn
That is excellent new from both Clare and Robyn…I except I though I was Bubba…though I may have been Bubbu now that I think of it.
Remember that Barb (bstegemann@shaw.ca) and Clare (darrowandclare@shaw.ca) are forwarding what you send directly by email and I understand this page is getting printed out by Debbie, too. Great news.
Can someone remind me where letters should be mailed? Vancouver General? Thanks. Jill
Trevor, Debbie & family,
I’m thrilled the surgery went well. I don’t know if this is the 2nd, 3rd or 325th step in his recovery, but keep going! GANBATTE mon ami!
Hi Trev. The mighty wheel of fate and fortune grinds again – here in Japan, the Fall of 2006 has come around with a new but very old new Cabinet led by the grandson of a former Class A war criminal, Nobusuke Kishi, who was released from Sugamo when Douglas MacArthur realized Japan had to re-industrialize, but under “free-market” policies which meant the truncheon for the leftwing labor unions. (We may well wish we had Koizumi back at the helm, at least he was into rock-and-roll and had a fond smile for the kimono-clad escorts, as we did that opening day at the 4 Seasons!!!)
But you know all that, so let me give you a brief update. Sumie and I competed in the Sado Island international triathlon for my second time, her third, at the start of September, and the good news is that I shaved 38 minutes of my time from last year in the half distance, while Sumie was a first-place podium medal winner, bagging a win for her age group (40-45) for the long distance Ironman Plus event (3.8km swim, 190km ride and 42km run). She is in great shape as usual and crossed the finish line at 13:43 with her usual smile.
On the personal front, I am in the midst of a move from “gracious” Hiroo to “realistic Ogikubo” with all sorts of only-in-Japan anecdotes to bore you to death. Suffice it to say, you need to prove your place in Heaven before they will rent you an apartment or even a self-store trunkroom.
Julia (now 21) and Alex (about to be 19) are now both at UC Santa Barbara in a lovely neck of the woods, only 90 miles north of LA but a world apart. Still country California up that way, and they have a surf break IMMEDIATELY in front of the dorms. Both are happy there and I just got back this past weekend from helping them get organized. Also paid a visit to my 80 going on 100 Mom in NYC on the same trip. Genki as usual, but suffering a bit of memory loss.
So I hear your most recent bout with the blade went pretty well, and I just want to reiterate, dear old friend, that I continue to think about you every day. The same goes for your huge and very loving and affectionate global fan club. Semper fi my friend, as always, a civilian who learned from his past that what Winston Churchill once said remains as true now as ever: The price of our liberty is our eternal vigilance.” Thanks and all the positive energy I can send your way. Hope to hear from you when you are able to reply.
Kilimanjaro awaits.
PF
Trevster – dude. Tell us how things are going if you can. I – cynic beyond redemption I once thought – pray for you and your family. Do tell us how things fare on your end – brave the torpedoes, and let the world know what you think about this.
Trevor-I am listening to the haunting Emmylou Harris song that seems to have been written about you and for you – “I dreamed you lay dying in a field of thorn and roses, with a hawk above you crying, for the warrior slayn in battle from the arrow driven deep inside you long ago, Michelangelo…..did you suffer at the end…did you banish all the old ghosts at the terms of your surrender….I guess we will never know, Michelangelo…Last night I dreamed about you, I dreamed that you were weeeping….” The album came out a couple of years ago, Red Dirt Girl about her own childhood in Georgia.
Quite an emotionally draining song and album – for some reason I got it long ago. Didn’t connect it to you at the time, but my own life is still full of regrets.
Trevor. God bless you and your family and friends. I am always happy to count myself among them.
PF
Make that “sinner without redemption” – the “cynic” tag was just a convenient camouflage to hide behind. But as Norman Mailer wrote in his book on being a writer – better a sinner than a saint, because as Kierkegaard observed, the latter still has hopes for redemption, whereas a saint soon discovers he is more likely an associate of the devil – you know the type, an investment banker or similar – and that the truth is, our train is coming, the redemption train that Sheryl Crow sings about in that nifty album with the angels. It is the album that Sumie likes the least, because it is all about betrayal, but at the core, it is also about redemptiom.
Trev. I am adrift, but you are an anchor in the future and the past. Semper Fi, my friend.
PF
It was nice to check back and hear about the progress. Keep up the good work Trevor!
I still check this blog out every week my old schoolmate friend. Just wanted to pass on that to you from here in Arnprior still thinking about you and your family and that you are always in my prayers. Had a short e-mail conversation with your sis back in the spring. It’s been a very long road for all of you – can’t imagine the exhaustion – “Be Strong” and I’m glad the surgery went well.
From the “Cumberland Kid”
Kim (Lytle) Belton
Trevor
I look at this site everyday and everyday I send you my love and postive wishes. I am so happy you are improving, but I always knew you would. love to you and your family.
Patti
There is a good article updating Trevor’s situation in the Globe this morning.
Thank you for posting the link to the Globe and Mail Article Alan. To answer Jill’s question about letters, the best way to get letters to Trevor is to email Clare or myself. Clare prints them off and either she or Deb will read them to Bubba.
Or you can email me and he will read it directly off of my blackberry. Hope that helps. Bubba has enjoyed the letters. Since we have been doing this for many months now, we have noticed that letters are a big help.
And the motivational letters are the ones that help Trevor most. The letters that are encouraging and challenging him to move forward in positive ways, reaffirming his strength. He has always been a person to challenge himself. Another thing that works best is positive news. When someone has experienced a head injury, it is best to stay up beat and motivational. He is on a healing journey, so positive, happy, motivational letters work very, very well.
Think of your letter as part of his healing therapy with a focus upon him and what might help him move forward. Again, this has been my observation of what letters have most moved him and I thought I would pass this along.
Kind regards,
Barb Stegemann
Thanks for that update, Barb. I trust the article itself was a big boost, too. It was really upbeat I thought.
It was great to see the article on Trevor this weekend. Although I must say Barb I thought you may have gotten a little carried away with the Trevor adulation. To have painted Trevor as heroic for his non stop offers to walk women across the quad and back to the girl’s residence, regardless if he knew the woman or not is to have missed the point. I myself tried these “heroic” antics on occasion to which most women were wise enough to sense my true motives and refused. There is no doubt our strapping Bubba had greater success but I am not sure this can be termed and altruistic gesture 🙂 Sorry Deb that you should have to hear of Bubba’s shaddy side and sorry to bust you on the World wide Web Trev, but the truth must come out 🙂
Keep On keepin on Trev and hopefully we will see you soon
I remember Robyn doing that. It was sad. Always just ended up sitting on the front step of Alex with some guy called Smedley, Mumbly or Dave White going on and on about how they tried, they tried.
Ha ha…you guys are too funny. Debbie – Trevor walked me home more times than I can count, and trust me, he JUST walked me home!
Seriously though, I thought the Globe article was excellent. I especially enjoyed Robyn’s story about biking with Bubba, who was wearing flip flops. I think your comment “It just never occurred to him to turn back” spoke volumes about our friend.
Barb is absolutely right about the letters – we have definitely noticed Bubba’s favorite letters are the positive, motivational, encouraging letters. And there is another option to the email route, in case you are not comfortable with that. If you’d like to send a letter via post to my home, just email me and I’ll give you our mailing address. Liz and Jill opted for that route and it worked out very well. Bubba was just delighted to receive their letters.
All the best,
Clare
Hi all,
A neighbour of mine brought me over a copy of UMM (Urban Male Magazine), which features an excellent story on Trevor. It is in the Fall 2006 edition. It describes very nicely the kind of character Tree has. The title is “Canadian Hero”, and the tag line reads “Vancouver’s Trevor Greene is an extraordinary man who’s touched the lives of millions”.
I’ll add another little humerous anecdote that, unfortunately (though not surprisingly), didn’t make the article: When Tree was at our house in Halifax a few years ago for dinner, he was talking to my wife about gory details on the ins and outs of the romance writing industry (Julianne, my wife has had several published books). By the end of the evening, Tree was pumped and determined to… Yep you guessed it, write a romance novel! Images of a six-foot-four blond male signing romance books for his adoring fans would be a sight to see indeed.
We weren’t sure how serious he was, but he kept going on and on about it. I suspect it might of been too much Vitamin K (that’s Keith’s beer for the uninitiated).
Keep up the good work Tree, looking forward to seeing you out here on the beautiful East Coast some day soon! Seems like you’ve not only inspired the people who know you, but also an entire country.
On another note Tree, my little girl Laura made Captain of her school basketball team… If you remember, she had her own life-threatening battle with a terrible disease when she was two. Now she kicks butt on the basketball court!
On the bad side, they lost their first game of the year today by a score of like 10000 to 10. They had fun though and Laura scored a basket.
As my ten-year-old neighbour says to me: “keep it real Home-Slice”. (That always cracks me up.)
Cheers dude,
Steve, Julianne and Laura MacLean
Hey Steve. I remember the news when your daughter suffered that challenge. Glad to hear she has come back so strong.
This is far too long in coming. I wrote a couple of letters to Trevor when he was still in Germany. The longer I thought about writing the harder it felt to convey anything that would seem genuine.
Trevor and I went through some hard times together. He was writing his book about the forgotten women on Vancouver’s downtown Eastside and I was suddenly living in a warehouse trying to make a record that nobody else thought was worth bothering with but me(and probably Bubba!)and trying to decide if I could leave everything(which at that point didn’t seem like much)and move to Sweden.
Well here I am 5 years later. I remember(my apologies to Deb if I’m wrong, since I never had to opportunity to meet you) drinking scotch in your apartment in Vancouver while debating the merits with Trevor of moving to Sweden and chasing love that I wasn’t in any “condition” to go after.
Luckily for me things turned out “quite okay” as they say in “swinglish” here. Though the love didn’t last so long I have a beautiful daughter and have landed in a place where people are as serious about music as I am.(good thing, bad thing, maybe???).
Trevor published his book(a very great thing indeed) and after that we barely stayed in touch. I don’t really know why except that maybe when you’re that close it just seemed false to pretend that something very profound hasn’t changed. (like living 11 time zones away)
When something like this happens of course you know instantly that you should have done more, should have tried…should have.. but didn’t…
It’s been very moving to read about old friends and characters from Kings. That picture of Robyn and Tex in their long johns brought it all back for sure.
One story nobody has told yet was when this strange “organization” called the “rumour comittee” stole Trevor’s door in Radical Bay(a residence at King’s)and for some reason we all got in toruble for it! Okay maybe we didn’t quite have enough to do!!!
It feels very silly and childish all these years later but remembering how “hurt” Trevor was in a certain slapstick kind of way makes me laugh and leaves me with a very warm feeling for “Bubb”(two b’s or one, in it’s short form?).
I know you’ll make it Trevor!!! Giving up just ain’t in your DNA. And bringing true joy to the people around you and to the world is.
My love to Deb and Grace eventhough we haven’t met you(yet!).
richard(or Dick as Bubba always calls me)
p.s. also if somebody could post which email is best(right now) to write to Trevor at directly, that would be great!
Hi folks,
A long overdue update on Trevor for those still checking this blog. You’re a supportive bunch to keep checking for updates 8 months after the assault. In brain injury time however, it may be just a drop in the bucket. My goal is to bring Trevor home however long that may be. He is still at Vancouver General Hospital but is ready to leave anytime. He is currently only saying a few words here and there but we do find other ways to communicate. He is medically stable which means he has no complications or health issues to keep him in an acute care setting. He is currently on the waitlist for UBC Transitional Care while we research and apply for rehabilitation facilities which specialize in the nature of injury Trevor has sustained. To date, the speed of healing hasn’t been quick, as we were told to expect in the beginning. Despite being told this and confirming this in all the web literature, I personally didn’t believe it because like Robyn Gibson said to the Globe& Mail, it never occurs to Trevor to turn back. He started a mission in January and it’s not over yet until he comes home. There are some good facilities in Alberta that we are hoping Trevor will be able to transfer to soon. Trevor will have to meet certain criteria to be accepted in these facilities. I am hopeful that once he is a program my updates will include baby-step milestones. I’ve probably said before that from our conversations I know that Trevor’s encyclopedic mind is intact and his short and long-term memory are good, the area of his head that was hit controls the motor functions. This area apparently takes a long time to heal.
I’ve been reading Victor Frankl’s, Man’s Search for Meaning to Trevor recently. It is a profound book about his experiences and psychoanalysis during his time as a concentration camp prisoner. He talks about how man determines for himself whether to give in to conditions or stand up to them and that man does not simply exist but ultimately decides what his existence will be and what he becomes in the next moment. One of the main features of human existence is capacity to rise above such conditions and transcend them. Finally, he talks about how no one can take away a man’s experiences and that suffering ends when man finds meaning in suffering. To me, this epitomizes Trevor’s current existence and experience. I believe he will transcend it with time and give him yet another experience to enlighten, inspire and encourage others with.
Thanks again for all your continued prayers and positive thoughts.
Debbie
Thanks Clare for clarifying the side of Bubba that Robyn and the boys may have never known. We girls certainly had the great honour of being protected by Bubba.
I must counter your email Robyn and stand by my experience of knowing Bubba for 20 years, that he always looked out for us and we needed that. I think it’s fantastic that you and the boys know a side of Bubba and we girls too know a side that is most sincere and protective. It just goes to show that he is a man of depth. His wit, humour and compassion are rare. He’s one of a kind and I think one thing we can all agree upon is that he has and continues to have a great impact on many people the world over.
Barb
Dear Debbie: Although I haven’t had the good fortune to meet you, I can certainly say that your inner strength and wisdom shine strongly through this blog. Trevor has chosen well, and so have you. As I pinned on my poppy this month, Trevor was at the forefront of my mind. His love of life and love of our country is so humbling. As Kings men and women, I hope we will all take the time on November 11th to honor Trevor, and the service our Canadian military men and women have given, and continue to give.
Dear Trevor – it is great to hear of your continued progress. You are dearly loved and much respected by all of us. A big cyber hug goes out to you.
Sheila
Debbie
I just wanted to let you know that there are countless other Canadians such as myself whom you may never know about that are constantly checking up on Trevor’s progress and keeping the both of you in our prayers. While you may never know about the “silent majority” who check in from time to time, I hope you can feel the power of our collective prayer and positive wishes! Canadians by nature tend to be “low key”, but don’t for a second think that means we forget. Particularly on this day of remembrance many, many Canadians remember Trevor and the sacrifice he has made for the rest of us and we all offer up our thanks, our prayers and our best wishes for the two of you!
God bless!
Another proud Canadian
Hi Debbie,
Please pass along my warmest wishes to Trevor for a happy birthday today. I hope today is one of his better days and that his spirits remain good.
Luanne
Hi’
I’m Bryan I have read this and I prayed to God for Mr.Greene’s recovery i and my self thought if we all pray once a day for mr. Greene I know God will hear from one of Us, I don’t know this Hero but when i opened the Heros page in Google i found it and i am really sad how can they be so much rude leave them to God, Get well soon my prayers are with you Sir!
Inform me when he get well> bryan_quiry@hotmail.com
Bonjour Trevor,
Je m’adresse directement à vous maintenant.
J’aimerais vous souhaiter un magnifique Noël et vous présenter mes meilleurs voeux pour la nouvelle année! Que 2007 vous apporte ce qu’il y a de meilleur.
Je vous prie de transmettre mes meilleurs sentiments à votre famille.
Chantal, le prof de français de UBC.
Hi Trevor,
Just read the article about your struggle and recovery in the Toronto Star. Keep up the fight; you are second to none.
Mike Whitmarsh
Whitby, ON
Hi Trevor and family:
I was so happy to read the Toronto Star article and see that Trevor is making progress. He has such a strong spirt that I know he will continue fighting towards recovery. We will be thinking of you all over this holiday.
Donna and family
Nova Scotia
Well, an article I found in the Globe & Mail (via CP) says that “A new study reports that people with low to moderate levels of alcohol in their bloodstreams appear to have a better chance of surviving severe head trauma than people with no or high levels of alcohol in their blood.”
I wonder if Trevor actually ghost wrote this one…?
Mike
This was the article in the paper … for those who did not see it.
Facing the fight of his life
Soldier has faced triumphs, tragedies in battle to recover from axe attack
Dec. 16, 2006. 06:36 AM
MITCH POTTER
MIDDLE EAST BUREAU
VANCOUVER—A month ago, he was barely able to whisper. Today, there is a hint of timbre in the voice, evidence that ever so slowly he is getting his wind back. He remembers places and faces, names and dates. He knows who he is, where he has been, where he is going.
Trevor Greene is on the mend again. And this time his recovery, riddled for many months by an agonizing series of setbacks including pneumonia so severe it would have ended lesser men, appears to be on track.
One morning last week, when Debbie Lepore, the Canadian Forces captain’s fiancée, strode into the neurological ward at Vancouver General Hospital to resume her daily bedside vigil, she was delighted by his capacity to show he is there — in mind as well as body. Despite the lifetime of complications that began when he was cut down by an axe-wielding Afghan teen in March, Greene glanced up at Lepore and announced the deeper significance of the day. “It’s the anniversary of Pearl Harbor,” he told her.
It is tiny triumphs such as these — clear signs of cognitive awareness — that ease the burden of what by any measure remains a long and difficult struggle to coax Greene back to a fuller life.
It is nothing less than the reawakening of Trevor Greene.
Borne largely in silence by those who know him best, it has been a saga of surprising highs and crushing lows. His loved ones have witnessed the 42-year-old journalist-turned-soldier endure complications upon complications, each taking its toll on their initial hope of speedy recovery.
Hope remains. But it is tempered today by a sobering awareness that Greene must now find the inner strength to embark on a new odyssey of intensive rehabilitation that may be measured in years rather than months if he is to reclaim his rightful place alongside Lepore and their 23-month-old daughter, Grace.
Buoyed by his improvement of late, Greene’s family drew back the curtain of privacy last week in a series of interviews with the Toronto Star reporter and photographer who got to know him last spring, walking by his side while they were embedded with his platoon at Forward Operating Base Gombad, north of Kandahar.
It was on Day Eight of that mission, the afternoon of March 4, during one in a long string of otherwise peaceful meetings with village elders, that the fateful blow fell. Greene, whose sole purpose as a Civil-Military Co-operation Unit officer was to find ways to better the lives of the local population, had removed his helmet and sat cross-legged, notepad at the ready, in a gesture of respect.
Approaching from behind, Greene’s assailant produced an axe from beneath his traditional knee-length kameez tunic. He raised and swung in a movement too sudden to forestall, uttering a single cry of “Allahu Akbar.” The attacker was dead seconds later, downed by 14 bullets from three nearby Canadian soldiers.
But for Greene, unconscious and bleeding from a 3.5-centimetre gash to the brain, the battle had only just begun.
“A lot of people came together to save Trevor’s life in those first days,” said Greene’s older sister, Suzanne Grant of Oakville. “The medics on the scene, the doctors in Kandahar, and then the medical teams in Germany, where we arrived two days later. Everything right down to the nursing care was amazing.”
The first critical surgery came at Landstuhl Regional Medical Center, where a team of U.S. neurosurgeons removed the shattered top of Greene’s skull and assessed the brain damage. Still in an induced coma, Greene was stabilized and readied for the long flight home by air ambulance, via Iceland, Ottawa and finally to Vancouver.
On March 27, barely three weeks after the attack, Greene showed the first signs of a remarkable recovery, awakening from his coma on his mother Elizabeth’s birthday. A few days later, he managed his first word to Lepore and Grant as they walked into his room — a weakly whispered “Hi” — despite the tracheal tube in his throat for assisted breathing.
Through the first weeks of April, Greene progressed rapidly, cheerful and chatty and ravenous for solid food. Feasting on sushi, spaghetti, peaches and Nanaimo bars, among other favourites, he began to reverse the weigh loss that had shaved 40 pounds from the strapping 210-pound frame he carried in Afghanistan.
But an uncomfortable moment drew nearer by the day, as Greene began asking the fateful question: what happened to me?
“Trevor thought he had been mugged. And as he progressed, he wanted to know the story. He wanted to know when he could go back to Afghanistan,” Lepore told the Star.
It was a Canadian military doctor who delivered the gruesome details of the axe attack. As Greene absorbed the magnitude of his injury, he seemed to shrink back inside himself.
“Everything shifted around late April when Trevor realized what happened. He became very sad. He just stopped eating, stopped talking. He was doing so well. And then he regressed tremendously,” Grant said.
Greene’s apparent depression was but one factor in a host of setbacks that were soon to follow. Already, he had been through one episode of pneumonia brought on by Acinetobacter baumannii, an antibiotic-resistant superbug commonplace among the wounded of Afghanistan and Iraq. Now a second bout was taking hold in his already weakened lungs.
Greene’s condition plunged further still in May, after a failed attempt to restore the top of his head with cranioplasty surgery, a procedure involving the application of two synthetic plates to his skull. Within two days of the operation, Greene was in intense distress and collapsed in his wheelchair, aspirating into his lungs and triggering the renewed onset of pneumonia.
“His eyes dilated because of pressure buildup between the top of the brain and the plates. So three days after the plates went in, they had to come out,” his father, Richard, said.
“You can imagine how we felt. Suddenly our son is back in intensive care with pneumonia for a second time. It was a big, big, big setback. It was huge.
“And since then, it has been just a steep, steep slope that he’s had to come back from.”
Throughout the long summer, Greene battled still. His family describes Sept. 21 as a crucial turning point — this time for the better. Greene underwent a second cranioplasty surgery and was whole again, his head restored to its former shape.
Though Greene is slowly regaining his voice, his father, a retired RCMP officer, said the family is careful not to tax his ability to speak.
“He has been through so much that I don’t want him to spend energy having to talk. I want him spending his energy getting better,” Richard Greene said. “Back in October he was only able to hold his head up for 10 seconds. Now he can do it for five to 10 minutes. That is the kind of progress we need to see.”
These nearly 10 months of tormenting setbacks have delayed the essential therapies Greene will need to maximize the use of his body. Only now is he approaching the point of being well enough to engage in an intensive speech and physiotherapy regimen to address the motor-skills damage to his brain.
Greene’s family has spent some difficult months researching his medical options, only to find that Canadian facilities suitable to his condition are few and the waiting lists long. Now, they are counting on Canadian Forces officials to take the initiative and, at the very least, find an interim facility where Greene can begin the first courses of rehabilitation.
Lepore, who works one day a week as a chartered accountant but has otherwise dedicated her every waking moment to Grace and Greene, is ready to pack and relocate with her daughter to be by Greene’s side, regardless of where he goes next.
Through it all, the family has grown closer. Richard Greene describes Lepore’s continuing effort as “simply amazing. There is no question she carries the greater burden, being there every single day.”
Greene’s parents, who live in Nova Scotia, and sister visit Vancouver at one-month intervals, trying to spell off Lepore and maintain a family presence at the bedside. And each today speaks with certainty about the eventual recovery.
“He is already getting back some use of his fingers, hands and arms. The legs are another matter and right now we’re not seeing much activity at this point. We need to get the ball rolling on physiotherapy to know where his legs will take him,” said his father.
“As far as speech goes, there is absolutely no doubt Trevor is screaming to get out. If he gets any kind of assistance he certainly will be able to express himself. Overall, we are very confident he will be able to come back and have a life. But it is going to take time.”
Lepore sees another dimension awaiting her fiancée’s recovery. Throughout his 42 years, she said, Greene impressed all those he encountered as someone who genuinely wanted to make a substantial difference in this world. Even the very night prior to his attack, sitting around the campfire at Gombad, Greene told the Star about his ambitions to return to Afghanistan as a civilian after the end of his deployment and to establish an educational aid program with the goal to teach Afghans to help themselves.
“Where do I see us in five years? I see Trevor living with us, being a father and a husband,” Lepore said.
“But I also see him working again. I am not one for religion in a formal way, but what I say to Trevor is that he’s been given a gift. I really believe that.
“Of course I want him back for me and for Grace. But if he can build up the strength to work again, he is going to be in a position to have a real impact. He’ll be able to do more than he ever imagined before.”
Trevor,
You and your family are in our thoughts this Christmas. We wish you continued success in your long journey to recovery, and strength to your family. And may 2007 bring us all peace.
Jennifer and family
Dear Trevour and family, we are all thinking and praying for you and your dear family this Christmas and New Year. We continue to think and pray for your recovery. We send love and greetings to your Mum and dad. With love, God bless, from the Ursulines of Jesus, in Edmonton and Prince George, Ann
Cousin Trev,
Received an update on your recovery from your mom and dad….. great news !!!!!
Just wanted to say a quick hello and to wish you, Debbie, and Grace a merry christmas and indeed, with all those who have you in their thoughts over this holiday season, a wish for continued success to all of you with this long journey..
And, I’ll have a swallow for you on christmas day and offer a toast towards you and yours.. let see, a cape bretoner living in newfoundland.. now that’s going against the tide.. just as well to have the bottle !!!
and once again, a continued wish of godspeed in your recovery
Gary & Maggie Beaton
Trevor,
Thinking about you and your family on Christmas Eve. Chin up, Laddy!
As we are thinking of you guys here in Kingston. All the best Trevor and Debbie and all your family which stretches from coast to coast – and around the world as far as I can tell.
Merry Christmas!
It has truly been an amazing few months. Trevor has been making great strides after the series of setbacks in the first six months. Over the past 2-3 months Trevor has been noticeably gaining strength and is very keen to get back on his feet. He recently commented to me that he “wants to get up”. In the last few weeks his speech has improved to the point where he says it’s easier for him to communicate. Last week, he was given to go-ahead to eat solid foods again after many, many months, which he has fully embraced. This is a huge step forward for his body and spirit. After eating all his meals the second day, he’s been asking the nurses for more (and “is that all”, “bring it on”, etc..)! Also last week we were told he will soon be ready to have the tracheostomy out, another big milestone. The trach was one of the main limitations for most rehabilitation facilities. We’re very excited that Trevor may soon make the move to dedicated rehab. I am confident that when given the appropriate rehabiliation directives, he will surprise us all. In the interim period, he will be transferred to George Pearson, a long-term care facility in Vancouver, likely in January. We’re hoping this is only a short term stay until he is accepted into a top-notch brain injury rehabilition facility. He is so committed to getting his life back that on a recent visit with his CIMIC colleagues and friends, he advised his CIMIC superior, Major Locke, that he wanted to go on the next deployment to Afghanistan. Not to worry though, he’ll have to step over my dead body first to get there!
Wishing you all a wonderful Christmas with the ones you cherish and a happy, healthy 2007!
Debbie
Wonderful news, Debbie. These are huge steps and great days. You make sure Robyn gets him a very good beer for that first one.
I just wanted to add my thanks, Debbie, for the update. Trevor, you’ve been in my thoughts so much in recent months and particularly through this Christmas period. It’s great to hear of your continued improvement as we approach the New Year – a time of renewed hope and energy.
I’ve been reflecting quite a lot recently on the vaguaries and complexities of friendship. You and I knew each other for a short period a long time ago, but the connection we made at Kings has lasted the time and distance (when we met up in Hfx a few years ago, it felt like I’d only seen you yesterday rather than 15 years ago). This blog is evidence to the many similar connections you’ve made with people around the world before, during and since that time. There are few people Trevor who have such an awesome capacity for friendship as you have, and I know I’m not alone in feeling chilled to the bone at how close we came to losing you this year. It’s made me look again at my own connections – some robust, some fragile, many lost but not all unrecoverable. You have inspired my New Year’s resolution, which is to reconnect with some of those real friends I have lost through time, distance, neglect or mishap. My flight’s already booked for the Kings reunion in May …
I’m sending lots of good vibes across the Atlantic to you, Debbie and Grace for a positive and peaceful 2007.
Love, Veronica.
Happy New Year Trev
from all of us at IR Japan
Have recently read the recent story on Lt. Trevor Greene’s recovery and progress in The Toronto Star, I felt it necessary to pass on my heartfelt thanks and best wishes in his recovery.
Derek Pape
Toronto, Ontario
Trev, Debbie and Grace,
Thank you so much for keeping this blog going. I have been able to check up on Trev throughout the year. Hiroko and I will be coming through Vancouver on our way to Calgary this June or July. We certainly hope to vist. Dave Burns kids, Ami, Alex and Anthony were all in Japan for a visit in December. We had a great time hanging at the beach and letting the kids go wild.
Say Hi to Tree and all of the best for 2007.
Hi Trevor,
Dave Burns here. You know me. We hung out in Zushi, I met you when you were writing for newspapers and living with your Japanese girlfriend at the time.
I lived in Ed’s place — Ed the Yokosuka naval guy — right by the beach near the temple on iskiki-kaigan for that year. That summer we went to the beach bar the hymilaian guy Beano and his Auzzie wife ran, watched the yakuza wander around with the other sunbathers, swam and drank all day until we all went back to Ed’s place to drink cheap American beer and eat steak with a bunch of the locals, a few ex-pats and the navy boys and girls. Lots of laughs and good times.
We even organized an exhibition rugby game against the navy guys for sixty minutes and did OK. You were a horse out there, grabbing the ball and running into a wall of bullet-shaped Americans who didn’t quite know the game and dragging them for ten yards until you lost momentum and a ruck formed.
I remember the field was like a parking lot. I played a poor game at scrum half but was out for the full sixty minutes. We had Auzzies, South Africans, Canadians, Brits, had never practised together, against I think almost three full teams of Americans who got switched on each 20 minute break. We barely had enough guys to field a team, but we just jumped on. They beat us, but we held our own. We all went back to the navy clubhouse and drank like fish for hours, both squads. Great party. Those were good times.
Before I moved out of Ed’s house I had started seeing a Japanese woman Minako, who had a three year old daughter, Ami. You used to hang out on the beach with us on weekends. I still remember you playfully throwing Ami in the air like a little toy in contrast to your massive frame.
I eventually married Minako in Japan, you knew that, and finally moved back to Canada with Ami and Alex in development. We had one more son, Anthony who is now 8, they are beautiful kids, but Minako and I seperated a few years back. We still get along well and are raising our kids together, but the world has changed. Sometimes I miss those days on the beach.
Ami is 16 now, and was recently over in Japan over Christmas with her brother Alex 11, her boyfriend Weldon 18 and her best friend Emily. They hung out with Rob on the same beaches we used to hang out on. Seeing the photos took me way back.
When I heard about you in Afghanistan, it was like getting a two by four to the forehead. Rob Fuller phoned me about it. I’d lost track of you, heard you were in Vancouver, then back in Japan.
I have to be frank, I am not a big supporter of the war in Afghanistan, never have been. We were both journalists, you know as much as I do that the story is never quite what makes it into print. Someone is always spinning the story in the direction of truth and light and patriotism when the truth is more harsh and ugly. What you are going through with your rehabilitation highlights more of the truth of what war and soldiering involves. It really breaks my heart, that while I know that you would feel passionately about being there for your fellow soldiers and are sincere about wanting to be back with your unit, the very fact that our soldiers will do whatever we ask as Canadians in the service of this country demands a more thoroughly examined and discussed gameplan before we send them into harm’s way.
Anyway, I want to send you my prayers, my love and my respects. I heard you may be in Alberta — I am in Calgary — and I would like to know if you do come to this province, would like to see you if you are open to it. In any event, take care, be strong brother — as you have so affectionately called so many — and know my thoughts are with you.
I recently read the news about Trevor. I only met him in passing through Lisa Arnold and Carol Milne but I remember him as clear as day. He seemed like a very genuine person and judging by these posts he was and continues to be. Send Trevor my best wishes in his recovery. Peace to his family. Que Dios le bendiga.
On another note, a big hello to Pam Halstead, Liz Rigney, Sara Fraser, Clare MacKenzie.
Hey Trevor:
Happy New Year to you and yours. (I never have been known for punctuality)
Strength, a really big grin and pure guts is what I am sending you in this mail (hum a bit as you close your eyes and breathe deeply . . . You will feel it!)
All the best Colette
Thanks again Al, for this great Blog. And a HNY to you too. Write some time if you get even a second. I still need to send you some photos, don’t I.
Missingly
Colette xo
Hey Collette,. No worries about being late. I have Xmas cards still to write.
To the Friends and Family of Trevor,
I was wondering if a foundation or fund has been established to assist Trevor and his family during his recovery period. I am distributing awareness bracelets (coloured rubber bands)to raise funds for Canadian soldiers who have been injured in Afghanistan and would like to direct funds that I raise to Trevor and his family. I was very moved by the piece that Debbie posted about the flag, it was written by Tervor…and what is very ironic is that the bracelet that I am distributing is red with a small white maple leaf and the lettering GOT YOUR BACK. Please let me know if anyone has established a foundation or fund in Trevor’s name…I would like to get in touch with them. If anyone is interested in my GOT YOUR BACK initiative…just contact me through my email address. Wishing Trevor continued success in his recovery.
Susan O’Neill, West Vancouver
Hello everyone:
Great to read the December update from Debbie and to hear about Trev’s progress. Some of you may have seen the short bit on Bubba in the last issue of Toro magazine — one of the “luckiest Canadians of 06.”
Susan,
You are an inspiration to us all. Thank you very much for your efforts.
In response to your query, I am one of the trustees of the Captain Trevor Greene Trust Fund. The details of the trust fund are in the email that was distributed to friends and family below.
Please email me if you have any questions.
Thank you again.
Toni Grzesiczek, CGA
tonigwfg@shaw.ca
Dear friends of Captain Trevor Greene,
Trevor and his family continue to be very moved by the outpouring of support, thoughts and well wishes by friends the world over. Although Trevor has made remarkable progress so far, he still has a very long healing journey ahead and it’s new territory for everyone.
Many people have asked how they can help or contribute financially. Now there is a way. Some friends have established a trust fund to help support Trevor, Debbie and Grace. These funds will be used at Trevor and Debbie’s discretion for anything from additional therapies to alternative health care to a specialized laptop computer to Grace’s future university fund. The goal of the trust fund is to ensure that Trevor is provided with the things that will bring meaning into his life and assist him during his extensive healing journey. Please note that there are no tax receipts for this account.
Please feel under no obligation or pressure to contribute to the fund. However, if you would like to contribute to Trevor’s continued care, and help provide assistance to Debbie and Grace, please visit your nearest branch of CIBC and ask to donate to Account # 39-31137 (Bank 010, Transit 00500) or the “Captain Trevor Greene Trust Fund”. For those friends living outside Canada, please mail cheques to any branch of CIBC citing the above trust fund and/or account number.
The list of people we are contacting has been compiled through email addresses listed on the blog, and through emails we have received directly from people who have expressed an interest in helping Trevor, Debbie and Grace.
On a personal note, I must tell you that the courage, strength and determination shown by Trevor and Debbie every single day is truly awe inspiring. Regardless of whether you decide to donate to the trust fund, please continue to include them in your thoughts, prayers and well wishes. They are so greatly appreciated.
All the best,
Clare MacIntyre
A fellow friend of Trevor, Debbie and Grace
I’ve posted an item on my blog to help publicize the trust fund for Trevor. Hopefully it will help bring in a bit of “green” for “Captain Greene”! 🙂 http://briancormier.blogspot.com/2007/02/captain-trevor-greene-trust-fund.html
Dear Trevor,
I’m so happy to hear that you are getting stronger… : )
Your always in my prayers!
Debbie thanks for keeping us posted.
I look forward to your next update.
Warm hugs from an old Navy Pal,
Andreia
Thought some of you may be interested in the article in today’s Vancouver Sun.
I hope the military will give Debbie some answers soon.
If you go to the site, there is a beautiful photo of Debbie and Trevor.
http://www.canada.com/vancouversun/news/story.html?id=8f73cf7b-2cdb-4929-b178-6bf2b0f3b910&k=52512&p=2
Soldier’s arduous path to recovery
‘Despite being clobbered in the head with a Taliban axe, I would go back in a heartbeat to finish off the mission’
Graham Thomson, CanWest News Service
Published: Saturday, March 03, 2007
You might not remember his name. But you surely remember what happened to him.
One year ago Sunday, Capt. Trevor Greene of Vancouver was hit in the head by an Afghan wielding an axe in an attack that horrified Canadians for its sheer viciousness and brutality.
His shaken colleagues, who shot the attacker dead on the spot, thought Greene was done for. Indeed, the blow was probably deep and deadly enough to kill most people, but not Greene.
Astonishingly, the Seaforth Highlanders reservist survived the attack and today is most assuredly alive.
And he has a message for Canadians: “Despite being clobbered in the head with a Taliban axe, I would go back in a heartbeat to finish off the mission.”
It is a message that manages to convey humour, optimism and determination, which pretty much sums up the man and the traits that have seen him come so far since the attack. He is still in Vancouver General Hospital, still confined to a bed and wheelchair, still struggling through endless sessions of physical rehabilitation.
But he is getting better.
“There’s no impairment of his cognitive functions,” says his fiance, Debbie Lepore, who has been at his side every day since he was brought home. “He thinks as well has he did before.”
For privacy reasons, she didn’t want to release any recent photos of Greene, but says he looks much the same as he did before the attack, maybe a few pounds lighter.
Greene’s ongoing fight is to overcome the physical handicap created when the axe cleaved into the area of the brain that controls his motor functions.
“That’s why he’s not able to walk, he’s not able to move his hands and his arms very well at this point,” says Lepore.
Every day, he goes through physical therapy in an attempt to rewire his brain. He is relearning how to move his hands, his arms and his legs. “So, if the brain makes new connections to get those neurons through and the synapses firing, then there’s a chance that he’ll get that back. But he was hit pretty hard in the area that controls the legs.”
It must be at times a frustrating struggle for Greene, 42, who before the attack was a strapping 193-centimetre bundle of energy who spoke English, French and Japanese and wrote several books — one on the missing women of Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside and another on the homeless in Japan.
It was this interest in the downtrodden that led him to volunteer as a member of Canada’s civilian-military cooperation team in Afghanistan.
Greene’s physical progress is slow and laborious, measured in the twitch of a finger, the flutter of a hand — and some days there is no measurable movement at all.
His recovery will take years; there is no fast fix or set schedule. It is akin to Canada’s progress in Afghanistan. Indeed, Greene’s story could stand as a metaphor for Canada’s mission here.
It is the story of a big-hearted and well-meaning man who sat down with people in the village of Gumbad, right in the heart of Taliban country, and in a show of trust and friendship laid down his weapon, removed his combat helmet and took out a note-pad and pen to write down what the villagers needed.
That’s when a teenager brandishing a weapon right out of the Middle Ages attacked.
It was the end of innocence for big-hearted and well-meaning Canada, and a reminder we are in a war zone fighting an enemy who will use youngsters to attack us from behind with suicidal brutality.
Our progress since then has moved in fits and starts. In the past year since the attack on Greene, 36 Canadians have been killed. Canadian troops won a clear victory last summer in Operation Medusa when the Taliban made the mistake of standing and fighting a conventional battle, thinking Canadians wouldn’t have the stomach for battle. Canadians killed Taliban fighters by the hundreds in the districts of Panjwai and Zhari.
However, Canada did not follow up on the military triumph with a strategy to help displaced residents reconstruct their shattered lives. That would have helped bring immediate and long-lasting peace to the region. Instead, the districts continue to teeter on a razor’s edge. Life is returning, people are coming home to their farms, but the threat of the Taliban remains.
Canadians only travel through the area in armoured convoys.
But Canadians do go out every day, steadily increasing the number of patrols from the Provincial Reconstruction Team based in Kandahar City, the same team Greene belonged to. The job of PRT volunteers is to help Afghans rebuild their lives and thus build a lasting peace. Among other things, they hire Afghans by the hundreds to clear out long stretches of irrigation canals, help immunize millions of children against polio and train the Afghan National Police.
After Greene’s attack and the escalation of fighting last year, the PRT’s work ground to a halt. Now, they’re back out visiting villages.
Consequently, Greene remains very much an optimist of Canada’s role in Afghanistan.
“The mission is critical for propping up the government in a volatile region,” he says in an e-mail statement. “This is not a Band-Aid solution. I believe we can succeed.”
Greene is still not up to the rigours of an interview but compared to last year when he almost died from pneumonia and underwent a series of major surgeries, he is getting better. A few weeks ago he made his first trip outside the hospital and went to dinner with his fiance, their two-year-old daughter and his parents.
“He’s just an amazing person,” Debbie says. “This world needs people like this and so that’s what inspires me. When I’m inspired it’s not tiring. It’s all part of the journey for Trevor and I. We both get a lot out of experiences and this is an experience that we’re going to go through in life and we’re making the most of it.”
The Canadian military, however, is apparently not making the most of it.
Lepore, who is not one to complain, says she is having a difficult time getting proper therapy for Trevor. “He’s only given 30 minutes of physiotherapy sessions at a time,” she says. “He has had virtually no speech therapy for most of the time that he’s been in hospital.”
“I’ve been playing telephone and e-mail tag with military officials in Ottawa to find out why they’re not providing more help. As I write this, I still don’t have an answer.”
But Debbie, like Trevor, is an optimist.
“I don’t know where we’re going to end up. But I know he’s got a long way still to go for sure. I know he’s going to make a very good recovery. I just have a feeling. He’s alive and we rejoice at that.”
© The Vancouver Sun 2007
Halifax Daily News carried a two full pages on Trevor today, March 4, one year since Trevor was hit.
http://www.hfxnews.ca/
Thanks, Philomena. Our thoughts here in Kingston are certainly with Trevor and Debbie and it is such good news that progress, if slow, still continues so well. You know, there ought to be a cheery chant distant supporters can chant or a congratulatory anthem or something about the re-knitting of brain cells in a case like this. Go brain cells!!!
Hey Trevor,
I saw the article in the Vancouver Sun. So glad to hear you are improving. My thoughts are with you. Go brain cells, indeed! Let me know if there is anything I can do.
XOXO
Murata
The newspaper articles and updates are truly inspiring. Keep up the great work Trevor! Hope to stop by and visit at some point.
after reading the article in the montreal gazette, i can tell you that you’re a hero and a source of inspiration. you are in my thoughts as i’m working on a project. i wish you a speedy recovery and all the best to the family.
Hi from Master Corporal Paul Franklin (double above the knee amp)
I hope you guys are doing well and that my visit in December was in some ways productive.
I am doing well and working with other amputees and other wounded soldiers to help them along their way.
Again let me express my desire to help you guys in anyway and wish you all the best.
Franklin family
Simon , Audra and Paul
Plus a dog and three cats
Hello Trev:
A year has come around the calendar and now here we are in Tokyo on the verge of a GORGEOUS OUTBREAK of sakura cherry blossoms. Had one hanami party already but 30 MILLION PEOPLE will be doing it this weekend, the timing is perfect.
I will keep this short but will write you again shorly with more information. I have a plan to equip the entire city of Vancouver with these great high-performance LED lamps we have developed. They run at 28 watts and can immediately replace 300 watt mercury street lamps. That means the power bill will be about one-tenth, and the resulting GHC and CO2 emissions also about a tenth. They have no glass, no gas, no mercury, a clean supply chain from start to finish, and 4-5 times longer operating life. Maybe we wil have a chance to stop by and say hello. I really do look forward to meeting you and your family. We are also starting up a “Spare a LIght Foundation” to give developing counries more of these low-energy eco-logical lamps. Afghanistan should be included. We call the lamps “social multipliers” or “economic multipliers” because they put light into schools, librraries, clinics, civic centers and such and make such facilities useful after dark.

I wish you all the very best. Will hoist a flagon of good sake to your health and happiness. 
PS: I would love to know how to post images to the blog. Does anyone know?

Hi Trevor,
Glad to hear that you are as determined as always and steadily improving. I have tried to reach Gregory to find out where you are at these days without luck so thought I would try writing. We are back from Haiti and would like to catch up with you and talk over some Greenheart ideas that you may be interested in.
all the best,
Ian
Ok, I am absolutely the LAST one to accuse everyone of deafening silence, as I have neglected the Trev Blog for so many months, but, um….where the hell is everyone? What going on? Trev, have you moved? Debbie, did the military brass in Ottawa take the subtle hint you (wisely, I believe) laid down in the Sun article? Have they got off their asses and gotten Trevor into a proper high-tech, “This is Your Brain, This Is Your Brain On Rehabilitation”-type centre? If not, shall we stir some shit to make this happen? Speaking of asses, Trevor, are you off yours yet? And is it now as skinny as mine? Alan, are you filtering out all the messages because everyone has taken Robyn’s cue and has started telling all the “True Trevor” stories and none have been fit to remain? Or am I lost? Have too many wackos found the site so wee’ve moved it? Wait a minute….am I one of those wackos? Or has everyone just decided Trevor will get better and we’ll just have to wait. Screw this; I’m writting to him directly. You guys SUCK!!! ……….. Lots of love, Ian
Ian! Did you forget that thing about you and coffee…and fruit juices…and…anything providing life sustaining energy? All good questions, though. I expect lots of the Kings years discussion occurred face to face at the reunion the other week but neither Robyn or I made it.
Well put Ian, always the subtle one. I think the reason we are the only ones on here is that everyone else was in attendance at the recent King’s reunion and said all that was on their minds in person. So it is left to those few idiots like ourselves who didn’t make the trek to communicate on this Blog.
I will give what updated information I have on our friend Trevor. For those who don’t know Trevor has left the hospital and is in Center for Rehab outside of Vancouver. He is waiting for a bed in the rehab of choice in Alberta. Trevor is definitely moving and talking more and by all accounts his rehab has been beefed up and sounds like a bit of tough love. While it is great he is out of the hospital I think the down side is that he gets fewer visitors so I am sure more updates and pictures would be greatly apreciated. I know that he did recently get a visit from his old rowing coach Patrick Graham and his father (who was at one time Canada’s foreign minister)as they were passing through town and a good laugh was had by all. Trevor has come a long way but still has a lot of work to do to have the full recovery he is capable of achieving but won’t come without a lot of work on his part.
Well time to go off and cry some more as I think of the good times I missed out on at the King’s reunion
Cheers
Robyn
Hey Trev!
Trust that your spirits are in fine form and that you have lots of people around you keeping you entertained. We are always thinking of you and wondering how to send stuff or if you need a visit we can’t be too far from you. Was also wondering if still you had that sweater that Koji Shinohara’s mom gave me. Not that its important or anything just you know, wondering.
Love Tomoko Chris and the little Heschuks
Robyn, thanks for the update on our buddy. Al, thanks for the reminder about coffee.
Hi there,
I’m a reporter at the Edmonton Journal and I am looking to get int contact with Debbie Lepore. I hear that Trevor is coming to Alberta for specialized treatment and we would like to follow up to see how he is doing.
If someone knows how to get in touch with her, please call me at 780-498-5620.
Thanks,
Meghan
HIya Trevor:
Hope you are able to catch up on your reading on Japan. In recent weeks we have had 1) a big election for the Upper House that the neo-cons around Abe LOST BADLY, just blown away by the Minshuto 2) a big second earthquake in Niigata that knocked out the newest and largest nuke in Japan at Kashiwazaki (the TEPCO guys later said, we had never anticipated anything that strong near the facility….), 3) a few gangland shootings 4) a record wet July 5) a record hot August.
In other words, situation normal, all f***ed up. Ah yes, the wheel grinds on. I got a mail fm Prof. Michael Stanley from Chiba who asked how you are doing. He had a great gallery show the other day in Aoyama for some of his fine underwater photography (check http://www.mejstanley.com) Sumie has another book coming out which I think you will enjoy – in fact, if you are up to it, we should ask you to write a review or a blurb or a testimonial (check out http://www.goodbyemadamebutterfly.com. Pretty amazing stuff.
But I really do hope to swing by to see you guys soon. My kids Julia and Alex are students at UC Santa Barbara which gives me an excuse to stop by just about anywhere on the West Coast.
I would dearly appreciate if someone would send me a more personal and direct email contact address – I guarantee I will not give it to anyone else.
Best, Peter
ps. We are doing another triathlon at Sado Island next weekend. Sumie going the full Ironman distance as usual, me the half Ironman, as usual (wimp!!)
For those of you in Vancouver, there will be a fundraiser for Trevor and his family on September 26th. Here is the information:
Save the date:
Date: Wednesday September 26
Time: Doors open: 8pm,
Show starts: 9pm – 12am
MC: Todd Battis CTV News Reporter
Band: So Tight Band & Brickhouse the Band
Place: The Yale Hotel – 1300 Granville Street
Price: $20
On September 26 we are gathering together at The Yale Hotel for a fundraiser to assist Trevor, Debbie and Grace on their miraculous healing journey. Captain Greene was attacked from behind and struck with a taliban axe on March 4, 2006 while sitting in a peaceful Shura discussing how to bring clean drinking water and basic medical care and education to the women and children of Afghanistan. His survival has been called a miracle in the medical profession as he presently undergoes extensive rehabilitation to speak and to reconnect his brain and muscles in order to regain function over his entire body. Hosted by Master of Ceremonies and CTV West Coast News Reporter Todd Battis, the entertainment line up will feature the infectious sounds of the SoTight Band (www.thesotightband.com) and Brickhouse (www.brickhousetheband.com). Tickets to No Turning Back – A Fundraiser for Captain Trevor Greene are $20 in advance or at the door. Doors open at 8pm. Show time begins at 9pm. Price of admission includes a silent auction, 50/50 draws and raffle items. Proceeds from this fundraiser will go to the Captain Trevor Greene Trust Fund.
Items for door prize, raffle draw and silent auction include two flights tickets and accommodation to La Penita Mexico, wellness gift package, one room night in an executive suite and dinner for two, dinner for four, dinner for two, brunch for two, wine gift basket, chocolate gift basket and much much more.
Companies that have generously donated are: Casita de la Penita, Signature Vacations, Foundation for Integrated Health, Fairmont Hotel Vancouver, Fairmont Waterfront Hotel, Sylvia Hotel, Century Plaza, Brockmann’s Chocolate, Safeway, The Yale Hotel, In Motion Lotion, Cactus Club, T tea room and merchant, Terra Bread, Liberty Wine Merchants, The Atlantic Trap & Gill, Tamsen Ogden Photography, Electronics Mike Remington, A Fine Balance Imports and Artist Jason Leo Bantle.
If you can’t make it to the fundraiser but would still like to donate following is the trust fund information: Captain Trevor Greene Trust Fund, CIBC Account #39-31137 (Bank 010,Transit 00500).
You can conveniently purchase a ticket using your credit card through paypal at: http://www.eventbrite.com/event/71765653 . If you do your tickets will be kept at the door the night of the event.
For more information you can contact Valerie Gibbs by phone at 604.992.4697 or via email at vcg@sfu.ca.
Hi everyone who is still checking the blog!
As many of you may already know, an award-winning documentary film maker is currently in the development stage for a film about Trevor and Debbie (and Grace of course!). The filming will take place over a long time period…in order to properly follow his healing journey. Trevor is very enthusiastic about documentary and he and Debbie have given the green light for friends and family to talk to the filmakers about their experiences with Trevor.
I am helping them in a Story Consultant type of role…to help them put the pieces together and figure out who’s who in Trevor’s extremely wide yet close and important circle of friends and collegues.
The documentary team would LOVE to borrow or make a copy of any video footage anyone has of Trevor…from any aspect of his life before the attack…it can be as far back as school days…or university..or as recent as rugby or rowing here in Vancouver. If ANYONE has any video they’d like to share, please send an email to dreamfilm@shaw.ca.
This documentary is being developed with very thorough research, and with the utmost respect to Trevor, his family and his friends.
All the best from Vancouver,
Clare
Hi there,
Thank you so much for all the support Debbie, Trevor and Grace have received.
It is heartwarming to see all that goodness out there.
It is an honor to share the duties of Trustee for my sister, brother-in-law and niece and the Trevor Greene Trust. Please note I have changed my email address is anyone would like to get in touch with me.
Thank you and keep sending positive thoughts.
Toni
Thanks Toni. That is good information. I have a question for you but will email.
Hi Everyone,
Sorry for the long hiatus. If you look way, way back in the archives, you’ll see a posting by Steve McLean, quoting a line from a rowing poem written by Peter Classen. I knew I had a copy of it but couldn’t find it…until today…when I was looking for something else in our dusty attic. It was like finding a long, lost treasure. Steve, I don’t know if you ever came across it, but here it is:
We’ve set our goals, they are in sight
We’ve practised morning, noon and night
What took us out of our comfortable bed
To face the cold and strain ahead?
A fierce desire, the will to win
Never give up, never give in
We’re true to our crewmates, our coaches, our sport
Every last one from starboard to port
The tired arms, the aching backs
In spite of this we never slack
Pull hard, be proud, dig deep to your core!
We are King’s Crew ’84
Trevor, may you find inspiration in these words. I mean, think what they did for us at the regatta the next day!
I think of you often.
Love,
JB
Hi Al et Al,
Here’s a story on Trevor in the Nov10’07 Chronicle-Herald
http://www.thechronicleherald.ca/Front/977759.html
Silly me, sorry – I just noticed the headline and thought to forward it along … it’s an article BY Trevor!
I was fortunate to have met Trevor when we worked together at a .com company back in 2000. I admired his inspirational stories and his enthusiasm for life. I was very upset to hear about what happened to him in Afghanistan. A girlfriend of mine who is also friends with Deb (his fiancé) forwarded the article he wrote Nov10’07 Chronicle-Herald. So many of us today are not directly affected by war and find ourselves searching for meaning on Remembrance Day. Reading Trevor’s article on such a day reminded me to honor those that have fallen and those families that have been affected by war. I took a trip to a local war memorial and spent some time reflecting on what this day really is all about. My thoughts are with you Trevor and your family and I wish you all the best in your recovery.
I have just discovered this site and wanted to commend all of you who have stayed in touch with Trevor (and each other) over the years. I went to Kings with Trevor and many of those who have posted here (Robyn, Colette, the rowers etc.) in the mid-80s but simply did not stay in touch. Just too busy moving on to the next thing to be bothered keeping up with past friends. At the time, it seemed easy to justify. Now, after reading through these many entries and catching up on so much I wasn’t aware of, I am moved by the degree that so many of you have remained close and able to support each other. Friendship does take work but is a wonderful thing when nurtured. My resolution for the New Year is to get in touch with Trevor, his family and a few forgotten friends to offer my good energy for his continued recovery.
Here’s hoping 2008 will bring continued progress for Trevor.
Cheers,
Amy Copland
Just wanted to send my love to Trevor and his family…i think of you often and hope that recovery is going well…
Patti
Hi Trevor and family:
It has been two years since I first heard the news of the attack on Trevor and many months since I’ve heard how he is doing. Is there any information that can be shared with his wide net of friends? My family is wishing you all the best.
Donna
Hi everyone,
I check here every once in awhile to see if there is any news of Trevor. Its been a long time since weve heard anything. Can anyone help with an update? Thanks so much. Lynn
Hello trevor & Debbie,
its Mike from CLASSIC. just found our about this site today coz i was watching a documentary about canadian soldiers and i thought of TREV. How is everything out there? hows trevors recovery? hope you guys are great and hope trev will still remember some of us ….. hehehhe.
mike
Hello Trevor.
Dear fried.
I’s clean up my email and If ound out an email that you sent me before leaving to Afghanistan. I’d like to post it because it remaind me the great man that you are and how strong was (and is) the relationship that we had enstablish to each other so I cannot resist to show taht to the other common friends that you’ve got.
Your Renato
“ciao mio amico da tuo amico Canadese Trevor Greene”
Subject: ciao mio amico da tuo amico CanadeseTrevor Greene
Date: Sun, 22 Jan 2006 21:21:19 +0000
Hello Renato,
Please forgive me for having fallen out of touch. I wonder how you are doing these days. Last I heard you were looking at a second tour of Iraq. I am deploying this week for a seven-month tour to Kandahar. I will be commanding a CIMIC team attached to one of our manouevre elements. Please keep in touch through my military email: greene.t@forces.gc.ca
I hope to hear from you soon.
Take good care my friend and please pass my regards to your lovely wife.
A quick note to Al MacLeod – if you’re still monitoring this site, please drop me an email. Cheers, Ian Coll
hey folks,, last news i recieved was about a month ago from trever’s mom and dad, trever is coming along well, but still has a long way to go and he looks great.
To all who are checking this site. Trevor is at a brain injury rehab centre in Ponoka, Alberta. He is doing well there. He is in a wheelchair, and can not walk as yet. All physio’s are doing well. Voice is a strong whisper. Can now eat and brush teeth with left hand. Is using computer. Our parents are there now. Looking into feet surgery to have better balance. Hoping to stay 3-6 months longer in Ponoka at the centre. Will update as more info. is available. Debbie and Grace doing well. Trev able to go home on weekends. They have a wheelchair van. Has accomplished quite alot at the centre, but still has a ways to go. There is someone documenting Trev’s recovery. He still has his humour and looks great, even with glasses(age thing). Hope this helps and thanks for your continued love and support.
G’day Tree, Debbie, and Grace,
Thought I’d drop by the site to so see how things are going. Thrilled to note Suzanne’s info on progress. Keep up the good work. Forgive the crap humor, Tree, but do you reckon you can bribe your right hand to grab a Chuhai?
Cheers and love from the Nishikamakura gang.
G’day Tree, Debbie, and Grace,
Thought I’d drop by the site to so see how things are going. Thrilled to note Suzanne’s info on progress. Keep up the good work. Forgive the crap humor, Tree, but do you reckon you can bribe your right hand to grab a Chuhai?
Cheers and love from the Nishikamakura gang.
Hi Trevorski –
Sorry to be out of touch all this while. Just came back fm Santa Barbara where I spent a week with Julia and Alex and my Mom who came out fm NYC, age 82 and all. Occasion was Julia’s graduation with honors fm UCSB. Pix available under my name on Facebook. On the Tokyo side of things, I had lunch yesterday with Michael Brooke and spoke on the cellphone with Michael Stanley fm Chiba so your old contacts out here are still around, still the same, keeping a seat open for you at the Yurakucho ga-do-shita pubs next time you happen to be stopping over in the Big Mikan.
More seriously, Trev – ALL THE BEST and a steady ongoing recovery. I got LASIK for my near-sightedness but it does nutthin for the “rou-gan” as the Japanese call old folks loss of near-distance visual acuity.
Peter Fuchs (peter.fuchs@elementsciences.com, 090-6566-6700)
Great to hear about Trevor’s recovery! Keep up the good work:)
Patti
I do not know Trevor but I have kept track of his progress every since the accident. I had not checked this site for many months and today I did. Must be esp or something as comments have just resumed a short time ago. Thank you for keeping this site active. There are many “unknowns” out here who continue to send our good wishes and positive thoughts Trevor’s way. I send my best for continued recovery. Trudie
Trevor,
I also went to High School with Trevor. He was an excellent classmate and fantastic basketball player. I have many fond memories of our times on the basketball court and during school, especially the train ride to Nova Scotia..Simply put..an awesome individual who always had a smile on his face. As a military member myself, I realize the dangers, and was deeply saddened when a friend is hurt.
My prayers go out for you Trevor, I know you could never forget the High School days and the memories we had.
All the best, I know you will succeed, you have in every way.
Kent
Trevor,
You have earned so many friends in this world that you may not remember me, but I sense the need to tell you how much I remember you.
McRae and I were both on RPC with you in Gagetown. We still share fond stories of you, including how you would sun yourself with a homemade reflector made of cardboard and tin-foil on the back lawn of H-1 on Saturdays. If it had been anyone else, Trevor, we would have thought how rediculous it was. But, since it was you, it somehow just seemed right.
Right, real, and true are the qualities that you exude. As a country boy from Nova Scotia, those qualities instantly earned you my trust and respect. During the tribulations of learning to be an Infantry Officer, it was your strength of character that I tried to emulate. I must say, having read this blog today, I can see I’m obviously not the only one that has felt this way from knowing you!
Your strength and current struggle are an inspiration to us all, and I hope to someday meet you again and would be honoured to have the opportunity to shake your hand again and say “thank you”.
Quentin
Thanks for the update Suzanne. I didn’t realize that Trevor was out near me. Is he still in Ponoka? Is he up to seeing visitors?
hello Trev, Debbie and Grace…..
I spent the better part of the evening reading the entries and comments from your friends and family, as its been a bit since I visited the site. I get the updates from aunt Bess and Uncle Dick. Each time I visit the site and read each entry from people who have crossed your path and shared your experiences (and perhaps even a few cold ones) I learn a little more about where life has taken you since we were kids. Funny how time seems to escape us all until a small memory seeps in… can’t help but think of that big brown mercury and a camper parked in the back yard. You’ve come a long way since those days.
a wish of godspeed in your recovery efforts and perhaps one day will have a chance to chat about those days.
take care Cuz
Gary & Maggie
Just dropping a line to let you know old High school friends here in Ottawa still think about you and your family. One day at a time, keep on getting stronger, wish you well !
Hi Trev.
I hope this finds you very well and that you are causing the appropriate amount of mayhem with the pysiotherapists.
Just a quick note, really, to say ‘Hi’ and tell you I’m thinking about you often (together with many others!).
If you have an email account and are getting tired of low-rent spam mail, send me your email address so I can forward the occassional inappropriate joke.
Love to you and yours,
Ian Coll
London, UK
Hi Trevor, Debbie, et al –
It has (of course) been some time since I last saw the two of you at VGH. I’ll always remember those visits, and witnessing the improvement in your condition, Trevor – and of course, the hockey games we watched at the hospital w/Marco Polo and Mr. Zabani.
Best wishes to you and your family, Trevor and Deb. I keep all of you in my best thoughts!
Corinne
I posted the latest update on Trevor’s progress as its own post.
Hi Trevor and Debbie.
Thanks for a great day last Thursday. It was a pleasure to meet you two, Grace and the others.
I’m currently editing the photos (CD on the way) and thinking of you guys.
Take care and all the best.
Brian Howell
As one of the many many health care workers who helped care for Mr. Greene during his long complicated stay at VGH, it was very hurtful to read that his view of VGH was: ‘It was a shithole’. We were all rooting for you during your recovery and continue to do so. Take care Mr. Greene.
Keep going one step at a time Trevor. You’re getting closer every day.
In case you didn’t know already, the documentary titled Peace Warrior about Trevor, will air Dec. 13th at 7 pm. Please check local listings for repeats the following day.
Nice article on Trevor in today’s Halifax Chronicle-Herald.
http://thechronicleherald.ca/Front/1095707.html
I just watched the documentary “Peace Warrior”, seeing this brought home the ugliness of war. I have a brother who served for 33 yrs. His being in the service gave me more gray hairs then him. However Trevor, you have to be the strongest person I have seen. With Debbie and Little Wabbit by your side… you are a winner. You sure gave me a lot to think about. Keep up the good work and know that I will be praying for you, Debbie & your family. All the best and have a good Christmas.
Geri,
Newfoundland
Just watched Peace Warrior with my daughter.
Thank you Trevor.
GANBATTE NE!
AKIRAMENAI DE KUDASAI.
Cross referencing comments from another post.
Watched Peace Warrior on CTV the other night. I’ve been thinking a lot about it. Please get in touch. I am a secondary progressive MS patient, and I’d like to walk again too.
Thank you from the family for all your kind words and comments. Every voice is one of encouragement so please keep them coming! Trevor is in good spirits going into the holidays. The documentary has reached out and touched so many. Merry Christmas and a fantastic New Year to you all.
In case anyone is wondering the Captain Trevor Greene Trust is still alive. If you would like to contribute to Trevor’s continued care, and help provide assistance to Debbie and Grace, please visit your nearest branch of CIBC and ask to donate to Account # 39-31137 (Bank 010, Transit 00500) or the “Captain Trevor Greene Trust Fund”. For those friends living outside Canada, please mail cheques to any branch of CIBC citing the above trust fund and/or account number. We are so grateful. Thank you.
Hello,
I just finished watching a re-run of the documentary on CTV tonight June 6th, 2009. Coincidental to this, I am reading a book called “The Brain that Changes Itself” where it is explained that the human brain is capable of reconnecting in different ways after brain injuries to make the body work again, despite brain injuries.
Now I have an idea to share. I hope it helps. It may sound absurd, but it seems to me it is wrong to try to (re)learn to walk by directly trying to stand up. Humans don’t learn to walk by standing up. They learn to walk by crawling on their belly for months and months. Then they crawl on their knees and hands for months. Then they grab something and stand up for a few seconds and fall back. And they repeat until they can stand still. I don’t know if this would work, I am not a rehab specialist or anything like that.
Anyway, I just saw the documentary on CTV and even though I am 40 yrs old male, it made me cry. Trevor, you have an amazing brain. I do not know the future, I do not know if you can walk again, but I sure hope the best for you. I admire you. Good luck and thank you for sharing your story with us.
Hi Trevor and Debby,
I hope you are both well. Sorry for leaving at that for now. Just want to let you know that a spammer has hijacked your hotmail, and is sending junk to dozens of people on your mail list. Not pissed off with you at all, of course. Just worried your address will end up on a blacklist and become unusable,
Cheers,
Mark D
Trevor and Debby,
Hope all is well and that the summer is treating you well. Mark D, Rob F, and I all had some beers at Benny’s place in Ishikawa-cho when we were in Japan back in April. Next time we’ll bring ourselves to you with Benny’s Place and a few pints in hand. I’d like to stop by and see ya bud the next time I’m up north in Blaine, WA. I can pop across the border and I’ll bring the misses with me as she is still keeping you and your family in her thoughts. Shoot me a line when you can…….
Cheers,
Chado
Hi Trevor, Debby and Grace,
I’ve been fortunate to have seen your story through the documentary and I feel compelled to tell you what an immensely powerful family you are. I send you my thoughts of strength, determination, love and courage. you have already walked into so many people’s hearts, good luck and happy dreams.
from Anne.
today i saw documentary, “trevor”. his story brought me to tears. trevor green is an exaple of extreme courage and perseverence. i pray for his compelete recovery. may God bless you.
Hello Trevor and family,
Just wanted to drop a note to you Trevor and wish you all the best in your recovery. Fiona and I think of you often and admire all you have accomplished and continue to accomplish…and of course I have you to thank these many years later as it was at an epic party at your house in high school that my relationship with Fiona blossomed…
All the best to you and your family,
Ian Whamond and Fiona Morrison
Trevor,
The other day as I was at the computer I came across your name in an article and boy did it make me sit up straight! Though years have passed since our days at CWSS, the memories are still wonderful. As I read through all your joys and challenges Trevor – you are a remarkable man who has been blessed with an amazing family and friends. May God continue to give you and your family strength and courage. Your recovery has came so far, please know that we in our corner of the world are wishing you continued progress and much love and laughter ahead.
Capt Greene,
We at the RED Ribbon Forces are behind you if you need any help. Check our website, we support wounded and disabled troops, and other military support projects, send us your phone # and let us know. Brian / Eleanor
just thinking of you. actually share your tragedy in my heroes unit at school and each time, wonder how you are doing? Congrats on the wedding and the Order of Canada.
Trevor and family,
I don’t remember when was the first time I saw the documental and how many times I have cried praying God for strength to three of you, Trevor, Debbie and Grace. You are amazing people and a remarkable example for all of us.
Few weeks ago, in Canada Day, I was nicely surprised when I saw three of you at the Victoria’s harbour… I turned my face and I think I told aloud to my kids, and I guess Debbie notice that (sorry!!) … I also wanted to aproach you and express my feelings, but soon I realized that it was a family time and I didn’t want to disturb it. Although I regret not expressing our respects to you and your family, neither taking a photo of such as remarkable people, having a sight of Greene’s family made our Canada Day happiest than ever.
Not only Canada, but the entire world have been blown away by your determination, resilience, and support for each other during these years.
We will continue praying for your complete recovery and looking forward to hear the best news from you ever!
Trevor and family,
I don’t remember when was the first time I saw the documental and how many times I have cried praying God for strength to three of you, Trevor, Debbie and Grace. You are amazing people and a remarkable example for all of us.
Few weeks ago, in Canada Day, I was nicely surprised when I saw three of you at the Victoria’s harbour… I turned my face and I think I told aloud to my kids, and I guess Debbie notice that (sorry!!) … I also wanted to aproach you and express my feelings, but soon I realized that it was a family time and I didn’t want to disturb it. Although I regret not expressing our respects to you and your family, neither taking a photo of such as remarkable people, having a sight of Greene’s family made our Canada Day happiest than ever.
Not only Canada, but the entire world have been blown away by your determination, resilience, and support for each other during these years.
We will continue praying for your complete recovery and looking forward to hear the best news from you ever!
[Original comments…]
Alan – March 5, 2006 10:46 AM
More detail here. Apparently the meeting was to be about the reconstruction projects in the area including schools.
Barb – March 5, 2006 3:54 PM
http://barbette.blogspot.com
Such a horrible, cowardly attack – especially in light of the nature of his mission. Lt. Greene and his family will be in my thoughts. I hope Soldiers’ Angels can help get info to his family – please let us know if you hear more on his condition!
wayne – March 5, 2006 7:22 PM
http://www.missingpeople.net
I got to know Trevor during his research for his book ‘Bad Date,’ about Vancouver’s missing eastside women. We met for the first time in Starbucks on Davie Street and I immediately felt comfortable with him talking about the disappearance of my friend and over the few years that we corresponded, knew him as a compassionate and dedicated human being. My thoughts and prayers are with Trevor, his family and friends.
ry – March 5, 2006 9:51 PM
They didn’t heed my warnings Al. Those jihadis are going to find out(personal, up close and) that they just signed their own death warrants.
Jonathan Smith – March 6, 2006 3:30 AM
It was a shock to log on to the BBC website and see Trevor Greene’s name among those injured in Afghanistan. I worked with Trevor for a time when he was in Tokyo, before he joined the Canadian forces. Removing his helmet as a mark of respect, drinking tea with the villagers and trying to work out what he could do to help is just the kind of thing he would have been doing. I sincerely hope he makes a full recovery.
Carol Anne – March 6, 2006 2:16 PM
I went to King’s with Trevor. We slogged through the journalism program together and I was fortunate enough to have shared hosting duties with him for our radio class.
He was a well-loved fella who enjoyed the King’s experience. In an odd way when we leave our chums and move forward to build our lives we remember them frozen in time. We get occasional updates about marriages, babies and the regular life stuff.
I was shocked to hear about what had happened to him. Hits a little too close to home.
Thoughts sent out to him and his family and prayers for a speedy recovery.
Candace – March 6, 2006 5:10 PM
http://wakinguponplanetx.blogspot.com
I’ve got a connection with SA in Germany, who has introduced me to the Cdn Captain that takes care of our injured & their families. Wishes for Trevor & others put in my comment section will go directly to that Captain for distribution to the soldiers & their families.
http://wakinguponplanetx.blogspot.com/2006/03/injured-soldiers-in-germany.html
Alan – March 6, 2006 5:16 PM
Thanks Candace. What a remarkable volunteer calling.
Lori Surch (nee Cavers) – March 6, 2006 6:20 PM
We were shocked to hear the news of this cowardly attack during the peace keeping mission. Our family knew Trevor when he was a young man in high school dating our younger sister. The references to this Canadian Soldier’s character both as a private citizen and as a Soldier, match that of the younger man that came knocking on our door many years ago. Our thoughts and prayers are with Trevor, his friends and family on the West Coast, and his family in the Ottawa Area. Hopefully, he will make a full and speedy recovery.
Alex Rettie – March 6, 2006 6:32 PM
I was at King’s with Trevor — I wasn’t a great friend of his, but I was saddened to hear this news. Another way of getting messages to Trevor’s family is through his friend and colleague Shane Gibson: shane@closingbigger.com
Murray Harris – March 6, 2006 8:19 PM
Trevor and I were in the Seaforth Highlanders together, until I moved away. We also lived in the same neighborhood, and often saw each other at breakfast at Melriches. He being an officer, and I not, I did not know him super well. I did, however, know that he cared deeply about his job, and about Canada, but was without pretension. I saw him last in July 2005; he was very excited about deploying to Afghanistan. The attack on him was the mark of a coward, unsettling, given the humanitarian nature of Trevor’s mission.
Warren Opheim – March 6, 2006 9:02 PM
I just found out about this this morning. I worked with Trevor for a few months at a dot-com in 2000, before a big round of layoffs. I didn’t know him really well, but our jobs overlapped from time to time, and he was one of most genuinely decent people I’ve met.
My prayers go out to Trevor and to his family.
Candace – March 7, 2006 1:54 AM
http://wakinguponplanetx.blogspot.com
Alan, I’m putting together a file with comments for the soldiers & particularly Captain Greene’s family. Can I cut & paste your post & comments for them? (I’m not sure how much internet access they may have, or how IT savvy they may be, otherwise I’d provide a link). Let me know via email, please.
Thanks.
Alan – March 7, 2006 8:01 AM
Sure, Candace, that would be fine.
Greg Parent – March 7, 2006 9:18 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you Trevor. I still remember working on your model airplane kit so many years ago.
Mike Connolly – March 7, 2006 10:16 AM
I grew up on the same street as Trevor. Him and his family are exceptional people. I wish him a speedy recovery.
SARA FRASER – March 7, 2006 10:23 AM
I also went to King’s with Trev, we graduated the 4-year journalism program together. We shared a lot in those four years and I remember Trevor very fondly. I am in shock, like the rest of you, perhaps naively, that this could happen to someone we know and love. I just keep thinking, man, he is going to be so pissed if he dies, because he’s gonna want to write about this!!
Love and hugs to his family. We are thinking of Trev and sending our positive vibes for his recovery.
Alan – March 7, 2006 10:31 AM
Hi Sara, thanks for that and reminding me that Trvor was a four year journalism guy. I recall him in basketball as well.
Tim Feick – March 7, 2006 11:53 AM
Hey guys,
I seem to be just another person who has been touched by Trevor throughout his amazing and selfless life. Trevor and I did our officer training together in C.F.B. Gagetown in 2002. The nature of military training often allows you to get to know someone very well during a short period of time. Through the two months we spent together I found Trevor to be a very mature, responsible, and dedicated soldier. He was older than most of us, but definately proved his physical and mental toughness during the days without sleep and constant stress of leadership training. But we had a great time in Gagetown. Trevor has a wonderful sense of humour and one of the images I’m sure I share with those who know him is his intense and honest smile.
All infantry officers share a common thread and none of us go through the difficulties of training and command without knowing why we are there. For Trevor it is obvious: he cares about people. He volunteered for Afghanistan, not for the money, danger, or adventure, but because he wanted to use his abilities and position to make a difference. Unfortunately, he has now been given the opportunity to make a difference in the hearts and minds of Canadians who have somehow been affected by his recent experience.
Our political and military leadership have been telling us for months that Afghanistan is about to become a much more dangerous place for Canadians. Men like Trevor, who want to make a difference, and are making a difference, need our support now more than ever. Please give them your support and demonstrate your appreciation in any way you can.
Thanks for the opportunity to share my thoughts.
John D. Rowe – March 7, 2006 1:42 PM
I am a voice from Trevor’s distant past! Trevor and my late son, David, played minor football together for the “Blackburn Bengals” here in Ottawa some 25-30 years ago and it was with shock and dismay that I realized who had been atttacked. He was one of the nicest kids you would ever want to meet. I was officially (or otherwise) the “President” of the Bengals (3 teams for kids from 8 to 16) and Trev’s Dad, Dick, was the Manager of the team that Trevor (receiver) and David (QB) played on, so Dick and I spent many an evening wandering the sidelines or sitting in a car “shooting the breeze” while waiting for practice to end! I was so pleased (and not surprised) to learn that he has been such a success in the world of journalism and authorship. We are all praying, I am sure, for his full recovery.
John D. Rowe,
North Gower, ON (a “rural” area of the new City of Ottawa)
Candace – March 7, 2006 4:23 PM
http://wakinguponplanetx.blogspot.com
I’ve posted an update. Regarding Trevor, he’s still in a medically-induced coma. His family (the bulk of it) is there now & holding up well, according to the Captain.
OD – March 7, 2006 5:01 PM
The injury sounds terrible, but a lot of people have made amazing recoveries from exactly this sort of injury in recent years. Hope this is one of those cases.
Alan – March 7, 2006 6:02 PM
Kings College in Halifax has put out this press release this afternoon.
Donna Gillespie – March 7, 2006 6:53 PM
This is a great site – thanks for setting this up. I too have known Trevor for many years – since we were in High School together at Cairine Wilson in Orleans. We have stayed in touch over the years and Trevor attended Kings while I attended Dal. I, like many others, was shocked when I heard the news on Saturday – disbelief – could there be another Trevor Greene? I am looking for the sense in what happened, but I guess Trevor, who is very dedicated to all causes he takes on, surely knows the answer to that. If his parents/family are reading these messages, I am thinking about you daily and looking forward to a full recovery.
I hope that other Cairine Wilson students find their way to this site.
Mike Turner – March 7, 2006 8:53 PM
I was also a King’s student with Trevor. We went to Japan together in September 1988 and had some great times. I was convinced he was never going to be able to learn Japanese! He proved me wrong, big time. I think he is the type of person that touches everyone he comes across. All my prayers and best wishes.
Barb Stegemann – March 8, 2006 1:41 AM
Hello everyone,
Trevor has been one of my closest friends for close to 20 years. We rowed in University together and stayed in close contact as we often lived in the same city as eachother. We are co-presidents together of the University of King’s College BC Alumni Chapter. It is your prayers and support and positive wishes that are getting his family through right now. His fiance Deb wanted me to pass that message along.
I would like to invite any of you in the Vancouver region to join the close friends of his fiance Deb, myself and another dear friend of Trevor’s from King’s, Clare McIntyre at a Positive Thoughts Gathering – the invite is below. If you can’t join us, we encourage you to send your good thoughts Trevor’s way during his time of healing.
A Positive Thoughts Gathering For Captain Trevor Greene – Wednesday March 8, 2006 at 7pm
In an effort to send strength to Captain Trevor Greene and his family, please join us in a positive thoughts gathering at Jericho Beach in Vancouver (directions below) on Wednesday March 8 at 7pm.
Your thoughts are very much appreciated at this sensitive time in his recovery. Thank you for your continued support during this difficult time.
This important gathering is rain or shine so please dress warmly, bring an umbrella, a covered candle, a flashlight and your positive thoughts. Feel free to forward this invitation to others who would be interested in attending this private gathering.
Directions to Jericho Beach:
– travel west on 4th Avenue in Vancouver
– turn right on NW Marine Drive
– turn right on Discovery Street (just before the the white Jehrico Arts Center Building)
– veer right towards the Jericho Beach Sailing Club and parking lot
– proceed to the beach access point to the left of the Jericho Beach Sailing Club (as you are facing
the water)
Thank you,
Barb Stegemann
Mike Howell – March 8, 2006 1:48 AM
I just sent this link to Trevor’s family. They may pick it up in Germany. As you can imagine, they probably won’t spend much time logged in but I know we are all finding comfort in the kind words and thoughts.
Cousin Mickey
Candace – March 8, 2006 3:57 AM
http://wakinguponplanetx.blogspot.com
For those of you leaving messages, I am continuing to monitor them & forward them to Germany where a hard copy is printed & given to the family so they can focus on whatever it is they need to do. Alan, I hope to be in touch with the Chaplain tomorrow (the Captain I’m dealing with is understandably busy) – I will email you the contact info (with, I’m sure, his permission) to forward to KC.
Alan – March 8, 2006 8:05 AM
Thanks Candace. And others, glad this short post of mine is turning out to be something so positive for you all. Barb, say Hi to Clare. I know her and here brother Macky from Kings days.
Stephen Kimber – March 8, 2006 10:55 AM
http://www.stephenkimber.com
Just a brief note to thank you for setting up this site and ask you to pass on to Trevor’s family that we’re all thinking of him here at King’s and hoping for his complete recovery.
Trevor was a student of mine during his time in the journalism school and we kept in touch sporadically over the years. What I remember most clearly is his eternal optimism and belief that any problem could be overcome if you put your mind to it. Which is probably what led him to Afghanistan.
Still, I was stunned, almost disbelieving when I first learned the news of the attack on Sunday. Trevor and I last emailed a bit when he was doing his bad date book, but I hadn’t realized he’d joined the military and certainly didn’t know he’d been deployed to Afghanistan. At first, I couldn’t connect all the dots, but the more I read about what he’d been doing over there and his optimistic dream of helping out the Afghan people, even after he leaves the military, I couldn’t help thinking, “That’s Trevor.”
I know how difficult this must be for Trevor’s many, many friends. Please know only that we are all thinking of him and all of you at this time, and just trying to be as optimistic and positive as Trevor would be.
Take care,
Stephen
Alan – March 8, 2006 11:21 AM
Just to let people know how much concern there is for Trevor’s well being, the list below from my web site administration statistics shows how many people are looking for information on the web and have come to this post on my blog just over a few minutes. From IP addresses moving by I can see many old school mates being among the concerned. I hope being able to share a bit is helping:
Barry Moores – March 8, 2006 11:38 AM
Hello all,
I graduated with Trevor and others who’ve posted to this site. Some of us gathered at King’s this summer past, including Trevor, Briggsy, Ellis, Mills, Dunc, Steele, Chis, Maher, Tuck et al et al, the boys at 40, filling the Wardroom with hee-haw and passing beers in the quad on a beautiful, soft night. We all went back to my hotel room and I’m proud to say we were asked twice to turn the music down. I’m in a wheelchair now and upon returning home I was telling my friends how far I had to tilt back my head to talk with Trevor, he’s so tall. I also spoke with pride about this tall buddy who was going to A-Stan and putting more weight on his strong shoulders. Everybody here is praying hard too, sending messages of love, hope and recovery all the way around the planet.
Soon,
Mo-Res
Lisa Howell – March 8, 2006 12:23 PM
To Trev,
CONSTANT thoughts and prayers from “It’s All Relative” travel club. Dad, “Gunna” (Kendra) and I (“LeesyBoo”) are sending you lots of love. The 4 of us and others have created many memories taking trips skiing, river rafting and generally having mischievous fun. Please know we’re right there with you on this journey too. Kendra’s usually the one that takes a nap on our trips… I guess it’s your turn on this one. Can’t wait for you to wake up! Hugs and kisses to your cluster of love over there (Saint Debbie, Aunt Bessie, Uncle Dick, Suzzy-Q, and of course precious Gracie),
Lots of Love
Cousin Lisa
Mike Turner – March 8, 2006 1:59 PM
Alan,
Thanks for continuing this section of your Blog. I can see that it is an important medium for many of Trev’s friends & loved ones to keep in touch. Please keep up the outstanding & needed work.
susan campbell – March 8, 2006 2:03 PM
I see I’m not the only Kings J-School grad to log on here. It’s nice to see so many representatives of the small but mighty class of ’88 are out there, wishing hard for Trevor’s recovery. I’ll add my name to that list.
Alan – March 8, 2006 2:05 PM
Glad to be able to help, Mike, especially for so many who likely also crossed my own path twenty years ago or so like Trevor. There is really no heavy lifting from my end as all these best wishes effectively create the space themselves.
You know if anyone were to want to post digital photos here or anything else, feel free. I can be emailed at genx40@gmail.com and would be happy to help.
Michael Colwell – March 8, 2006 2:27 PM
I went to highschool with Trevor and remained a close friend through our university years. My parents considered Trevor their third son – I have many fond memories of the times we spent together. We lost touch in the 90s but reconnected last summer – surprised to find we lived in the same city! Everyone who knows Trev knows that he has the inner strength and determination to get through any challenge. If it can be done, he will do it! To Mr. and Mrs. Greene, Debbi, and the rest of the family – our prayers are with you.
Michael Colwell
Surrey, BC
And for Trev – it’s Miguel here. I’m going to hold you to the promise to come by for a swim and a beer in September. Maybe sooner! Get well soon.
Yours aye,
Miguel
Barb Stegemann – March 8, 2006 3:56 PM
Re: Charles Trevor Greene Order of British Columbia Nomination.
Friends of Trevor’s have applied to nominate him for the Order of BC. I have copied the emailed information below. They had enough info to submit the package, but a faxed letter before Friday by all of us who know him can help strengthen the application for nomination. I encourage you to read on, and fax your letter of support in to the office by Friday, March 10th. Letters of support to: Secretary of Awards via fax (250-356-2814).
Thank you in advance,
Barb Stegemann
(Here’s the email that was sent to me by Jamie, a friend of Debbi’s)
Hello,
My name is Radek; I am a colleague of Trevor’s from the military. My spouse, Kaethe, has nominated Trevor for both the order of British Columbia and the Order of Canada. With regards to the Order of British Columbia, the nomination committee requires letters of support, which unfortunately are due by Friday 10March2006. The minimum required number of letters has already been met; however, I believe the more the better, regardless of the deadline. If you or any of Trevor’s other friends would like to support this nomination, please send a letter to the following address:
Honours and Awards Secretariat
PO Box 9422
STN PROV GOVT
Victoria, British Columbia
V8W 9V1
RE: Charles Trevor Greene Order of British Columbia Nomination.
He has been nominated for his years of writing, work, and genuine passion towards helping those who have been forgotten, both in Canada and abroad.
Both Kaethe and I will attend the gathering tomorrow.
Thank you,
Radek
Radek sent a follow-up email to this indicating that faxes could also be sent (as long as the originals are also mailed) to the Secretary of Awards via fax (250-356-2814). The Friday deadline applies to faxes sent.
Clare (MacKenzie) MacIntyre – March 8, 2006 4:08 PM
Hey Everyone…
Thanks Al, for setting up this site – it is comforting to read the entries from friends and family from so many parts of Bubba’s life.
As Barb mentioned in her entry, we’ll be attending a gathering of friends and family at Jericho Beach in Vancouver tonight. I wish we could all be there together.
Barb and I visited with Debbie on Sunday afternoon. What a beautiful person, inside and out. She strongly believes that the prayers and the thoughts of encouragement are not only a comfort to the family…but that they are also reaching Trevor and will make a difference to his recovery.
So let’s keep it up! And let’s take Stephen Kimber’s advice…and be as positive and optimistic as we all know Trevor would be.
I’ll be faxing my letter of support for the Order of BC. I’d encourage you all to do the same!
Clare.
Jaime McLaren – March 8, 2006 4:08 PM
Hello everyone,
I am a close friend of Debbie and Trevor’s (I went through the Chartered Accountant program with Debbie at Pricewaterhouse in Vancouver). I have organized the positive thoughts gathering for Trevor for tonight, Wednesday March 8, 2006 at Jericho beach in Vancouver, BC at 7pm with the fantastic help of several other friends of Debbie and Trevor’s (see posting on March 8 for further details).
I have been in touch with family members over the last few days and I wanted to pass along that they are SO touched by the outpour of support. So please continue to send your positive thoughts and prayers. We hope to see anyone who is local tonight at tonights gathering.
Anonomous – March 8, 2006 4:45 PM
I am still in shock that this could happen to such an amazing person. Trev, you’ve made a difference, get well soon. Bee and Rabbit miss you 🙂
Andreia Bandeira – March 8, 2006 6:47 PM
Trevor and I met while in training in the Navy. Although we were not in the same class, we developed a great friendship in Esquimalt. He was so dedicated, kind, funny and gentle.
Everyone loved him!!!
His stories were always so exiting: ?from his surfing adventures in Japan, to his thrilling journey on HMCS Oriole ? he always kept us entertained!
When possible, we also shared lots of lunches at the local Vietnamese, Thai and Japanese restaurants. Yummmmm. 🙂
Moments with Trevor were never dull!
Unfortunately, my stay in the Navy was cut short and I lost contact with many friends, including Trevor. I miss him so very much?
After getting over the shock of the attack, I haven’t stopped thinking about him and his family. He always spoke so highly of his parents. (I can only hope that my children will do the same one day).
Trevor – you will always be close to my heart and in my prayers. We’re all behind you?keep on fighting!
To Trevor’s family – I wish you infinite strength & courage to overcome this tremendous period.
With tender love and kindest regards,
Andreia (Toronto)
Alan – Thanks for setting up this blog!
Lisa enns – March 8, 2006 7:07 PM
I met Trevor while he was working on “Bad Date”. Spent a short amount of time with him but was so impressed (and still am) by his zeal for everything, his passion and compassion for everything he put his hand to. Even then, he was talking about going to Afghanistan someday.
There has been a consistent prayer on my tongue and in my heart since I heard the news. I’m convinced God is hearing the prayers of everyone calling out during these days. Blessings and peace to the family.
Lisa Enns, Vancouver, BC
Cousin Phil – March 8, 2006 7:53 PM
Trevor, Bess, Dick, Suzanne, Debbie & Grace Elizabeth:
Can’t describe how sick I feel about the rottenness that has happened to my little cousin. New Waterford and Cape Breton are praying for that speedy recovery. We know that Trevor will be playing soccer again in our garage with Meaghan and we will “toast” his return to New Waterford. The causeway will say “Ciad Mile Failte” to you my special guy.
Colette Budge – March 8, 2006 8:47 PM
Hey Alan:
Thanks for this. It somehow has given me the bit of reconnection that I needed. – CB –
I have finally stopped searching the web for everything I can find out about Trevor. My mind keeps going over all the “Trevor at King’s” memories that I have of him (mostly of his grimacing at me from the 8 seat as I yell at him to slow up on the slide)and despite the tears, I can smile. I know Trevor is strong to the core and that his mischevious grin will shine again.
Keep that fighting spirit, Trevor . . . love Gumby
Colette Budge
Alan – March 8, 2006 8:51 PM
Hey, Colette. Hope you’re well. [What’s the 8 seat?]
Meaghan – March 8, 2006 9:24 PM
Trevor!
We are all thinking of you here in N-Dub aka New Waterford.
get better soon!!!
anyways, lots of love
Meggy
Glen Beaton – March 8, 2006 9:25 PM
Aunt Bess and uncle Dick, our hearts and prayers
are with Trevor and you and family. With all of Cape Breton praying for him you know all is going to be well. Tell Trevor there is a bottle
of Keith’s in the fridge waiting for him, we WILL
celebrate his healthy return, after all he does have Cape Breton blood in him.
Glen Beaton & Family
Colette Budge – March 8, 2006 9:26 PM
Hi Alan:
Yes, all is well. I would love to chat more with you to catch up.
During my rowing at king’s the 8 seat was the person closest to the coxwain (me). Poor sod, as i had to shout load enough for the guy in seat 1 to hear me. Trevor took it well, kind person that he is.
-C-
Donna Saker – March 8, 2006 9:34 PM
Oh God,
I just got this sent to me……I went to high school with Trevor…I now live in Australia, so we don’t get a lot of this kind of news here…….so I was shocked and sickened to see this…….I am sending you all the positive Karma in the world and to his family……Always remember his cheeky smile in the lobby at school……
Donna Saker
Graeme Bryden – March 8, 2006 9:35 PM
You, Bess, and Dick are in my thoughts. I’ve been tied to the news since hearing.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/4776238.stm <---- You made the BBC Look forward to seeing you again. Graeme Alan - March 8, 2006 9:37 PM Colette, now you have added a memory. Me on campus police overnight watch you guys (Trevor and Robin, too, wasn't it in that gang) head out to the cold NW Arm as I planned for hitting the hay thinking you were nuts. Colette Budge - March 8, 2006 10:06 PM Yup, we were a bit nutty, we even thought so, but it was worth it. Macky, Hooper, Trevor, Doogie, Robin, Steve Mc, Neil, and shoot, I cannot remember the fellow's name in 1 seat. Smaller fellow with a quiet way and a shy grin (Dark hair, I would send photos if my %#@@ scanner was working.) I think he graduated that year (84-85). I think Trevor was in the 8 seat the couple of years after Macky had graduated. -C- Marilyn and Carl Colwell - March 8, 2006 10:18 PM We were devastated to hear the news of the attack on the weekend. Trevor and our older son, Michael, were best of friends in high school and he was like our third son. Many hours were spent cheering them on in basketball and volleyball and our son, Kevin, bore the brunt of much teasing on their part. Although we’ve seen him infrequently in the last few years, he has always held a special place in our hearts. Dick and Bess, please know that you and your family are foremost in our thoughts and prayers. Marilyn and Carl Colwell Orleans, Ontario Gary Beaton - March 8, 2006 10:18 PM Aunt Bess, Uncle Dick and Suzanne Words simply aren't enough to describe the shock,dismay and sick feeling from this senseless act. Its been quite a long time since our childhood when you guys would visit cape breton.. I've been away for many years and I can still remember those times. I also recall when I read a reference to Trevor's book "Bad Date" and how frantic I was in my search to get a copy and read whatever references I could find to interviews and the like .. had a proud sort of feeling in my searching... and by the messages I read here on this forum I can see how and why he is held in such high regard. Our hearts and many prayers here in Newfoundland are with you.. and a wish of godspeed in Trevor's recovery. Gary, Denise & Maggie Beaton patti dunn - March 8, 2006 10:53 PM http://www.goalgettingfitness.com
i heard of this attack on trevor just a few days ago. i am just so sad. i had the chance to re-connect with trevor a few years ago in vancouver. he i sthe same smiling, happy guy that is so dedicated to what ever task he takes on. i am praying for him and thinking of him everyday. everyone think postive thoughts for him, his strong will and spirit will bring him home soon!
my thoughts are with you Trev
Patti Dunn
Stephen Forest – March 8, 2006 11:11 PM
It certainly says a lot about a man that prayers and best wishes are coming quick from coast to coast for Trevor.
It’s an honour to say I went to King’s with Trevor and that I met someone who did more than say he wanted to make a difference, but actually went out and did it. A lot of us have dreams; not as many act on those dreams.
Trevor, you are a credit to your school, your country and most importantly your family.
Get well soon,
Stephen
Greg Macdonald – March 8, 2006 11:12 PM
Hey all,
Thanks for setting this up Al. I know a lot of us have been digging around the last few days for anything we can find on Trevor. So it was kind of a relief to get a note from Brian Cormier tonight with a link to your site. Count me in as another Class of ’88 BJ (always loved that tag). Hi Barry – nice to see your scribbling again; Susan – it was a pleasant surprise to be driving through Quebec in 2002 on the way back east and hear your dulcet tones on the CBC; and Sara C, it’s been way too long. Stephen K – saw you yesterday on Newsnet along with Greg Guy – and I always thought the beard was just a phase you were going through:)
Back at Kings I occasionaly referred to Trevor as the Golden Boy because he was such a tall, blond, pretty boy with the sunniest disposition that I’d ever come across. He was always so positive – even when he got angry it just seemed to be for show. You just couldn’t take him seriously as being really and truly pissed off.
Sunday night I went digging through my old Kings pics. There is one of Trevor that I’ve always loved. It was our last year and I think we had either put our final newspaper to bed or were done of classes at the end of the second semester. The crew of us wound up at the old Gingers brewpub. For some reason we were in the guys bathroom and Trevor had a cigarette (obviously not his and unlit of course – must have bummed it off Barry or Dave for fun). He said, “I’m James Dean – take a picture of me.”
Why I had a camera in the guys bathroom at Gingers sharing a moment with Trevor, I don’t know. But I do have that great picture of him with his hands in his pockets, leaning against the urinal (yuck), with the cigarette sticking up out of his mouth in his best faux cool pose.
Clare, please pass on my thoughts and best wishes to Trevor’s family. We’ll all be thinking of him and thinking
those positive thoughts over the next while. Please let us know if there’s anything we can do for the family and in the meantime we’ll just have to look forward to seeing Trevor back up on his feet again.
Greg Macdonald
gary landry – March 9, 2006 2:19 AM
Thanks Mickey for the link!
Like everybody I was shocked to hear about this incident and hope and pray that Trevor returns to his old self.
Aunt Bess, Uncle Dick, Suzanne,and Debbie please send our love from the Landry’s to Trevor. Suz, I hope / know that you will call mom when you get back on Friday with any new news. Sending all our love from N.S.
Gary
Lynn (Langille) Schwartz – March 9, 2006 2:35 AM
Hi everyone,
Not sure who out there remembers me, but I too was a King’s Grad and began residence life there in 1984 with Trevor and many others that have written messages from here. (I even substituted for Colette once with the mens 8, but did such a crummy job that they were thrilled to have her back! 🙂 Trevor was a great friend to me in our first year at Kings and he and his roomie, Peter Classen and I often spent many hours together hanging out. We were referred to as the 3 musketeers for awhile that first fall. That first year was one of the best in my life and I wish i had stayed on campus longer instead of moving into an apt. I lost touch with many after that… Truly a regret of mine as life on campus was very special for all of us. We were all blessed to have had the experience of the community life at Kings.
Trevor is one of those guys that just made you feel like you were his best friend even though he had many. His smile is beautiful and his personality is endearing. I am so interested to learn all that he has accomplished and is doing since he graduated.
I was shocked by the news last weekend and saddened that Trevor has been terribly hurt so senselessly. I can so see him doing what he did in such a gesture of good faith. I have had his email address on my desk for some time now, since I found it in the Kings TIDINGS mag last fall, thinking I would love to re- connect with him sometime in Vancouver. I am a teacher in Kelowna, BC, and am married with 2 daughters.
Trevor is one in a million and Im convinced that he will pull through this with all of our prayers and love. Funny how it takes something like this to bring people together again. Trevor would be thrilled Im sure to know that.
Take care everyone…
Lynn (Langille) Schwartz
The Family (currently in Landshtul Germany) – March 9, 2006 7:16 AM
We thought this would be a good place to post messages from the family here in Germany.
I have received and read all emails up to this point and unfortunately am unable to respond to them all individually. We are passing along to Trev all positive thoughts and prayers as we receive them.
We personally want to thank everyone who organized and attended the vigil at Jericho beach, Vancouver on Wednesday night, and those who send their prayers but were unable to attend. It absoultely makes a difference in his progress and ours and the entire family is so grateful.
People from all denominations have been praying for Trevor, from the East Coast to the West Coast. A huge thank you!
The doctors and nursing staff at the Landstuhl US medical hospital are among the best in the world, literally, and have been working tirelessly to help Trevor come back to Vancouver, which we hope will be next week. Everyday there are improvements with Trevor. Most people that know Trevor, know he’s a fighter and he’s fighting really hard.
Grace is doing really well and has some new friends of other patients in the hospital. The family is all together here…..and getting to know each other really well!
Our sincere and hearfelt thanks to you all,
Love Debbie, Grace, Toni, Dick, Bess, Suzanne, and Trevor
Alan – March 9, 2006 9:32 AM
Hello all,
Best wish to the Greenes in Germany. That is great news. And, Greg, thanks for sharing the urinal story. I am a little unclear on this too, however:
As you see below, I received some photos taken by Michael “Miguel” Colwell from the celebration for Trevor in Vancouver last evening. These photos are all thumbprints which means you can click on them for a very large version. If anyone else wants to share other photos – even ones other than in the bathroom at Gingers – please feel free to email them to me at genx40@gmail.com.
LouAnn Chiasson – March 9, 2006 10:19 AM
I remember Trevor fondly from my time at King’s. We have not kept in touch but the news of this devastating tragedy has shocked everyone. I remember Trevor as a person with a generous spirit and a ready smile. It is not at all surprising that he put his life on the line to help others. It is no less surprising that the picture in the newspaper is of Trevor smiling and shaking hands with Afghan people. Trevor has an ability to connect with all people. My thoughts and prayers are with Trevor and his family.
LouAnn Chiasson
Lisa, Bear & Riley – March 9, 2006 10:51 AM
Deb, Trev & Grace,
There isn’t a day I don’t think about you guys. We are all sending you good thoughts.
Lots of love – see you when you come home.
xoxo Lisa
Pamela Halstead – March 9, 2006 11:00 AM
Trevor has been on my mind constantly the last few days. Though I had not seen him in years he was one of those people that pops up occasionally. An email here and there, a phone call when I was in Calgary and he was visiting. Funny how some people cross your path again and again. And it is not hard to see from reading the many emails the great number of friends that Trevor has and the number of people that he has touched. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and his fiance in this terrible time. I lost my Dad this past year in a dreadful accident and the beautiful thing that comes out of tragedy is the incredible way that it brings people together. I imagine Trevor in the hospital recovering as the love and strength of the thousands of people he touched around the world cradles him and supports him through his recovery.
Aunt Peggy and Johnnie – March 9, 2006 11:25 AM
Bess, Dick, and family,
Was deeply saddened and upset by this terrible news. I am in touch with Adeline on a regular basis with any news she has. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Happy to hear there are improvements every day.
Paul, Ann Marie, and Fraser White – March 9, 2006 11:31 AM
Dick, Bessie, Suzanne, and Trevor’s family,
We were shocked to hear of this tragic news. We send love and prayers to you from Truro, N.S.
Jody Sutherland – March 9, 2006 12:30 PM
Trevor,Debbie,Grace,Bess,Suzanne and Dick
I am just sick over what has happened and my heart is very heavy these days. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. It is constantly on my mind. But I know that with all the prayers that are being said in the homes and churches in New Waterford and Cape Breton all will be ok. The good lord above will take care of things.
Dave White – March 9, 2006 1:10 PM
Hey, guys. I’m sure Trevor bummed that smoke off Barry in Ginger’s, not me. I wouldn’t contribute to the erosion of guy like Trev.
Greg Macdonald called me on Saturday to tell me about the news. I spent the rest of the morning watching Newsnet. I just could not believe it.
Trevor called me about three years ago. He wanted to get back into the journalism racket and was inquiring about work with the CBC in Whitehorse. We didn’t have anything at the time, and we fell out of touch again. Obviously, I wish like hell we could have found something for him. I’ve been thinking about that a lot this week.
I’m also thinking about this; this website is why I love King’s. I recognize so many names from the past, J-school classmates and others. It’s nice to see people come out of the woods, even though it took something so terrible.
It shows Trevor really is loved. And valued.
I don’t pray, but I’m thinking about him – and everyone – a lot.
Barb Stegemann – March 9, 2006 1:31 PM
Last night’s thought gathering for Trevor and Debbie, Grace, Dick and Bessie, and Suzie at Jericho Beach was amazing. Over 45 people came out in the rain and wind. It was a mosaic of Trevor’s experiences. Friends throughout the ages from highschool, university, work, the Forces, volunteer work, Deb’s friends, were all out in droves.
It was amazing to see all these people arriving like clockwork at 7:00 p.m. to send powerful thoughts to Trevor and the family. The one message that I would like to restate is that Trevor promised me that I would be his “best man” at his wedding, and I have this amazing Jean Paul Gaultier jacket with open back and sash all ready to go.
I also did mention at the thought gathering what really matters. Trevor’s gift is to speak on behalf of those who can’t. Whether it was communicating on behalf of the people living in the streets of Japan, the missing women on the east side, Canada’s poorest postal code, or the people of Afhanistan. The one thing I am sure of is that Trevor would want us all to ensure that his work and the work of his colleagues in Afghanistan will not be in vain.
We now must pick up the collective torch on his behalf until he’s stronger (and then we’ll gladly hand it back to you Bubba). We must ensure that we continue to support the work Trevor set out to do and support Canadian Peacekeepers and our role in helping the people of Afghanistan who have asked us as a country to help them.
Babs
Greg Guy – March 9, 2006 1:49 PM
Hi Bubba and family,
Since hearing the news on Saturday, you’ve been in our thoughts and prayers.
I know you will pull through this and you will be back doing what you do so well — helping others.
Babs and I have been talking daily and have been saying pretty nice things to the media about you, dear friend. You’re a great example to us all.
The King’s fraternity has rallied together and know you’ll be on your feet soon. Thanks for helping to create this on-line reunion. So good to read postings from others and thanks Al for setting this up. Trevor will be having a good laugh.
Bubba, hi to your mom and dad, Debbie and dear little Grace.
We’re praying for you all.
From your fellow Cape Breton-born lad,
Big hugs and loads of prayers,
Greg Guy
P.S. Can’t wait to raise a glass together, soon, at the Lower Deck or the Shoe.
Robyn (Woodworth) Gibson – March 9, 2006 2:08 PM
I echo the sentiment that this is a wonderful forum that Al has provided. Like all of you I was saddened deeply by what has happened to Trevor and his family. I live on the west coast as well and have been lucky enough to have spent a good deal of time with Trevor both back and kings and now here. It is through that time together that I have observed strength and resolve which gives me the confidence to beleive and know he will recover. One small example of this was while I was still living in Vancouver (I am now in Penticton). Trevor was always calling me up looking for some kind of outdoor adventure. You must remember that most of these activities he had never done before. One sunday morning I was getting ready to go for a nice long road cyle on my own. Trevor called and asked if he could join me, I said sure. An hour later is was at my door with his 1985 mountain bike and wearing flip flops. Now you must envison me completely clad in lycra and desperately trying to do my best impression of lance armstrong but looking more like an overstuffed sausage sitting on a alum fram bike worth more that most cars I have owned. I proceeded to try and talk Trevor out of what we were about to do, but he would have none of it. The ride was to go from kitsilano in Van out around UBC and then out behind the airport. Off we went, I took no pity on him until the small hill up to UBC where I stopped to give him the opportunity to turn around. at this point Trevor stood on the pedals and whizzed by with challenging cat calls, which I could barely hear over the flapping of his sandals on the pedals. So off we went, Trevor was never more than a few yards behind me and when I would look back at him I would get nothing but that boyish grin of his. We had a great ride. Just one of many magical times with the lad. I know his Lion heart will not fail him now.
My thoughts are with him. I look forward to having him recover by my pool this summer as we watch out two little girls get to know each other and our wives pour us beer and message our feet (OK the last part is unlikely)
I would love to post some photos of The lad with his baby girl but for the life of me don’t know how. Help me out Al
Robyn
Alan – March 9, 2006 2:12 PM
Brian Cormier gave me a heads up about this good news on the Kings website today:
These sorts of contacts along with continued sharing here are sure to let him and his family know the extraordinary support that friends from all parts of Trevor’s life are wanting to give.
Alan – March 9, 2006 2:13 PM
Hey Robin. Hope you are well. If you email me the digital photo, I will remove your thumb from the image and then post it. Send it to genx40@gmail.com.
Alan – March 9, 2006 2:16 PM
PS – “our girls” and “our wives”? I have been out of touch with you Roy-boon.
Dave White – March 9, 2006 2:19 PM
By the way, Al, there may not be a place in heaven for people who work up websites like this, but there is a table at Bombay Peggy’s in Dawson City for you. And I’d like to share it with you some time.
Alan – March 9, 2006 2:24 PM
That would be a good day. Likewise you guys and Kingston.
[…’cause you know I am so against beers and pubs as a matter of personal principle.]
Sarah Hubbard – March 9, 2006 2:26 PM
Hello all, and thanks Al, for setting this up and giving us all a place to feel connected and to pass along our thoughts.
I am yet another King’s grad from ‘way back when’ and, like some others, I’ve been having “King’s flashbacks” all week. It’s been a few years since I last saw Trevor in Halifax, but he was obviously enjoying life to the fullest and smiling from ear to ear, just as I remembered him from King’s!
I was – and still am – shocked by the news of this attack and I wanted to add my ‘good thoughts’ and prayers to all of those across the country and beyond. Get well, Trevor, and hope you’re back home with your family soon.
Take care everybody –
Sarah
Bonnie Wilson – March 9, 2006 2:39 PM
I first heard of Trevor when I was in Australia. My Mom called from home on Christmas Day gushing about what a wonderful new boyfriend my cousin Debbie (Trevor’s now fiancée) had met. My Mom told me how funny and talented this guy was, and how he recently wrote a book about the missing women in Vancouver and gave everyone in the family a signed copy for Christmas. She was excited for me to meet him, and for me it added one more reason to look forward to coming home. It was apparent though that this guy stuck out in a crowd!
About a year later, most likely at one of our lovely over-eating family dinners, I met Trevor. Yup, he’s a great guy, and sure adds entertainment factor to our family functions with his fantastic stories of Japan, military, and his many travels and other adventures. I instantly looked up to him. (Note: and it wasn’t just because he is 6 foot 7 or something?.) We couldn’t ask for a better addition to our family. Plus, he loves our Grandmother, and she’s queen in my world.
This past Saturday morning, I was deeply saddened while eating breakfast and watching the news of Trevor on television. It was surreal, and of course, wasn’t supposed to happen to someone I know. But it did, and it sure brought Afghanistan into my living room. I could just picture Trevor sitting there talking to village elder, trying to make peace, and then?
After the attack occurred, I thought of Debbie and Trevor’s family. I thought of Grace, Trevor’s beautiful little girl, with the biggest blue eyes that will surely give her Daddy so much to live for. It was also soon in perspective how many lives Trevor would have touched throughout his life. All I can say is what an amazing guy. I truly feel honoured to have him part of my family.
We are all positive about Trevor’s condition and his recovery, and I can’t wait to see him at our next lovely over-eating family dinner.
Bonnie
Jennifer Inglis – March 9, 2006 3:20 PM
Like most others who have posted, Llew & I have spent much time over the last few days searching the net to find details on how Trevor was doing. Luckily, one of the staff in my office has a spouse in Afganistan so she has kept us well briefed.
When I visited the bigger site & learned about Trevor’s activities over the past 10 years I was impressed to see that he had managed to maintain the essence of who he had always been.
My first memory of Trevor was of his first day at Kings. He had arrived prior to the normal arrival date for the frosh. Several of us were on our way out of Alex Hall for dinner downtown so we invited him to join us. Partway through the evening, Veronica Newport commented on the sunny outlook he carried & whether he would still have it by the end of his first year! How truly amazing that he managed to maintain it not only through the challenging first year, but obviously his humanity is still primary.
Our thoughts & prayers will be with Trevor and with his family as they endeavour to keep him present as he recovers. All the best
adeline landry – March 9, 2006 3:25 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you, hope you will all be back home soon. Love Adeline
Tracy Taylor – March 9, 2006 3:41 PM
Trevor is a great friend from back in the Cairine Wilson, high school days. By reading these messages from everyone it is amazing how he has touched so many lives. He definitely stands out to me as being one of my best friends, even though it has been a very long time since we have been in contact. My heart sank deeply after receiving the phone call from Donna Gillespie that this happened to Trevor and it has forced me to do a lot of soul searching. Trevor is a real fighter and I know that he feels the outpouring of love and emotion from everyone. My thoughts and love are definitely going out to him and his entire family.
Thanks, Alan for putting this together. I really felt I needed to say something but had no where to go. The following may seem a little lame to all of the journalists reading this but, I just felt a need to put my words to paper.
Losing touch
Time goes slipping by?.
Life in our own little comfort zone.
Where is the person that I once was? I wonder what everyone is doing these days. I really should find out. These people have always meant so much to me. Memories come to mind and a smile comes to my face. Too busy or pre-occupied to find out what is going on in their lives. I am sure they are fine since no news is good news right? Life continues to happen. 10 years pass by, 15, 20. Did you hear so and so is doing this and that? “Wow that is awesome”, as I admire from afar. Smiles once again with a great warmth to fill my heart. Now, there is a person making a real difference in the world. I should do something like that too. I really should try and contact them. Married and 3 kids later. Life is more complicated, it is easier just to stay in your comfort zone and not reach out. All of this nonsense changes with a swing of an axe. Reality sets in and the heart cries out. I would give anything to have kept in touch.
Tracy Taylor – Ottawa
Alan – March 9, 2006 3:46 PM
Good words, Tracy, but it is really you guys and your sharing that is putting this together. I am glad all these thoughts will provide such a strong message of support to him and his family.
Kendra Howell – March 9, 2006 4:26 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Trevor. Uncle Dick, Aunt Bessie, Debbie, Little Gracie,Susanne and Andy, I am thinking about you constantly. Remember he has the best spirit – no one or thing is going to keep Trev down. I love you guys. Gunna
Jaime McLaren – March 9, 2006 4:45 PM
Hello everyone,
For those of you who couldn’t make it out last night because of distance etc, I wanted to share with you some sentiments from last nights positive thoughts gathering for Trevor and family at Jericho beach in Vancouver (see below)…..
WEDNESDAY MARCH 8, 2006 – 7PM – JERICHO BEACH, VAN
What can I say other than the fact that last night was truly amazing. Despite the rain, hail and strong winds, ~60 friends and colleagues gathered at Jericho beach in Vancouver last night to collectively send positive thoughts to Trevor, Deb and all of you. The mood was overwhelmingly positive. The atmosphere was magical with tiki torches lit and lanterns/candles burning brightly in the night.
Our goal for the evening was twofold; firstly, to simultaneously send positive thoughts to Trevor (which everyone believed would be very powerful) and secondly, to have everyone leave feeling positive, hopeful and informed. The goals for the evening were met and exceeded.
I kicked off the speaking at the gathering then opened up the floor to others. I was delighted that several of Trev’s friends and business associates came forward to share their sentiments, good wishes and humorous stories from the past.
Thank you to everyone who came out and battled the elements last night. You truly are amazing people and I am so confident that our message last night was heard and felt by Trevor and his family.
Continued positive thoughts……
Jaime
Glen Beaton – March 9, 2006 5:04 PM
Alan, just wanted to thank you for setting this up.I think i can say for all of Trevors cousins and other relatives here on the East coast that we thankyou. Trevor is an amazing person.
Thanks
Keith, Belinda, Johnathan and Jesse Beaton – March 9, 2006 5:22 PM
When an incident such as this happens it often has one questioning one’s own faith..to see a wonderfull individual who has devoted his life to help those less fortunate, injured in such a savage and needless attack..leaves one speechles. The world has become so materialistic and money driven that compassion for fellow man is becoming an increasingly rare quality..and one which Trevor possesed and believed in…Cuz my heart goes out to you..
Our hearts and prayers are with you all…Aunt Besse,Uncle Dick, Cuz’s Suzanne,Trevor..Keep positive and god bless…..
David Bryden – March 9, 2006 7:56 PM
Thinking of everyone with Trevor in this trying time. Good to hear that everyone is remaining strong. It is wonderful to see the outpouring of support by way of this website. Hope to see you again soon Trevor!
Stephen MacLean – March 9, 2006 8:14 PM
Hi Al,
Julianne and I wanted to add our thoughts and prayers for Trevor and his family.
I am one of the many King’s alumni who knew Trevor well. We spent three years together playing volleyball, two years on the rowing team, and have kept in touch periodically in the past 20 years. I have a neat picture of Trevor with his hand on Julianne’s (my wife, also a King’s alumnus) pregnant belly in St. Andrews New Brunswick about ten years ago. I will send it along. [Alan: I added it below. Click for larger.]
Ironically our other travel mate George died a few years ago, an anniversary that still haunts many of us from King’s. Trevor travelled to Halifax for the King’s reunion honouring George.
Trevor had visited our home a couple of years ago, and had my young daughter in stitches of laughter. By the end of the night, he was convinced that he was going to write a romance novel after talking to Julianne (who is a romance writer). Imagine a 6 1/2 foot blond hair-blue-eyed guy writing romance! He also spoke of Debbie. He spoke of her so fondly, and his happiness of having found “the one”, his one and true mate.
I was looking for a rowing quote written by Peter Classen that was appropriate. It went something like this:
If anyone has the full quote, please send it to me. Trevor, you’re strong of spirit, of mind and body. We are all pulling for you.
Yours aye,
Stephen, Julianne and Laura MacLean
Sheldon Beaton – March 9, 2006 8:16 PM
I have sent my sentiments to Trevor & family via the hospital liaison. However, I would like to say thanks to everyone who has posted. I have had the opportunity to learn a lot about my cousin, whom I haven’t really seen since childhood vacations.
I am extremely proud of Trevor and consider him to be a hero in the real sense of the word.I am proud to tell my kids and students about his service to Canada.
Thanks,
Sheldon
Sandy Pilgrim (nee Wilcox) – March 9, 2006 8:27 PM
I am awed by the number of people that Trevor has touched. Not surprised though. I mean, his spirit is awsome, his ideas (and ideals) grand, larger than life! His energy is consuming, joyous, and motivational. Who wouldn’t want to try and catch that wave for a while! I was lucky enough to be able “ride that wave” through our years together at Cairine Wilson, and then off and on thru the years. Right about now, High School seems like a year ago with all the memories and names that are turning up. I have so many thoughts and feelings, and feel totally inept at putting them in writing. Trevor is the wordsmith, I’ll let him say them for me:
I had kept a book that Trevor had inscribed to me, Richard Bach, Illusions, and thought to share what he’d written to me about 23 years ago. It is very “Trevor” to me.
//”The river delights to lift us free, if only we dare to let go.” That’s the hard part, Sandy Gale, to dare to let go. We sacrifice
the comfort of boredom and a sedentary life and gain the sadness and happiness of experience. Trev.//
I hope that my other messages have gotten thru to the Hospital but here they are in case:
Mr & Mrs Greene & Suzie – Please know all my thoughts, prayers and wishes are there for you. My parents, sister, and many old friends have
been inquiring and wanted me to sent along their thoughts also.
Deb – Trevor just sent me photos last week, and they are marvellous. Grace is beautiful (and has the bluest eyes!). I wish you strength.
Hugs and Kisses to Trevor and a speedy recovery. If there is anything that I can do from my little corner here in Abbotsford, I’d be more than happy to do so, in fact would welcome it.
God Bless.
xoxoxo
Troy Giles – March 9, 2006 9:22 PM
Thinking Back to old High school days There are many memories a person will recall . Some memories fade with time ,other memories still are vivid in ones mind . I went to Cairine Wilson with Trevor. We played “hoops” together on the high school team . We hung out together after school,on weekends and during the summers. I even remember attending more than a couple of house parties he had. One party I recall was the final day of his above ground pool which succumbed to the overloading of pool participants. The most vivid memory I have of Trevor is how one summer he and I played basketball everyday, either on his drivway or on mine. He said “Troy if you want to be a starter next season you have to keep practicing ” Trevor was a good B-ball player and his frienship drove me to be the best player I could be . Thanks to Trevor pushing me that summer, I did become one of the starting five. Trevor was also a great student and worked hard to bring home good grades . I am not surprized as to how accomplished he is in his life. I am positive that He will pull through in this difficult time in his life.
To His family I wish all the best
For Trevor I wish a full and complete recovery
Troy Giles
(C.W. 1983)
Kaethe Sabr – March 9, 2006 9:51 PM
Hello,
I would like to make a quick note about the website we are working on. The website is taking its sweet time to upload onto the web, so in the mean time a preview can be viewed at http://www.trevorgreene.ca.previewmysite.com. Once the actual site is up and running it can be viewed at http://www.trevorgreene.ca, which we anticipate happening within the next 24hrs. Any photos or quotes that people would like to have added to the site can be indicated it on this genx40 site. Thanks for everyone’s support so far.
Kaethe Sabr.
Ann Marie (Beaton) White – March 9, 2006 10:39 PM
I haven’t seen or talked to Trevor for many years when he and his family used to make yearly trips to Cape Breton. I too have learned alot about my cousin through these postings. It makes me proud to think of what a brave, courageous, smart man he is. Our thoughts are with you all!
Ed Slot & Family – March 9, 2006 11:56 PM
Hey Trev, Mrs. and Mr. “G”, Suzanne, family and friends. Our hearts and prayers are with you. Although I am deeply saddened by what has happened, I’m also proud and happy to learn what our boy Trev was doing. Damn you gotta love that guy!
Trev, we’re waiting on your recovery amigo. We expect nothing less.
Love, the Slot family
(Ed, Lily, Laura, J.J., Michael)
ps Trev, I was showing my kids the picture of you holding Laura when she was one years old, and my boys wanted to know why there wasn’t a picture of you with them….so…. now your on the hook amigo. See you when you get here!
Karen Wilson – March 10, 2006 12:31 AM
I first met Trevor a few years ago when he became my niece’s boyfriend. You can’t help but like him and I’ve seen my opionion of him expressed on this site over and over again by people who have known him a lot longer than I. He’s intelligent and funny and interesting and likeable and kind and the list could go on and on. He’s a caring and considerate and loving father and now fiance to my niece; he splits wood for my mother and messes up her kitchen as she teaches him, at his request, to make bread or jam. He introduced me to mussels an hour out of the ocean cooked in tomato, butter and garlic. He explored the lives of the most marginalized women in Vancouver and wrote a book that explained it to the rest of us. And this is what I’ve learned about Trevor in only 5 or so years!
Since this unfair and horrific attack on him, I’ve learned more about why he was in Afghanistan and what he hoped to accomplish: my respect and admiration for him has grown even more. He really is one of the good ones in this world and like so many others, my heart bleeds for him and for Debbie and his parents and all the others who love him.
God willing, Trevor will be back with us soon, alive and kicking. Like my daughter who wrote here before me, I too feel lucky to have him as part of our family and honored to know him.
My love and heartfelt thoughts go out to his parents and sister, whom I don’t know but would like to, and of course to Debbie and Grace. We’re all pulling for you!
Karen
patti dunn – March 10, 2006 2:13 AM
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It is so great to read everyone’s thoughts and stories. Trevor has touch so many people and all i can add is that each and all of our postive thoughts will bring him home very soon. This will be his next story that he will wr